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Marija run\u0101 caur Pamelu<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2008. gada 24. janv\u0101ris<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mani d\u0101rgie draugi! Es sveicinu j\u016bs. Mums ir \u013coti pat\u012bkama j\u016bsu kl\u0101tb\u016btne \u0161eit \u0161odien, un m\u0113s svinam j\u016bsu atra\u0161anos uz Zemes \u0161aj\u0101 laik\u0101. Pirms es kaut ko teik\u0161u par m\u016bsu \u0161odienas t\u0113mu \u2013 jaun\u0101s \u0113ras b\u0113rniem \u2013 es gribu piev\u0113rst uzman\u012bbu jums pa\u0161iem. Katru dienu j\u016bs cen\u0161aties atnest uz Zemi arvien vair\u0101k j\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s gaismas. Bie\u017ei j\u016bs izj\u016btat gr\u016bt\u012bbas dz\u012bv\u0113, un rodas iespaids, ka j\u016bs esat savu \u0137erme\u0146u un j\u016bs p\u0101r\u0146\u0113mu\u0161o garast\u0101vok\u013cu un emociju g\u016bst\u0101. M\u0113s gribam teikt jums, ka ticam jums un cien\u0101m visu, caur ko j\u016bs esat izg\u0101ju\u0161i \u0161aj\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113. M\u0113s m\u012blam j\u016bs t\u0101dus, k\u0101di j\u016bs esat, un gribam, lai j\u016bs vair\u0101k cien\u012btu sevi un visu, ko jau esat pasp\u0113ju\u0161i izdar\u012bt sav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113. Nezaud\u0113jot cer\u012bbu, lolojot savus sap\u0146us un m\u0113r\u0137us, pat, ja gaisma ap jums uz laiku dziest un jums n\u0101kas sadurties ar kav\u0113k\u013ciem, j\u016bs par\u0101d\u0101t savu di\u017eenumu un neredz\u0113tu sp\u0113ku. J\u016bs st\u0101d\u0101t gaismas s\u0113klas uz Zemes, un tas nes\u012bs savus aug\u013cus. Pateicoties savam iek\u0161\u0113jam darbam, j\u016bs esat rad\u012bju\u0161i tiltu jaunajai iemiesoju\u0161os dv\u0113se\u013cu paaudzei, kura v\u0113las izliet savu gaismu uz Zemes. Tie\u0161i par \u0161im dv\u0113sel\u0113m m\u0113s ar\u012b gribam parun\u0101t \u0161odien.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pirms s\u0101kt, es l\u016bdzu j\u016bs atgriezties atpaka\u013c laik\u0101 un sajust, k\u0101di j\u016bs bij\u0101t, kad k\u0101 jaundzimu\u0161ie tikko ien\u0101c\u0101t zemes valst\u012bb\u0101. Saj\u016btiet j\u016bsu ener\u0123ijas nevain\u012bbu un skaistumu, j\u016bsu nodomu patiesumu un ener\u0123iju delik\u0101tumu. Ak, j\u016bs tik ilgi bij\u0101t saist\u012bti ar Zemi! Tik daudz rei\u017eu j\u016bs k\u0101 mazi b\u0113rni iegrim\u0101t \u0161aj\u0101 dzi\u013cum\u0101. Tagad saj\u016btiet, k\u0101ds bija j\u016bsu nodoms \u0161aj\u0101 reiz\u0113. Iesp\u0113jams, j\u016bs atnes\u0101t sev l\u012bdzi bag\u0101\u017eu ar da\u017e\u0101m person\u012bg\u0101m probl\u0113m\u0101m, kuras gras\u012bj\u0101ties atrisin\u0101t \u0161aj\u0101 iemieso\u0161an\u0101s. T\u0101s var\u0113ja b\u016bt j\u016bsu dv\u0113seles dzi\u013cas s\u0101pes, kuras j\u016bs grib\u0113j\u0101t izdziedin\u0101t un p\u0101rvar\u0113t. Ta\u010du, v\u0113l bez t\u0101 j\u016bs vad\u012bja pla\u0161\u0101ka un univers\u0101l\u0101ka gar\u012bg\u0101s apzin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s un izaugsmes palielin\u0101\u0161anas uz Zemes ideja. J\u016bs zin\u0101j\u0101t, ka j\u016bs gras\u0101ties piedzimt p\u0101rie\u0161anas \u0113r\u0101, kr\u012bzes \u0113r\u0101, bet tai pat laik\u0101 ar\u012b jaunu iesp\u0113ju \u0113r\u0101. J\u016bs zin\u0101j\u0101t, ka ir j\u0101tiek izdar\u012btam noteiktam darbam, darbam iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b, kas izkl\u0101s jaunus ce\u013cus dom\u0101m un j\u016bt\u0101m. J\u016bs jut\u0101t saiti ar \u0161o di\u017eo glob\u0101lo transform\u0101ciju uz Zemes un bij\u0101t gatavi atkal ienirt \u0161aj\u0101 dzi\u013cum\u0101, lai pal\u012bdz\u0113tu \u0161\u012bs vec\u0101s idejas par mier\u012bgu Zemi, jaun\u0101s visu cilv\u0113ku vienot\u012bbas apzi\u0146as un atjaunotas harmonijas starp vis\u0101m dz\u012bvaj\u0101m plan\u0113tas b\u016btn\u0113m realiz\u0101cij\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Atkal un atkal j\u016bs lauz\u0101ties cauri vecajiem ierobe\u017eojumiem dom\u0101s un saj\u016bt\u0101s. Katru reizi, kad j\u016bs sajut\u0101t sevi iespiestus tradicion\u0101lo strukt\u016bru un noteikumu sp\u012bl\u0113s, dzi\u013ca iek\u0161\u0113ja zin\u0101\u0161ana, ka j\u016bsu dv\u0113sele nesp\u0113s mirdz\u0113t bai\u013cu un domin\u0113\u0161anas ielenkum\u0101 vai attiec\u012bb\u0101s, rad\u012bja j\u016bsos saj\u016btu, ka nepiecie\u0161ams izrauties br\u012bv\u012bb\u0101. Da\u017ereiz tas bija s\u0101p\u012bgi \u2013 atvad\u012bties un iet pa jaunu ce\u013cu, j\u0101, gr\u016bti un \u013coti smagi, bet jums bija j\u0101saka sev paties\u012bba, ka kaut kas nav t\u0101, ka tam priek\u0161 jums nav j\u0113gas vai ka kaut kas ir zaud\u0113ts. \u0160\u012b uztrauco\u0161\u0101 saj\u016bta atg\u0101din\u0101ja jums par j\u016bsu dv\u0113seles s\u0101kotn\u0113jiem nodomiem un m\u0113r\u0137iem. J\u016bs bij\u0101t nesp\u0113j\u012bgi piln\u012bb\u0101 atbilst sabiedr\u012bbas pras\u012bb\u0101m un ce\u013ciem, jo tie nesakrita ar to, k\u0101 j\u016bs k\u0101 dv\u0113sele grib\u0113j\u0101t dz\u012bvot uz Zemes. Jums bija paredz\u0113ts b\u016bt cit\u0101diem, ko priek\u0161 jums nebija iepl\u0101nojis ne Dievs, ne k\u0101da cita augst\u0101ka vara, bet gan tas, kas j\u016bs esat paties\u012bb\u0101. Noteikt\u0101 savas k\u0101 dv\u0113seles v\u0113stures br\u012bd\u012b j\u016bs iedvesmoja jauna apzi\u0146a, kuru m\u0113s saucam par Kristus apzi\u0146u, apzi\u0146u no sirds vai m\u012blest\u012bbu. Nav svar\u012bgi, k\u0101 j\u016bs to saucat. Svar\u012bgi, ka t\u0101 sk\u0101ra j\u016bs, ka iedvesmas dzirksts tr\u0101p\u012bja jums un rosin\u0101ja turpin\u0101t mekl\u0113t, sap\u0146ot un papla\u0161in\u0101t apzi\u0146u. Dzirksts, kas aizdedza jauno apzi\u0146u uz Zemes, tagad iekv\u0113lina daudzus. Tie\u0161i tas ir iemesls tam, ka Jaun\u0101s \u0112ras b\u0113rni j\u016bt aicin\u0101jumu n\u0101kt uz \u0161ejieni. Tie\u0161i \u0161\u012b iemesla d\u0113\u013c vi\u0146i jau vair\u0101kas desmitgades iemiesojas lielos daudzumos. Vi\u0146i ir \u0161eit, lai pabeigtu to, ko j\u016bs ies\u0101k\u0101t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u016bs, kas piederat iepriek\u0161\u0113jai Gaismas Darbinieku paaudzei, dzimu\u0161i apm\u0113ram l\u012bdz 1980. gadam, bij\u0101t priek\u0161te\u010di un novatori. J\u016bs iedvesmoja t\u0101 pati ideja, kas Gaismas B\u0113rnus tagad. Tas bija tas pats dv\u0113seles aicin\u0101jums. Ta\u010du pamats, kuru j\u016bs uzc\u0113l\u0101t, \u012bpa\u0161i 20. gadsimta 60-jos, 70-jos gados, bija daudz liel\u0101k\u0101 m\u0113r\u0101 iez\u012bm\u0113ts ar tradicion\u0101lajiem tic\u0113jumiem un dzi\u013ci iesak\u0146ot\u0101m bail\u0113m attiec\u012bb\u0101 uz pa\u0161izteiksmes, emociju, rado\u0161uma un seksualit\u0101tes br\u012bv\u012bbu. Ja j\u016bs atgriez\u012bsieties par gadiem \u010detrdesmit, piecdesmit atpaka\u013c, tad ieraudz\u012bsiet, ka Zemes kolekt\u012bvais ener\u0123\u0113tiskais lauks izskat\u012bj\u0101s iev\u0113rojam\u0101 m\u0113r\u0101 sav\u0101d\u0101k k\u0101 pa\u0161reiz\u0113jais. Tas bija maz\u0101k dzidrs, bl\u012bv\u0101ks un \u201cm\u0101ko\u0146ains\u201d un, attiec\u012bgi, maz\u0101k pieejams m\u012blo\u0161\u0101m un t\u012br\u0101m ener\u0123ij\u0101m, kuras tagad atrod savu ce\u013cu uz Zemi. Viens no iemesliem, kur\u0161 ietekm\u0113ja \u0161o m\u012blest\u012bbas un skaidr\u012bbas straumes palielin\u0101\u0161anos \u2013 ir sievie\u0161u vienl\u012bdz\u012bbas pieaug\u0161ana (s\u0101kusies 20. gadsimta s\u0101kum\u0101) vai, citiem v\u0101rdiem, sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas vienl\u012bdz\u012bbas un unik\u0101lo \u012bpa\u0161\u012bbu apzin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s pieaug\u0161ana. \u0100rk\u0101rt\u012bgi nepiecie\u0161am\u0101 sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas reabilit\u0101cija atbalst\u012bja pieaugo\u0161o saj\u016btu sf\u0113ras apzin\u0101\u0161anos un legaliz\u0101ciju dz\u012bv\u0113. Pag\u0101ju\u0161a gadsimta 60-to un 70-to gadu laik\u0101 \u013coti daudz kas atv\u0113r\u0101s emociju, intu\u012bcijas un rado\u0161uma sf\u0113r\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lielu darbu veica Gaismas Darbinieku vec\u0101k\u0101 paaudze, un tas vi\u0146iem daudz maks\u0101ja, jo vi\u0146i izg\u0101ja caur \u0161aubu un vientul\u012bbas iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101m ielej\u0101m, pirms sp\u0113ja atv\u0113rt jaunus horizontus atn\u0101ko\u0161ajai paaudzei. Ja j\u016bs piederat vec\u0101kai paaudzei \u2013 ziniet, ka j\u016bs uzst\u0101d\u012bj\u0101t b\u0101ku tiem, kas n\u0101k aiz jums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tagad j\u016bs nododat l\u0101pu jaunajai paaudzei. Un, to nododot, j\u016bs varat nodro\u0161in\u0101t vi\u0146us ar atbalstu un iedro\u0161in\u0101jumu, bet vi\u0146i var iedvesmot j\u016bs ar savu dedz\u012bbu un sir\u017eu t\u012br\u012bbu. Vi\u0146i ir cit\u0101di v\u0113l liel\u0101k\u0101 m\u0113r\u0101, k\u0101 bij\u0101t j\u016bs. Ja j\u016bs v\u0113l sp\u0113j\u0101t uz laiku vai da\u013c\u0113ji piem\u0113roties apk\u0101rtnei, kura paties\u012bb\u0101 nerezon\u0113ja ar jums, tad vi\u0146i nav sp\u0113j\u012bgi izdar\u012bt to pat \u0101r\u0113j\u0101s uzved\u012bbas l\u012bmen\u012b. Citiem v\u0101rdiem, vi\u0146i nevar izlikties pat uz laiku. Vi\u0146u emocijas un fiziskais \u0137ermenis protest\u0113 dzi\u013caj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b, kad vi\u0146i saduras ar daudzu tradicion\u0101lo apm\u0101c\u012bbas sist\u0113mu un b\u0113rnu audzin\u0101\u0161anas pa\u0146\u0113mienu ierobe\u017eojo\u0161aj\u0101m ener\u0123ij\u0101m. Piem\u0113ro\u0161an\u0101s nav iesp\u0113jama daudziem no \u0161iem b\u0113rniem. \u012apa\u0161i jut\u012bg\u0101kie no vi\u0146iem fiziski un emocion\u0101li cie\u0161 vecaj\u0101 ener\u0123\u0113tiskaj\u0101 apk\u0101rtn\u0113, un vi\u0146u uzved\u012bba k\u013c\u016bst tik problem\u0101tiska, ka apk\u0101rtne ir spiesta atbild\u0113t un main\u012bties. Represijas un probl\u0113mas ignor\u0113\u0161ana vairs nav iesp\u0113jamas. Tagad atn\u0101ko\u0161ie b\u0113rni piespied\u012bs sabiedr\u012bbu dzi\u013ci aizdom\u0101ties par pa\u0161as uzskatiem par b\u0113rniem un par dz\u012bvi kopum\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u0113rni, kuru dzimst tagad (un piedzims n\u0101ko\u0161o tuv\u0101ko desmitga\u017eu laik\u0101), nes sev l\u012bdzi uz zemes valst\u012bbu daudz liel\u0101ku savas dv\u0113seles pilno apzi\u0146as da\u013cu nek\u0101 vairums no jums. Kad j\u016bs ien\u0101kat zemes valst\u012bb\u0101, j\u016bs izejat caur \u201caizmir\u0161anas aizkl\u0101ju\u201d, kur\u0161 atdala j\u016bs no dimensijas, no kuras es tagad run\u0101ju. \u0160is aizkl\u0101js ir l\u012bdz\u012bgs brill\u0113m, kuras, kad j\u016bs t\u0101s uzliekat, liek jums notic\u0113t, ka j\u016bs esat atsevi\u0161\u0137s Es, iesl\u0113gts j\u016bsu \u0137ermen\u012b. Faktiski \u201caizmir\u0161anas aizkl\u0101js\u201d dod jums iesp\u0113ju piedz\u012bvot dualit\u0101ti uz Zemes, un tas pie\u0161\u0137ir tai v\u0113rt\u012bbu, ta\u010du tagad ir pien\u0101cis laiks aizkl\u0101jam k\u013c\u016bt caursp\u012bd\u012bg\u0101kam un at\u013caut vair\u0101k sakaru starp pus\u0113m. Eksist\u0113 arvien vair\u0101k un vair\u0101k cilv\u0113ku, kuri lau\u017eas cauri aizsegam un saprot, ka vi\u0146i ir vienoti ar kaut ko liel\u0101ku, nek\u0101 tikai \u0161is \u0137ermenis un \u0161\u012b person\u012bba. Jo vair\u0101k cilv\u0113ku to dara, jo vair\u0101k form\u0113jas kan\u0101lu, pa kuriem m\u012blo\u0161\u0101 kosmisk\u0101 ener\u0123ija izl\u012bst zemes dimensij\u0101. Uz \u0161\u012b kosmisk\u0101s ener\u0123ijas vi\u013c\u0146a tad ar\u012b brauc Jaunie B\u0113rni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pam\u0113\u0123iniet uz mirkli sajust \u0161o b\u0113rnu ener\u0123iju. Saj\u016btiet kosmisk\u0101s ener\u0123ijas vilni, uz kura vi\u0146i atn\u0101k. Nedom\u0101jiet pat to, vienk\u0101r\u0161i atveriet savu sirdi un at\u013caujiet saj\u016bt\u0101m iet caur jums. T\u0101s vibr\u0113 augst\u0101k\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b. Vi\u0146u ener\u0123ija var likties rota\u013c\u012bga, viegla, l\u012bdz\u012bga taurenim, bet, tai pat laik\u0101, apbr\u012bnojami gudra un dzi\u013ca. Vi\u0146i piln\u012bgi apzin\u0101ti izv\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s iemiesot savas dv\u0113seles, sava dievi\u0161\u0137\u0101 Es, liel\u0101ko da\u013cu uz Zemes. Vi\u0146i dara to, jo grib dot savu ieguld\u012bjumu apzi\u0146as transform\u0101cij\u0101 uz Zemes un piln\u012bb\u0101 apzin\u0101s, ka tas var vi\u0146iem sag\u0101d\u0101t nepatik\u0161anas. Sava Augst\u0101k\u0101 Es l\u012bmen\u012b, sav\u0101 apzin\u0101t\u0101kaj\u0101 da\u013c\u0101, vi\u0146i apzin\u0101ti izdar\u012bja \u0161o izv\u0113li. Emocion\u0101laj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b (iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 b\u0113rna l\u012bmen\u012b) vi\u0146us var traum\u0113t sadursme ar Zemes \u012bsten\u012bbu. Vi\u0146i risk\u0113 apjukt un iedz\u012bvoties nepatik\u0161an\u0101s zemes realit\u0101t\u0113, jo nesp\u0113j atsl\u0113gt savu jut\u012bgumu un paaugstin\u0101t\u0101s vibr\u0101cijas, kad atrodas maz\u0101k att\u012bst\u012bt\u0101 apk\u0101rtn\u0113. T\u0101dej\u0101di, vai nu vi\u0146iem b\u016bs j\u0101atrod sava vieta uz Zemes, kur var\u0113s dro\u0161i un br\u012bvi paust savu ener\u0123iju, vai ar\u012b j\u0101tiek gal\u0101 ar stipr\u0101m iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101m \u0161aub\u0101m un vil\u0161anos. J\u016bs redzat, cik v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u012bgas un m\u012blo\u0161as ir \u0161\u012bs dv\u0113seles, kuras risk\u0113. J\u016bs par\u0101d\u012bj\u0101t t\u0101du pa\u0161u v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u012bbu un m\u012blest\u012bbu, kad iemiesoj\u0101ties uz Zemes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tagad es piev\u0113rs\u012b\u0161os \u0161\u012bs jaun\u0101s paaudzes b\u0113rnu raksturojumiem. Protams, ne visi b\u0113rni ir vien\u0101di, un da\u017eiem \u0161\u012bs \u012bpa\u0161\u012bbas izpau\u017eas vair\u0101k k\u0101 citiem. Vien\u0101 noz\u012bm\u0113 visi \u0161odienas b\u0113rni ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgi. Vi\u0146i ir izg\u0101ju\u0161i caur citu (pl\u0101n\u0101ku) aizkl\u0101ju ar nodomu vair\u0101k, k\u0101 jeb kad tas ir bijis, izteikt savu dv\u0113seli mat\u0113rij\u0101. Ta\u010du katra dv\u0113sele atrodas sav\u0101 pa\u0161as att\u012bst\u012bbas l\u012bmen\u012b, un jaun\u0101s paaudzes b\u0113rnu vid\u016b ir \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi jut\u012bgi b\u0113rni, kuri v\u0113l vair\u0101k at\u0161\u0137iras no p\u0101r\u0113jiem un kurus bie\u017ei sauc par Jaun\u0101s \u0112ras b\u0113rniem vai, vienk\u0101r\u0161i, par Jaunajiem B\u0113rniem. Es tagad uzskait\u012b\u0161u pa\u0161us svar\u012bg\u0101kos \u0161\u012bs specifisk\u0101s b\u0113rnu grupas raksturojumus, bet atcerieties, ka \u0161\u012bs pa\u0161as rakstur\u012bg\u0101s iez\u012bmes maz\u0101k\u0101 m\u0113r\u0101, bet piem\u012bt visiem \u0161odienas b\u0113rniem. Faktiski, l\u012bdz ar apzi\u0146as att\u012bst\u012bbu uz Zemes rodas jauns cilv\u0113ks. Evol\u016bcija virz\u0101s virzien\u0101 uz soci\u0101l\u0101 un gar\u012bg\u0101 zi\u0146\u0101 att\u012bst\u012bt\u0101ku cilv\u0113ka sugu, sp\u0113j\u012bgu dz\u012bvot harmonij\u0101 ar dabu un saist\u012btu ar tuv\u0101kajiem ar vienot\u012bbas un cie\u0146as saj\u016btu. Att\u012bst\u012bbas virzienu uz \u0161o jauno cilv\u0113ku tad ar\u012b v\u0113sta \u0161ie b\u0113rni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jauno b\u0113rnu raksturojumi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Jaunajiem B\u0113rniem piem\u012bt arvien liel\u0101ks un liel\u0101ks v\u0113r\u012bgums, l\u012bdzj\u016bt\u012bba un telep\u0101tisk\u0101s sp\u0113jas<\/em><\/strong>. Vi\u0146i viegli p\u0101r\u0146em citu cilv\u0113ku garast\u0101vok\u013cus un emocijas. Robe\u017ea starp pasauli, uztveramu ar piec\u0101m saj\u016bt\u0101m, un saj\u016btu un ener\u0123iju neredzamo pasauli vi\u0146iem ir \u013coti pl\u016bsto\u0161a. Vi\u0146i bie\u017ei uztver lietu iek\u0161\u0113jo b\u016bt\u012bbu tikpat viegli k\u0101 \u0101r\u0113jo (fizisko) pusi. Vi\u0146us nav iesp\u0113jams maldin\u0101t ar \u0101r\u0113ju uzved\u012bbu, kura neatspogu\u013co to, kas patie\u0161\u0101m notiek iek\u0161ien\u0113. Vi\u0146u intuit\u012bv\u0101 uztvere ir \u013coti asa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Jaunie B\u0113rni \u2013 miera nes\u0113ji<\/em><\/strong>. Vi\u0146i j\u016bt aicin\u0101jumu samierin\u0101t karojo\u0161as partijas un nomierin\u0101t konfliktus. Kop\u0101 ar vi\u0146u intuit\u012bvaj\u0101m iesp\u0113j\u0101m tas bie\u017ei noz\u012bm\u0113, ka vi\u0146i agri k\u013c\u016bst pieaugu\u0161i un ir viedi ne p\u0113c vecuma. Vi\u0146i bie\u017ei saprot savus vec\u0101kus dzi\u013c\u0101k, nek\u0101 vec\u0101ki saprot sevi vai viens otru. Vi\u0146i cen\u0161as pal\u012bdz\u0113t vec\u0101kiem vai uzcelt starp vi\u0146iem savstarp\u0113j\u0101s sapratnes tiltu. Vi\u0146i viegli k\u013c\u016bst par \u201csavu vec\u0101ku vec\u0101kiem\u201d, un tas var novest vi\u0146us pie savas spont\u0101n\u0101s, br\u012bv\u0101s un paties\u0101s da\u013cas pazaud\u0113\u0161anas. Ja vi\u0146i p\u0101r\u0101k iedz\u012bvojas pal\u012bga lom\u0101, tad var uz\u0146emties p\u0101r\u0101k lielu atbild\u012bbas nastu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Jaunie B\u0113rni \u2013 ide\u0101listi<\/em><\/strong>. Vi\u0146i ir gar\u012bgi, filozofiski noska\u0146oti un apvelt\u012bti ar bag\u0101tu izt\u0113li. Vi\u0146us iedvesmo vienl\u012bdz\u012bbas, br\u0101l\u012bbas un cie\u0146as pret dabu ide\u0101li. Vi\u0146u aur\u0101 bie\u017ei var iev\u0113rot, ka divas aug\u0161\u0113j\u0101s \u010dakras ir pla\u0161i atv\u0113rtas. Pa \u0161iem augst\u0101kajiem ener\u0123\u0113tiskajiem centriem vi\u0146i p\u0101rum\u0101 sa\u0146em iedvesmu, v\u0113r\u012bgumu un entuziasmu. No otras puses, \u0161o pla\u0161i atv\u0113rto aug\u0161\u0113jo \u010dakru d\u0113\u013c vi\u0146i viegli var k\u013c\u016bt nemier\u012bgi, t\u0101li no realit\u0101tes un p\u0101r\u0101k sap\u0146aini. Vi\u0146u ener\u0123ija v\u0113l piln\u012bb\u0101 nav sazem\u0113ta. Tai v\u0113l arvien ir nepiecie\u0161ams pilns kontakts ar \u0137ermeni un zemes realit\u0101tes pl\u0101nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Jaunie B\u0113rni vair\u0101k tiecas sajust, nek\u0101 dom\u0101t<\/em><\/strong>. Vi\u0146iem ir gr\u016bti iek\u013cauties eksist\u0113jo\u0161aj\u0101s strukt\u016br\u0101s un noteikumos, kuri atst\u0101j maz vietas intu\u012bcijai, neprognoz\u0113jam\u012bbai un individualit\u0101tei. Faktiski vi\u0146i \u0161eit ir priek\u0161 t\u0101, lai iem\u0101c\u012btu m\u016bs, k\u0101 izrauties no ar izpra\u0161anu un anal\u012bzi p\u0101rslogot\u0101s trad\u012bcijas. Visi b\u0113rni vair\u0101k tiecas sajust, nevis izprast. Ta\u010du jut\u012bg\u0101ku Jauno B\u0113rnu at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba ir t\u0101, ka vi\u0146i fiziski un emocion\u0101li nav sp\u0113j\u012bgi piel\u0101goties stingrai un p\u0101rlieku struktur\u0113tai apk\u0101rtnei. Vi\u0146iem att\u012bst\u0101s slim\u012bbas un nopietnas uzved\u012bbas probl\u0113mas. Vi\u0146i jau ir tik stipri iezem\u0113ti uz sirdi balst\u012bt\u0101 apzi\u0146\u0101, ka jebkur\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 nevar pagriezties atpaka\u013c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Att\u012bst\u012bt\u0101s intu\u012bcijas un nesp\u0113jas piem\u0113roties d\u0113\u013c \u0161ie b\u0113rni var izlikties st\u016brgalv\u012bgi, nepaklaus\u012bgi un \u201ccit\u0101di\u201d<\/em><\/strong>. Paties\u012bb\u0101 vi\u0146iem nav nodoma dumpoties. Vi\u0146i vienk\u0101r\u0161i grib b\u016bt pa\u0161i. Ta\u010du, ja vi\u0146i j\u016bt, ka tam nav telpas, vi\u0146i var nosl\u0113gties sev\u012b un pat k\u013c\u016bt par \u0101rpus sabiedr\u012bbas dz\u012bvojo\u0161iem izstumtajiem. T\u0101 k\u0101 vi\u0146i maz\u0101k ir pak\u013cauti bail\u0113m un pa\u0161saglab\u0101\u0161an\u0101s nepiecie\u0161am\u012bbai, vi\u0146i maz\u0101k rea\u0123\u0113 uz discipl\u012bnu un varu. Ta\u010du vi\u0146i var stipri ciest no sapratnes tr\u016bkuma, ar kuru saskaras. Vi\u0146i t\u0101 d\u0113\u013c var justies sve\u0161i un vientu\u013ci, neredzot savas uztur\u0113\u0161an\u0101s uz Zemes j\u0113gu. Ja, tom\u0113r, vi\u0146i atrod savu ce\u013cu dz\u012bv\u0113 un s\u0101k izpaust savu rado\u0161o potenci\u0101lu un gar\u012bgo ener\u0123iju materi\u0101l\u0101 form\u0101, vi\u0146i uzplauks un daudzi b\u016bs aizkustin\u0101ti no vi\u0146u ideju dzi\u013cuma un maigo, neizkonkur\u0113jamo sadarb\u012bbas ar cilv\u0113kiem veidu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jaunajiem B\u0113rniem priek\u0161\u0101 st\u0101vo\u0161\u0101s probl\u0113mas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Summ\u0113jot visu jau pateikto, ar k\u0101d\u0101m probl\u0113m\u0101m var sadurties Jaunie B\u0113rni? Pati liel\u0101k\u0101 probl\u0113ma ir t\u0101, ka vi\u0146u specifisk\u0101 ener\u0123ija netiek atpaz\u012bta un apk\u0101rt\u0113jo cilv\u0113ku saprasta. Kad vi\u0146iem nedod l\u012bdzek\u013cus vai iesp\u0113ju izteikt savas saj\u016btas un eksist\u0113 \u012bstas saskarsmes tr\u016bkums, var rasties \u201cuzved\u012bbas gr\u016bt\u012bbas\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u0113rni var k\u013c\u016bt nepaklaus\u012bgi, nepaciet\u012bgi, vi\u0146iem var b\u016bt gr\u016bti tur\u0113t sevi rok\u0101s. Vi\u0146i j\u016bt sapratnes un r\u016bpju tr\u016bkumu un patie\u0161\u0101m grib tam pateikt \u201cn\u0113\u201d, ta\u010du nezina k\u0101. Vi\u0146iem v\u0113l nav pareizu saskarsmes un pa\u0161izteiksmes iema\u0146u. P\u0113c k\u0101da laika vi\u0146i pa\u0161i p\u0101rst\u0101j saprast, kas notiek vi\u0146u iek\u0161ien\u0113. Ja vi\u0146u iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 dz\u012bve vi\u0146iem neatspogu\u013cojas saproto\u0161os vec\u0101kos vai skolot\u0101j\u0101, kur\u0161 pal\u012bdz vi\u0146iem tikt skaidr\u012bb\u0101 ar sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m un klaus\u0101s vi\u0146os ar atv\u0113rtu sirdi, vi\u0146i nosl\u0113dzas sev\u012b un s\u0101k r\u012bkoties neprognoz\u0113jami un iracion\u0101li. \u0160aj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b ir nepiecie\u0161ama liela uzman\u012bba un dzi\u013ca sapratne, lai noteiktu, kas vada \u0161os b\u0113rnus, kad vi\u0146i pa\u0161i nesaprot savas saj\u016btas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ir iesp\u0113jams t\u0101ds gad\u012bjums, kad b\u0113rni, j\u016btot nelaipn\u012bbu un nesapratni, aiziet no savas apk\u0101rtnes un zaud\u0113 ar to kontaktu. Vi\u0146i neizpau\u017e savas emocijas ar agres\u012bvu vai v\u0113trainu uzved\u012bbu. Vi\u0146i nosl\u0113dzas sav\u0101 maz\u0101 pasaul\u0113, un ir \u013coti gr\u016bti pie vi\u0146iem izlauzties. Bie\u017ei \u0161ie b\u0113rni ir \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi jut\u012bgi, stipri rea\u0123\u0113jo\u0161i uz pretrun\u012bg\u0101m ener\u0123ij\u0101m ap vi\u0146iem. T\u0101 k\u0101 ir gr\u016bti iedom\u0101ties, ko noz\u012bm\u0113 b\u016bt tik \u013coti jut\u012bgam, vi\u0146u robe\u017eas tiek viegli p\u0101rk\u0101ptas, un, lai emocion\u0101li izdz\u012bvotu, vi\u0146i aizver savus saj\u016btu centrus. \u0160o izdz\u012bvo\u0161anas meh\u0101nismu parasti sauc par \u201cautismu\u201d. Paradokss ir t\u0101ds, ka autiskus b\u0113rnus sauc par bezj\u016bt\u012bgiem (tas ir, nesp\u0113j\u012bgiem paskat\u012bties uz liet\u0101m no citu redzes viedok\u013ca), t\u0101p\u0113c ka vi\u0146i ir \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi jut\u012bgi. Var teikt vienu, ka vi\u0146iem ir tik daudz probl\u0113mu ar savu robe\u017eu saglab\u0101\u0161anu, ka vi\u0146i nevar sev at\u013caut iziet pie citiem, papla\u0161in\u0101t savu apzi\u0146u t\u0101d\u0101 m\u0113r\u0101, lai t\u0101 iek\u013cautu ar\u012b citus. Vi\u0146i j\u016bt, ka vi\u0146u pasaule sabruks, ja vi\u0146i to izdar\u012bs, un haoss vi\u0146us apr\u012bs. T\u0101dej\u0101di, autiska b\u0113rna bezj\u016bt\u012bg\u0101 uzved\u012bba izriet no milz\u012bg\u0101s uz\u0146\u0113m\u012bbas pret citu ener\u0123ij\u0101m. Tie\u0161i p\u0101rliec\u012bgas jut\u012bbas d\u0113\u013c autisks b\u0113rns aizsarg\u0101jas un emocion\u0101li aizveras. Autisku b\u0113rnu bezj\u016bt\u012bga vai nesoci\u0101la uzved\u012bba \u2013 tas ir izdz\u012bvo\u0161anas meh\u0101nisms, nevis dv\u0113seles dabiska \u012bpa\u0161\u012bba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u0113rniem, kuri m\u0113\u0123ina atrisin\u0101t savas probl\u0113mas ekstravert\u0101 ce\u013c\u0101 (dump\u012bgums, uzbudin\u0101jums, koncentr\u0113\u0161an\u0101s tr\u016bkums), t\u0101pat ar\u012b b\u0113rniem, kuri izv\u0113las intravertu risin\u0101jumu (izvair\u012b\u0161an\u0101s un emocion\u0101la aizv\u0113r\u0161an\u0101s), ir da\u017eas kop\u0113jas \u012bpatn\u012bbas:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Vi\u0146i j\u016btas nev\u0113lami, neatz\u012bti un pa \u012bstam nenov\u0113rt\u0113ti t\u0101di, k\u0101di vi\u0146i ir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Vi\u0146i nav iesak\u0146oti stabili un nav iezem\u0113ti sav\u0101 fiziskaj\u0101 \u0137ermen\u012b. To burtiski var sajust vi\u0146u aur\u0101, kura bie\u017ei nesaskaras ar zemi sav\u0101 apak\u0161da\u013c\u0101. Praktiski tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka vi\u0146iem nepietiek emocion\u0101la pamata vai enkura iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s dro\u0161\u012bbas saj\u016btai, ar kuru var mier\u012bgi un atv\u0113rti izzin\u0101t pasauli. Vi\u0146i nej\u016btas nepiespiesti, kas padara vi\u0146iem gr\u016btu bezr\u016bp\u012bgi \u201cvienk\u0101r\u0161i b\u016bt\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Rezult\u0101t\u0101 vi\u0146iem var par\u0101d\u012bties fiziski simptomi un v\u0101rgums, un\/vai stipra reakcija uz noteiktu bar\u012bbu vai vielu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Kad vi\u0146i izaug un k\u013c\u016bst par pusaud\u017eiem, vi\u0146iem var b\u016bt sare\u017e\u0123\u012bti atrast savu vietu sabiedr\u012bb\u0101 (pareizas izgl\u012bt\u012bbas formas vai vi\u0146iem piem\u0113rota darba veid\u0101).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Es gribu pateikt nedaudz vair\u0101k par veidiem, k\u0101 pal\u012bdz\u0113t \u0161iem b\u0113rniem un pusaud\u017eiem sajusties vair\u0101k v\u0113lamiem un atrast pareizo pa\u0161izteiksmes ce\u013cu. Ta\u010du vispirms es gribu pasv\u012btrot, ka \u013coti svar\u012bgi ir nedom\u0101t vainas<\/em><\/strong> terminos, kad m\u0113s run\u0101jam par probl\u0113m\u0101m, kuras izj\u016bt Jaunie B\u0113rni. \u0160o b\u0113rnu vec\u0101ki bie\u017ei dara visu iesp\u0113jamo, lai atbalst\u012btu vi\u0146us un par\u016bp\u0113tos par vi\u0146iem. Daudzi vec\u0101ki labi apzin\u0101s vi\u0146u b\u0113rnu sevi\u0161\u0137\u0101s \u012bpa\u0161\u012bbas un intuit\u012bvi arvien vair\u0101k un vair\u0101k harmon\u0113 ar vi\u0146iem. Pateicoties vi\u0146u atv\u0113rt\u012bbai un gatav\u012bbai, notiek milz\u012bgs apm\u0101c\u012bbas process. Tie\u0161i \u0161ie vec\u0101ki kop\u0101 ar b\u0113rniem pav\u0113rs iesp\u0113jas sabiedr\u012bb\u0101 un sagatavos jaunus veidus mijiedarb\u012bbai ar b\u0113rniem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da\u017ereiz slim\u012bg\u0101 konfront\u0101cija starp Jaunajiem B\u0113rniem un zemes realit\u0101ti bija izv\u0113l\u0113ta apzin\u0101ti. Vi\u0146i atn\u0101ca, lai atnestu kaut ko jaunu, un sirds dzi\u013cum\u0101 vi\u0146i to zina. Tas at\u013cauj paskat\u012bties uz vi\u0146u gr\u016bt\u012bb\u0101m no citas perspekt\u012bvas. Dv\u0113seles l\u012bmen\u012b vi\u0146i uz\u0146emas pilnu atbild\u012bbu par to, ar ko saduras sav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113. Vi\u0146i akcept\u0113 kav\u0113k\u013cus un \u0161\u0137\u0113r\u0161\u013cus. Sabiedr\u012bba nav \u201cpret vi\u0146iem\u201d. Sabiedr\u012bba daudz\u0113j\u0101d\u0101 zi\u0146\u0101 v\u0113l gu\u013c. Tas ir veco ieradumu miegs, un Jauno B\u0113rnu atn\u0101k\u0161ana \u2013 tas ir modino\u0161s sauciens. J\u0101, vi\u0146i ir nedaudz l\u012bdz\u012bgi jums. J\u016bs j\u016btat to? Gaismas Darbinieku iepriek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 paaudze b\u0113rn\u012bb\u0101 izg\u0101ja caur to pa\u0161u dilemmu, ar to at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bbu, ka pa\u0161reiz\u0113j\u0101 laik\u0101 st\u0101voklis sa\u0146em jaunu impulsu un sasniedz kritisku punktu. Jaunie B\u0113rni \u2013 tas ir \u0161\u012b pa\u0101trin\u0101juma c\u0113lonis un sekas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jauno B\u0113rnu Audzin\u0101\u0161ana<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Jauno B\u0113rnu audzin\u0101\u0161anas liet\u0101 k\u0101 vec\u0101kam, skolot\u0101jam vai terapeitam s\u0101kuma punkts \u2013 t\u0101 vienm\u0113r ir piesl\u0113g\u0161an\u0101s b\u0113rna individu\u0101lajai realit\u0101tei. Jebkuras re\u0101las pal\u012bdz\u012bbas pamats \u2013 t\u0101 ir atv\u0113rt\u012bba b\u0113rna uztveres veidam un sp\u0113ja iek\u0161\u0113ji noska\u0146oties uz vi\u0146a verb\u0101lajiem un neverb\u0101lajiem sign\u0101liem. Pati svar\u012bg\u0101k\u0101 \u012bpa\u0161\u012bba, kurai j\u0101b\u016bt, audzinot \u0161os b\u0113rnus, – t\u0101 ir sp\u0113ja klaus\u012bties un atv\u0113rt\u012bba jaunajam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne tik svar\u012bga ir speci\u0101lu zin\u0101\u0161anu un iema\u0146u esam\u012bba. Tas var atn\u0101kt proces\u0101. Teorijas, kuras skar Jaunos B\u0113rnus, bie\u017ei par pamatu \u0146em \u0101r\u0113j\u0101s uzved\u012bbas standarta klasifik\u0101cijas. Sindromi un diagnozes b\u0101z\u0113jas uz \u0101r\u0113j\u0101m paz\u012bm\u0113m. Tas, k\u0101 \u0161eit nav un ir vit\u0101li svar\u012bgs kontaktam ar \u0161iem b\u0113rniem \u2013 t\u0101 ir iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 saikne ar to, ko izj\u016bt b\u0113rns: saj\u016bt\u0101m un emocij\u0101m, no kur\u0101m izaug \u0101r\u0113j\u0101 uzved\u012bba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lai paskat\u012btos uz k\u0101du atkl\u0101ti un nepiespiesti, ir nepiecie\u0161ams atlaist visus neobjekt\u012bvos j\u0113dzienus un cer\u012bbas. Patiesi savienoties ar k\u0101du citu, lai kas vi\u0146\u0161 neb\u016btu, j\u016bs varat, tikai atbr\u012bvojoties no visa, ko j\u016bs dom\u0101jat, ko zin\u0101t par otru. Tikai tad rodas telpa patiesi jut\u012bgai un intuit\u012bvai kl\u0101tb\u016btnei \u201ctagad\u201d. Tas ir ar\u012b lielisks veids, k\u0101 sveikt k\u0101du, jo t\u0101 j\u016bs at\u013caujat vi\u0146a dv\u0113seles ener\u0123ijai skart j\u016bs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Izejot no \u0161\u012bs fundament\u0101l\u0101s atv\u0113rt\u012bbas poz\u012bcijas, kura p\u0113c savas dabas vair\u0101k ir saj\u016bta k\u0101 doma, j\u016bs varat st\u0101ties savstarp\u0113ji izdev\u012bg\u0101 un abus bag\u0101tino\u0161\u0101 kontakt\u0101 ar otru cilv\u0113ku. Mijiedarb\u012bba ar b\u0113rnu nekad nav ce\u013c\u0161 ar vienvirziena kust\u012bbu. \u0160aj\u0101s savstarp\u0113j\u0101s attiec\u012bb\u0101s j\u016bs abi esat kaut kur skolot\u0101ji, kaut kur skolnieki viens otram. Tas ir tas, ka raksturo visas gar\u012bgi noz\u012bm\u012bgas savstarp\u0113jas attiec\u012bbas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ja attiec\u012bbas starp audzin\u0101t\u0101ju un b\u0113rnu att\u012bst\u0101s t\u0101d\u0101 t\u012br\u0101 un caursp\u012bd\u012bg\u0101 veid\u0101, rodas daudz iesp\u0113ju atbalst\u012bt b\u0113rnu vi\u0146a att\u012bst\u012bb\u0101. Es do\u0161u da\u017eu visp\u0101r\u0113ju veidu sarakstu, nepretend\u0113jo\u0161u uz piln\u012bbu, bet nor\u0101do\u0161u k\u0101du kop\u0113ju virzienu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Pozit\u012bvs nov\u0113rt\u0113jums vi\u0146u unik\u0101laj\u0101m \u012bpa\u0161\u012bb\u0101m<\/em> (kuras padara vi\u0146us \u201ccit\u0101dus\u201d).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pal\u012bdziet vi\u0146iem atcer\u0113ties, kas vi\u0146i t\u0101di ir. Pal\u012bdziet vi\u0146iem saprast, ka vi\u0146u augstais jut\u012bgums un ide\u0101lisms pieder pie br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bg\u0101kaj\u0101m \u012bpa\u0161\u012bb\u0101m, kuras vi\u0146iem ir. \u013baujiet vi\u0146iem pa\u0161iem noteikt, iek\u0161 k\u0101 vi\u0146i ir \u201cciti\u201d un pal\u012bdziet vi\u0146iem saprast, k\u0101 \u0161is \u012bpa\u0161\u012bbas ienes savu ieguld\u012bjumu pasaul\u0113, padarot to bag\u0101t\u0101ku. Atrodiet rado\u0161u ce\u013cu vi\u0146u augst\u0101s jut\u012bbas izteik\u0161anai, lai vi\u0146i var\u0113tu no t\u0101 izjust prieku. Sapulciniet vi\u0146us kop\u0101 un dodiet vi\u0146iem iesp\u0113ju apmain\u012bties ar pieredzi un padal\u012bties ar ener\u0123ij\u0101m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Intu\u012bcijas att\u012bst\u012bba<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Att\u012bstiet vi\u0146u intuit\u012bv\u0101s iema\u0146as sp\u0113les proces\u0101, pal\u012bdzot vi\u0146iem pierast pie sava \u0137erme\u0146a un emocij\u0101m, nostiprinot vi\u0146u pa\u0161apzi\u0146u. Sazem\u0113t sevi, iepaz\u012bt savas robe\u017eas no iek\u0161ienes un, izmantojot intu\u012bciju, atrast to, kas vi\u0146iem ir labs \u2013 \u0161\u012bs iema\u0146as t\u0101di jut\u012bgi b\u0113rni var viegli apg\u016bt, kam\u0113r vi\u0146i v\u0113l ir jauni un br\u012bvi. Liel\u0101k\u0101 vecum\u0101 vi\u0146i var sajust sevi sasiet\u0101kus sav\u0101s dabiskaj\u0101s tieksm\u0113s just, izt\u0113loties un fantaz\u0113t. \u0160aj\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 ir svar\u012bgi vispirms pal\u012bdz\u0113t vi\u0146iem apzin\u0101t savas emocijas vai ierobe\u017eojo\u0161os priek\u0161status, kuri blo\u0137\u0113 vi\u0146u intu\u012bcijas br\u012bvu pl\u016bsmu. Ja eksist\u0113 probl\u0113mas \u0161aj\u0101 attiec\u012bb\u0101, blo\u0137\u0113jas ener\u0123ijas pl\u016bsma tr\u012bs apak\u0161\u0113j\u0101s \u010dakr\u0101s. T\u0101diem b\u0113rniem eksist\u0113 bailes, vil\u0161an\u0101s un \u012bgnums, k\u0101 rezult\u0101t\u0101 vi\u0146i var just nedro\u0161\u012bbu, nom\u0101kt\u012bbu un pat nev\u0113l\u0113\u0161anos dz\u012bvot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Cie\u0146a pret vi\u0146u k\u0101 dv\u0113se\u013cu briedumu<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ziniet, ka vi\u0146u augst\u0101 jut\u012bba un \u201ccit\u0101d\u012bba\u201d bija vi\u0146u apzin\u0101ta izv\u0113le un tic\u012bba iedzimtai sp\u0113jai atrisin\u0101t savas probl\u0113mas. Neapejieties ar vi\u0146iem k\u0101 ar upuriem. Griezieties pie vi\u0146u d\u0101van\u0101m un talantiem un maksim\u0101li iesp\u0113jam\u0101 m\u0113r\u0101 at\u013caujiet vi\u0146iem atrast savas pa\u0161u atbildes un risin\u0101jumus. Mudiniet vi\u0146us izmantot savu kaisli un iedvesmu un pal\u012bdziet atrast veidu, k\u0101 praktiski izteikt un manifest\u0113t savu iedvesmojo\u0161o ener\u0123iju uz Zemes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Radiet telpu pa\u0161izteksmei.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jauno B\u0113rnu un pusaud\u017eu ener\u0123ija var b\u016bt tik gais\u012bga un ide\u0101listiska, ka t\u0101 var likties netverama, neizprotama. T\u0101diem b\u0113rniem ir svar\u012bgi izteikt sevi materi\u0101l\u0101 form\u0101. Tas var b\u016bt kaut kas rado\u0161s, t\u0101ds k\u0101 z\u012bm\u0113\u0161ana vai m\u016bzikas sacer\u0113\u0161ana, vai tas var b\u016bt pat sports, vai sp\u0113les. Svar\u012bgi, lai vi\u0146i uzzin\u0101tu, k\u0101 sazem\u0113t savu ener\u0123iju un padar\u012bt to redzamu citiem. T\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 vi\u0146i s\u016bta savu ener\u0123iju Zem\u0113. Vis\u0101 taj\u0101 k\u0101 starta punktam ir j\u0101b\u016bt labpatikai, kuru vi\u0146i izj\u016bt, izsakot sevi materi\u0101l\u0101 form\u0101. Ja mudina vi\u0146us br\u012bvi izzin\u0101t un eksperiment\u0113t, vi\u0146i samekl\u0113s sev piem\u0113rotas formas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Alternat\u012bv\u0101 medic\u012bna<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maigas, holistiskas* terapijas formas, t\u0101das k\u0101 las\u012b\u0161ana, dziedniec\u012bba un alternat\u012bv\u0101 medic\u012bna, var \u013coti pal\u012bdz\u0113t darb\u0101 ar t\u0101du b\u0113rnu fiziskajiem simptomiem, bie\u017ei saist\u012btiem ar vi\u0146u ener\u0123ijas p\u0101rumu un psihisko st\u0101vokli. Savas paaugstin\u0101t\u0101s jut\u012bbas pret ener\u0123iju d\u0113\u013c \u0161ie b\u0113rni viegli atsaucas uz iedarb\u012bbas metod\u0113m, kuras, pirmk\u0101rt, ir orient\u0113tas uz ener\u0123\u0113tisko l\u012bmeni (garu) un tikai p\u0113c tam uz \u0137ermeni. Ta\u010du ir \u013coti svar\u012bgi, izv\u0113loties terapijas vai dziedniec\u012bbas metodi, vad\u012bties ne tikai p\u0113c \u0101r\u0113jiem simptomiem, bet iedzi\u013cin\u0101ties konkr\u0113t\u0101 b\u0113rna unik\u0101laj\u0101 iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 situ\u0101cij\u0101. Vec\u0101ks vai dziednieks var iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b pajaut\u0101t b\u0113rnam, vai vi\u0146am der \u0161\u012b metode. Un, ja b\u0113rns ir pietieko\u0161i pieaudzis, vi\u0146\u0161 pats var tikt iesaist\u012bts \u0161aj\u0101 izv\u0113les proces\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 Izgl\u012bt\u012bba<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apgaismota izgl\u012bt\u012bba \u0146em b\u0113rnu un vi\u0146a iek\u0161\u0113jo pasauli par atskaites punktu. Pag\u0101tn\u0113 zin\u0101\u0161anas bie\u017ei tika \u201cielietas\u201d b\u0113rn\u0101 \u201cno aug\u0161as \u2013 lej\u0101\u201d. B\u0113rns tika apl\u016bkots k\u0101 tuk\u0161s ku\u0123is, kuru bija nepiecie\u0161ams piekraut ar der\u012bg\u0101m zin\u0101\u0161an\u0101m un iema\u0146\u0101m. Ta\u010du, ja b\u0113rnu pie\u0146em k\u0101 nobriedu\u0161u dv\u0113seli ar sav\u0101m interes\u0113m un m\u0113r\u0137iem, izgl\u012bt\u012bba ieg\u016bst pavisam citu formu. Uzdevums ir ne tik daudz, lai uztais\u012btu kaut ko no nek\u0101, bet gan pamodin\u0101t un atbr\u012bvot kaut ko, kas jau ir b\u0113rn\u0101. B\u0113rni p\u0113c dabas sliecas grib\u0113t m\u0101c\u012bties, izp\u0113t\u012bt un atkl\u0101t pasauli. Tikai, ja vi\u0146us sistem\u0101tiski piespie\u017e apg\u016bt to, kam nav sakara ar vi\u0146u lietu uztveres veidu, vi\u0146i nev\u0113las m\u0101c\u012bties. Darbs ar b\u0113rna dabisko tieksmi m\u0101c\u012bties un t\u0101s saglab\u0101\u0161ana ir jaun\u0101s izgl\u012bt\u012bbas pamats. \u0160aj\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 skolot\u0101ja loma ir piln\u012bgi cita. Pirm\u0101m k\u0101rt\u0101m no vi\u0146a tiek pras\u012bta atv\u0113rta un intuit\u012bva kl\u0101tb\u016btne b\u0113rnam. Skolot\u0101js balst\u0101s uz pie\u0146\u0113mumu, ka vi\u0146\u0161 var uztic\u0113ties katra b\u0113rna unik\u0101laj\u0101m dabiskaj\u0101m sp\u0113j\u0101m. Vi\u0146\u0161 pal\u012bdz b\u0113rnam izv\u0113l\u0113ties savu ce\u013cu, atbalstot vi\u0146u un apg\u0101d\u0101jot ar zin\u0101\u0161an\u0101m un materi\u0101liem, kuri nepiecie\u0161ami vi\u0146a m\u0113r\u0137u sasnieg\u0161anai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Darbs ar j\u016bsu b\u0113rna cie\u0161an\u0101m<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Ja j\u016bs esat t\u0101da jut\u012bga b\u0113rna vec\u0101ks un iev\u0113rojat, ka vi\u0146am ir gr\u016bt\u012bbas kontakt\u0113ties ar pasauli, tad j\u016bs \u013coti v\u0113laties aizsarg\u0101t un noglab\u0101t vi\u0146u no \u013caunuma. Neapzinoties, kas notiek, j\u016bs varat uztvert apk\u0101rt\u0113jo pasauli k\u0101 ienaidnieku, bet j\u016bsu b\u0113rnu k\u0101 ievainojamu upuri. J\u016bs baid\u0101ties, ka j\u016bsu b\u0113rns n\u0101kotn\u0113 nesp\u0113s ar to tik gal\u0101 bez jums. J\u016bsu b\u0113rna cie\u0161anu skats atgrie\u017e j\u016bs pie j\u016bsu dzi\u013c\u0101kaj\u0101m bail\u0113m, skumj\u0101m un vil\u0161an\u0101m. Ta\u010du, tom\u0113r, \u0161\u012b konkr\u0113t\u0101 b\u0113rna kl\u0101tb\u016btnei j\u016bsu dz\u012bv\u0113 vienm\u0113r ir sl\u0113pta lo\u0123ika. Taj\u0101 ir dzi\u013c\u0101ka j\u0113ga un pozit\u012bvs nodoms. Paskat\u012b\u0161an\u0101s uz b\u0113rnu ar cit\u0101m ac\u012bm var k\u013c\u016bt par vienu no veidiem, k\u0101 pav\u0113rt aizsegu uz \u0161o lo\u0123iku un sl\u0113pto j\u0113gu. Ieraugiet b\u0113rn\u0101 nevis bezpal\u012bdz\u012bgu mazu b\u016btni, bet skolot\u0101ju, ja v\u0113laties, e\u0146\u0123eli, kur\u0161 atn\u0101cis nest jums v\u0113sti. Es pied\u0101v\u0101ju jums veikt kop\u0101 ar mani sekojo\u0161u medit\u0101ciju. Ja jums nav b\u0113rna, tad uzaiciniet iedom\u0101tu b\u0113rnu atn\u0101kt pie jums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Izt\u0113lojieties sevi ejam pa br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgu d\u0101rzu. Atveriet savu sirdi \u0161ai miera un r\u0101muma pasaulei un at\u013caujiet skatienam kl\u012bst apk\u0101rt. \u0160eit ir daudz augu un ziedu. Saj\u016btiet sezonu, laika ciklu, ritmu, kuri maigi un pl\u016bsto\u0161i nomaina cits citu. Tagad paskatieties s\u0101\u0146us, un j\u016bs redz\u0113siet b\u0113rnu ejam jums blakus. Griezieties pie pa\u0161a pirm\u0101 b\u0113rna, kur\u0161 atn\u0101cis pie jums izt\u0113l\u0113. Pa\u0146emiet vi\u0146u aiz rokas un kop\u0101 dodieties cauri d\u0101rzam, uzs\u016bcot dabas skaistumu.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0113c k\u0101da laika j\u016bs ieraug\u0101t pievilc\u012bgu vietu, kur\u0101 var pies\u0113st. Tas var b\u016bt soli\u0146\u0161 vai atkl\u0101ta vieta uz zemes. J\u016bs abi aps\u0113\u017eaties. Tagad j\u016bs varat lab\u0101k apl\u016bkot b\u0113rnu. Paskatieties vi\u0146am vai vi\u0146ai sej\u0101 un ieskatieties dzi\u013ci ac\u012bs. P\u0113c k\u0101da laika j\u016bs redzat notiekam transform\u0101ciju. Pamaz\u0101m b\u0113rna seja main\u0101s uz e\u0146\u0123e\u013ca seju. J\u016bs redzat, ka b\u0113rns ieg\u016bst mirdzumu un k\u013c\u016bst \u0113terisk\u0101ks, piedero\u0161s citai pasaulei. Iesp\u0113jams, j\u016bs iev\u0113rojat kr\u0101sas, kas ieskauj e\u0146\u0123eli-b\u0113rnu.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u016bs mier\u012bgi v\u0113rojat \u0161o e\u0146\u0123eli, j\u016btot tr\u012bsas no vi\u0146a izskata. J\u016bs j\u016btat, ka it k\u0101 k\u013c\u016bstat maz\u0101ks, atkal k\u0101 b\u0113rns. Atbr\u012bvojieties uz mirkli no pieaugu\u0161\u0101 nastas un saj\u016btiet p\u0101rsteigumu, tik rakstur\u012bgu b\u0113rnam. Pla\u0161i atv\u0113rt\u0101m ac\u012bm j\u016bs skat\u0101ties uz lielisko e\u0146\u0123eli, kur\u0161 ir par\u0101d\u012bjies j\u016bsu priek\u0161\u0101, un j\u016btat, ka vi\u0146\u0161\/vi\u0146a grib kaut ko pateikt jums. Vi\u0146\u0161 dara to, pirm\u0101m k\u0101rt\u0101m, p\u0101rraidot jums ener\u0123iju caur ac\u012bm. J\u016bs pie\u0146emat to un saj\u016btat t\u0101s b\u016bt\u012bbu.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tagad j\u016bs uzdodat e\u0146\u0123elim jaut\u0101jumus: \u201cK\u0101d\u0113\u013c tu esi atn\u0101cis uz Zemi? K\u0101du d\u0101vanu tu nes?\u201d \u013baujiet e\u0146\u0123elim run\u0101t. Tie ne oblig\u0101ti b\u016bs v\u0101rdi. Vi\u0146\u0161 var run\u0101t ar\u012b caur saj\u016bt\u0101m. P\u0113k\u0161\u0146i j\u016bs j\u016btat, ka zin\u0101t. Bez t\u0113lu vai v\u0101rdu iejauk\u0161an\u0101s.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sa\u0146\u0113mis atbildi, pazi\u0146ojiet par to e\u0146\u0123elim un pajaut\u0101jiet vi\u0146am: \u201cK\u0101da ir visaugst\u0101k\u0101 lieta, ko varu priek\u0161 tevis izdar\u012bt? K\u0101 vislab\u0101k es varu pal\u012bdz\u0113t tev tav\u0101 misij\u0101, tavos p\u016bli\u0146os?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

At\u013caujiet e\u0146\u0123elim-b\u0113rnam run\u0101t ar jums ar v\u0101rdiem vai saj\u016bt\u0101m.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0113c tam atsveicinieties no vi\u0146a, j\u016btot, ka starp j\u016bsu sird\u012bm ir nodibin\u0101jusies cie\u0161a saikne.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Visbie\u017e\u0101k tas, kas b\u0113rnam visvair\u0101k no jums ir vajadz\u012bgs \u2013 tas ir tas, kas pal\u012bdz ar\u012b jums pa\u0161am. Rakstura iez\u012bme vai ener\u0123ija, visvair\u0101k nepiecie\u0161ama b\u0113rna atbalst\u012b\u0161anai, bie\u017ei ir t\u0101 iez\u012bme vai ener\u0123ija, kuru j\u016bs dv\u0113seles l\u012bmen\u012b grib\u0113tu att\u012bst\u012bt un nostiprin\u0101t sev\u012b. At\u013caujiet dot jums da\u017eus piem\u0113rus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tas var b\u016bt gad\u012bjums ar intravertu b\u0113rnu, kur\u0161 sl\u0113pj savas saj\u016btas, ar kuru gr\u016bti kontakt\u0113ties. No jums tiek pras\u012bts iem\u0101c\u012bties intuit\u012bvi noska\u0146oties uz vi\u0146u, b\u016bt paciet\u012bgam un sp\u0113j\u012bgam dzi\u013ci ieskat\u012bties sav\u0101s pa\u0161a saj\u016bt\u0101s. Tas pal\u012bdz\u0113s b\u0113rnam. \u013boti bie\u017ei \u012bpa\u0161\u012bbu, kuras pal\u012bdz b\u0113rnam, att\u012bst\u012bba ir pareiza ar\u012b j\u016bsu pa\u0161a iek\u0161\u0113jai att\u012bst\u012bbai. Iesp\u0113jams, jums ir stingri uzskati par vairumu lietu, vai ar\u012b j\u016bs esat \u013coti praktisks un efekt\u012bvs, un j\u016bs nekad neesat \u012bpa\u0161i p\u0113t\u012bjis emociju un saj\u016btu sf\u0113ru. J\u016bsu b\u0113rns uzaicina j\u016bs atjaunot l\u012bdzsvaru. Kaut gan t\u0101 ar pavir\u0161u skatu b\u0113rns noliek j\u016bsu priek\u0161\u0101 tikai probl\u0113mu, taj\u0101 eksist\u0113 dzi\u013c\u0101ka iek\u0161\u0113ja j\u0113ga \u2013 izaicin\u0101jums jums att\u012bst\u012bt noteiktas \u012bpa\u0161\u012bbas, kuras \u013coti labi atbilst j\u016bsu pa\u0161a iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s att\u012bst\u012bbas ce\u013cam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cit\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 jums var b\u016bt \u013coti dz\u012bvs un ap\u0146\u0113m\u012bgs b\u0113rns, kur\u0161 viegli \u0161\u0137\u0113rso j\u016bsu robe\u017eas un mudina j\u016bs run\u0101t un skaidri noteikt to, ko j\u016bs pie\u0146emat un ko n\u0113. \u0160is b\u0113rns var j\u016bs bie\u017ei izvest no l\u012bdzsvara, un j\u016bs reiz\u0113m nogurstat no vi\u0146a kl\u0101tb\u016btnes. \u0160is b\u0113rns prasa no jums skaidru savu robe\u017eu apzin\u0101\u0161anos un sp\u0113ju izteikt savas v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s un vajadz\u012bbas skaidri un apzin\u0101ti. Ja \u0161eit starp jums ir kaujas lauks, tas nor\u0101da, ka j\u016bs v\u0113l neesat nelok\u0101ms taj\u0101, ko j\u016bs pie\u013caujat un ko n\u0113. J\u016bsu b\u0113rns uzaicina j\u016bs skaidri noteikt j\u016bsu pa\u0161u telpu un nostiprin\u0101t savu st\u0101vokli j\u016bsu savstarp\u0113j\u0101s attiec\u012bb\u0101s \u2013 un \u013coti bie\u017ei izgaismo visas citas j\u016bsu savstarp\u0113j\u0101s attiec\u012bbas. B\u0113rna uzved\u012bba (un j\u016bsu reakcija uz vi\u0146u) pastiprina un izpau\u017e jau eksist\u0113jo\u0161u probl\u0113mu. \u013boti varb\u016bt\u012bgi, ka jums jau bija probl\u0113ma ar pa\u0161apliecin\u0101\u0161anos v\u0113l pirms b\u0113rna piedzim\u0161anas. Tagad b\u0113rns prasa no jums patie\u0161\u0101m apzin\u0101ties, kas j\u016bs esat, un sp\u0113t past\u0101v\u0113t par sevi, un tas ir piln\u012bgi prec\u012bzi tas, kas jums nepiecie\u0161amas j\u016bsu pa\u0161a iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s att\u012bst\u012bbas ce\u013c\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Att\u012bstot \u012bpa\u0161\u012bbu j\u016bsu b\u0113rna atbalstam, j\u016bs pal\u012bdzat jums abiem. Ar savu sapratni, m\u012blest\u012bbu, neatkar\u012bbu un pa\u0161apzi\u0146u j\u016bs k\u013c\u016bstat par piem\u0113ru b\u0113rnam, gaismas b\u0101ku. T\u0101dej\u0101di, savstarp\u0113j\u0101 iedvesm\u0101, izaugsmes un izdziedin\u0101\u0161anas proces\u0101 uz Zemes dzimst jauna ener\u0123ija. Gaismas l\u0101pa tiek nodota no paaudzes paaudzei un mirdz v\u0113l spo\u017e\u0101k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0113s slavin\u0101m j\u016bs par j\u016bsu uztic\u012bbu, m\u012blest\u012bbu un ap\u0146\u0113m\u012bbu. M\u0113s gribam, lai j\u016bs izj\u016btat sav\u0101 p\u0113tnieciskaj\u0101 ce\u013cojum\u0101 labpatiku un prieku, lai j\u016bs un Jaunie B\u0113rni non\u0101ktu pie sapra\u0161an\u0101s. M\u0113s ceram, ka j\u016bsos ir l\u012bdzj\u016bt\u012bba pret vi\u0146iem un, \u012bpa\u0161i, pret sevi pa\u0161iem, jo j\u016bs pa\u0161i pie\u013c\u0101v\u0101t k\u013c\u016bdas. (Atcerieties, ka k\u013c\u016bdas \u2013 vienm\u0113r ir pats svar\u012bg\u0101kais apm\u0101c\u012bbas r\u012bks.) M\u0113s ticam, ka j\u016bsu l\u0101pa turpin\u0101s degt un izplat\u012bt daudz dzirkste\u013cu l\u0101pu nes\u0113jiem, kuri seko jums. Ta\u010du, lai ko j\u016bs dar\u012btu, vai j\u016bs priec\u0101jaties vai b\u0113d\u0101jaties, j\u016btat l\u012bdzi vai nosod\u0101t, esat atv\u0113rti un uzticami vai nosl\u0113gti un nospiesti, m\u0113s m\u012blam j\u016bs un turpin\u0101sim pied\u0101v\u0101t jums m\u016bsu atbalstu un uzmundrin\u0101jumu. J\u016bs esat laipni gaid\u012bti. Vienm\u0113r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jaut\u0101jumi un atbildes<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

P\u0113c \u010denelinga bija atv\u0113l\u0113ts laiks jaut\u0101jumiem un atbild\u0113m. Da\u017ei no tiem ir doti \u0161eit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ko es varu izdar\u012bt priek\u0161 manas 6-gad\u012bg\u0101s autisk\u0101s meitas?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vispirms es grib\u0113tu teikt, ka j\u016bs \u013coti m\u012blat savu meitu un vi\u0146a \u013coti labi to saj\u016bt. Un ar to pats galvenais jau ir pateikts. J\u016bsu m\u012blest\u012bba past\u0101v\u012bgi apsedz vi\u0146u ar klusu apsk\u0101vienu. Tas neatrisina vi\u0146as probl\u0113mas un j\u016bsu gr\u016bt\u012bbas attiec\u012bb\u0101 uz vi\u0146u, bet tas ir priek\u0161nosac\u012bjums to atrisin\u0101\u0161anai j\u016bsu dz\u012bv\u0113. Griezieties uz mirkli pie sevis, saj\u016btiet j\u016bsu m\u012blest\u012bbas veselumu un patiesumu. T\u0101 ir pati d\u0101rg\u0101k\u0101 d\u0101vana, kuru j\u016bs varat sniegt b\u0113rnam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Saprotams, ka j\u016bs reiz\u0113m j\u016btat \u0161aubas un pat izmisumu, bet pa\u0161\u0101 kodol\u0101 eksist\u0113 dzi\u013ca m\u012blest\u012bba, j\u016bs apvienojo\u0161a. Ja kaut kas neiet t\u0101, k\u0101 j\u016bs pl\u0101noj\u0101t vai sagaid\u012bj\u0101t, nav vajadz\u012bbas vainot ne sevi, ne vi\u0146u. Eksist\u0113 kaut kas, caur ko vi\u0146ai ir j\u0101iziet sav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113, noteikts iemesls, kura d\u0113\u013c vi\u0146ai ir \u0161\u012b probl\u0113ma. Tas ir vi\u0146as \u013coti t\u012brs nodoms \u2013 b\u016bt \u0161eit, uz Zemes. Vi\u0146a nes sev\u012b \u013coti t\u012bru un gudru ener\u0123iju, kura skars daudzus. Ta\u010du ir vajadz\u012bga liela paciet\u012bba no vi\u0146as un j\u016bsu puses, lai dotu iesp\u0113ju \u0161ai ener\u0123ijai nesaboj\u0101tai nolaisties uz Zemes. Vi\u0146a izv\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s (to ir gr\u016bti prec\u012bzi izteikt v\u0101rdos) atnest t\u012bru un att\u012bst\u012btu ener\u0123iju uz Zemi, paliekot pie tam sal\u012bdzino\u0161i neaizsarg\u0101tai. T\u0101dej\u0101di, vi\u0146as ener\u0123ija nav noska\u0146ota uz Zemes ener\u0123\u0113tisko realit\u0101ti, un vi\u0146ai ir nepiecie\u0161ams translators, k\u0101ds, kur\u0161 pal\u012bdz\u0113s vi\u0146ai adapt\u0113t vi\u0146as ener\u0123iju Zemes realit\u0101tei. Vi\u0146a apzin\u0101ti izv\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s \u0161o sal\u012bdzino\u0161o neaizsarg\u0101t\u012bbu un augsto jut\u012bbu, jo t\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 vibr\u0101cijas, kuras vi\u0146a nes iek\u0161ien\u0113, var palikt augst\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vienu var \u0161eit pateikt (es tagad run\u0101ju visp\u0101rin\u0101t\u0101k). Ja jums ir \u201cnorm\u0101ls b\u0113rns\u201d tai noz\u012bm\u0113, ka vi\u0146\u0161 viegli piem\u0113rojas apk\u0101rt\u0113j\u0101s pasaules gaid\u0101m, tad t\u0101ds b\u0113rns viegl\u0101k aizmirst sevi, tas ir, zaud\u0113 kontaktu ar savas dv\u0113seles s\u0101kotn\u0113jo ener\u0123iju. Vi\u0146\u0161 viegl\u0101k pak\u013caujas sabiedr\u012bbas pras\u012bbu un standartu ietekmei, un pat pa\u0161i jut\u012bg\u0101kie un apgaismot\u0101kie vec\u0101ki nevar to nov\u0113rst. B\u0113rni ar uzved\u012bbas novirz\u0113m, t\u0101d\u0101m k\u0101 autisms, tik viegli neadapt\u0113jas. Ta\u010du, sakar\u0101 ar to t\u0101du b\u0113rnu dv\u0113seles ener\u0123ija lab\u0101k saglab\u0101jas, t\u0101 teikt, paliek neskarta. Glu\u017ei pret\u0113ji, cilv\u0113ki \u0161o b\u0113rnu apk\u0101rtn\u0113 ir spiesti piem\u0113roties vi\u0146iem. \u0160\u012b situ\u0101cija bie\u017ei ir pietieko\u0161i smaga vec\u0101kiem, skolot\u0101jiem un \u0101rstiem. Ta\u010du \u0161aj\u0101 probl\u0113m\u0101 ir apsl\u0113pts d\u0101rgums. B\u0113rns (b\u016bdams cit\u0101ds) mudina apk\u0101rtni mekl\u0113t jaunus saskarsmes veidus, liekot \u0161aub\u012bties par apgalvojumiem, kuri agr\u0101k lik\u0101s ac\u012bmredzami, un pa \u012bstam atv\u0113rties b\u0113rna iek\u0161\u0113jai pasaulei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tas, kas \u012bpa\u0161i tiek pras\u012bts no jums attiec\u012bb\u0101s ar j\u016bsu meitu \u2013 t\u0101 ir tic\u012bba vi\u0146ai un jut\u012bba pret vi\u0146as vajadz\u012bb\u0101m. J\u016bs to dar\u0101t \u013coti labi. Jums iek\u0161ien\u0113 tam ir daudz br\u012bvas telpas. Ticiet, ka j\u016bsu b\u0113rns izv\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s savu dz\u012bves ce\u013cu, ka vi\u0146a jau nosprauda noteiktas ce\u013ca z\u012bmes sav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 un ka vi\u0146a izv\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s j\u016bs par saviem vec\u0101kiem, lai j\u016bs kop\u0101 dotu vi\u0146ai iesp\u0113ju izliet vi\u0146as gaismu p\u0101r Zemi. J\u016bs dar\u0101t br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgu darbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pamelas papildus piez\u012bmes:<\/em><\/strong> P\u0113c seansa man bija \u012bsa intuit\u012bva \u0161\u012bs meitenes las\u012b\u0161ana vi\u0146as m\u0101tei p\u0113c fotogr\u0101fijas. T\u0101 par\u0101d\u012bja, ka vi\u0146as autisms ir saist\u012bts ar pag\u0101ju\u0161\u0101s dz\u012bves pieredzi. L\u016bk, \u0161\u012bs las\u012b\u0161anas liter\u0101ls pieraksts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Es redzu daudz gai\u0161i zilas ener\u0123ijas virs vi\u0146as galvas mirdzo\u0161u akme\u0146u form\u0101, kuri savienoti ov\u0101l\u0101 ap kro\u0146a \u010dakru. T\u0101 ir augstu vibr\u0113jo\u0161a ener\u0123ija. T\u0101 satur dzi\u013cu dz\u012bves un cilv\u0113ka dv\u0113seles izpratni. Es j\u016btu, ka vi\u0146a ir dz\u012bvojusi k\u0101du laiku uz Zemes un vi\u0146ai ir dzi\u013ca gar\u012bg\u0101 vai gai\u0161redz\u012bbas pieredze, kuras laik\u0101 vi\u0146a juta stipru iedvesmu, l\u012bdz\u012bgu apskaidr\u012bbai. T\u0101 rezult\u0101t\u0101 cilv\u0113ku uzved\u012bba un pamudino\u0161ie mot\u012bvi vi\u0146ai k\u013cuva absol\u016bti caursp\u012bd\u012bgi, ieskaitot ar\u012b varas sl\u0113pt\u0101s sp\u0113les, kuras notika vi\u0146as sabiedr\u012bb\u0101. Ta\u010du vi\u0146ai bija gr\u016bti iek\u013caut \u0161o zin\u0101\u0161anu sav\u0101 ikdienas eksistenc\u0113. Es j\u016btu, ka vi\u0146a saslima, s\u0101ka justies slikti k\u0101 fiziskaj\u0101, t\u0101 ar\u012b psiholo\u0123iskaj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b. Vi\u0146a nevar\u0113ja izteikt savu paties\u012bbu, jo vi\u0146as apk\u0101rtne nesaprata, nevar\u0113ja pie\u0146emt vi\u0146u. Tas padar\u012bja vi\u0146u nemier\u012bgu. Vi\u0146a juta, ka vi\u0146ai piem\u012bt zin\u0101\u0161ana, kura var\u0113tu pal\u012bdz\u0113t citiem cilv\u0113kiem un pasarg\u0101t vi\u0146us no cie\u0161an\u0101m, bet vi\u0146ai nebija iesp\u0113jas past\u0101st\u012bt par to, jo var\u0113ja izr\u0101d\u012bties izol\u0101cij\u0101. Man rad\u0101s iespaids, ka vi\u0146a nesp\u0113ja atrisin\u0101t \u0161o dilemmu t\u0101s iemieso\u0161an\u0101s laik\u0101 un sal\u016bza emocion\u0101li no stresa un fiziskaj\u0101m probl\u0113m\u0101m, kuras rad\u0101s no nesp\u0113jas integr\u0113t augsto apzi\u0146u fiziskaj\u0101 b\u016bt\u012bb\u0101. Vi\u0146a emocion\u0101li aizv\u0113r\u0101s, un tas atsauc\u0101s vi\u0146as kakl\u0101 (pa\u0161izteiksme), sird\u012b (sakars ar citiem cilv\u0113kiem) un trij\u0101s zem\u0101kaj\u0101s \u010dakr\u0101s (dro\u0161\u012bbas un v\u0113lam\u012bbas saj\u016bta).<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tagad (tagadn\u0113) \u0161\u012b augst\u0101k\u0101 zin\u0101\u0161ana (zilais ov\u0101ls) kar\u0101jas virs vi\u0146as galvas, smalks un t\u012brs, un vi\u0146ai ir nodoms \u0161aj\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 integr\u0113t to sav\u0101 fiziskaj\u0101 un emocion\u0101laj\u0101 realit\u0101t\u0113 uz Zemes. Es skaidri saj\u016btu, ka tie\u0161i \u0161\u012b iemesla d\u0113\u013c vi\u0146a ir atn\u0101kusi pie jums (vi\u0146as m\u0101tes). J\u016bs ar\u012b nesat sav\u0101 aur\u0101 kaut ko no \u0161\u012bs zil\u0101s ener\u0123ijas (augst\u0101k\u0101s apzi\u0146as \u012bpa\u0161\u012bba). T\u0101dej\u0101di, jums eksist\u0113 dabiska saikne ar vi\u0146u. J\u016bsu aur\u0101 kl\u0101t ir ar\u012b sarkan\u0101 kr\u0101sa zem\u0101ko \u010dakru tuvum\u0101, kas liecina par sp\u0113ju past\u0101v\u0113t par savu taisn\u012bbu, pat, ja tas da\u017ereiz nav viegli. Es j\u016btu, ka j\u016bsu kl\u0101tb\u016btnei ir dziedino\u0161a iedarb\u012bba uz meitu. Tas ir br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgi. Vi\u0146a grib soli pa solim izdziedin\u0101ties \u0161aj\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113. J\u016bs, k\u0101 vi\u0146as vec\u0101ks, esat probl\u0113mas risin\u0101juma da\u013ca, nevis pa\u0161as probl\u0113mas da\u013ca.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Abi mani d\u0113li ir \u013coti jut\u012bgi, bet piln\u012bgi katrs sav\u0101 veid\u0101, un t\u0101p\u0113c vi\u0146i visu laiku kaujas un str\u012bdas. Man ir \u013coti gr\u016bti to redz\u0113t. Es ar\u012b iepinos ar vi\u0146iem c\u012b\u0146\u0101 un str\u012bdos, kaut ar\u012b p\u0113c savas dabas man ir nepiecie\u0161ams miers un harmonija. Ko man ies\u0101kt ar to?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jums \u013coti svar\u012bgi ir nosarg\u0101t savu pa\u0161as paties\u012bbu, savas saj\u016btas un skaidri iez\u012bm\u0113t savas robe\u017eas attiec\u012bb\u0101s ar citiem. J\u016bsu apzi\u0146a viegli nosl\u012bd div\u0101s aug\u0161\u0113j\u0101s \u010dakr\u0101s (tre\u0161\u0101s acs un kro\u0146a), no kur\u0101m j\u016bs uztverat citu cilv\u0113ku emocijas un saprotat to c\u0113lo\u0146us. Ta\u010du j\u016bs zaud\u0113jat saikni ar trij\u0101m apak\u0161\u0113j\u0101m \u010dakr\u0101m, kuras saka jums, ko j\u016bs<\/em><\/strong> j\u016btat, kas jums<\/em><\/strong> nepiecie\u0161ams un ko j\u016bs<\/em><\/strong> gribat. J\u016bs zaud\u0113jat kontaktu ar savu iek\u0161\u0113jo b\u0113rnu (emociju vietu) un zaud\u0113jat sazem\u0113jumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u016bs pati esat \u013coti jut\u012bga, un j\u016bsu jut\u012bgums satur daudz l\u012bdzj\u016bt\u012bbas pret citiem. J\u016bs v\u0113laties b\u016bt piesl\u0113gta, b\u016bt kop\u0101 ar citiem, ta\u010du reiz\u0113 ar to j\u016bs nedaudz izt\u0113r\u0113jat sevi. Jums ir svar\u012bgi nopietni attiekties pret sav\u0101m pa\u0161as dusmu un preto\u0161an\u0101s emocij\u0101m un at\u013caut notikt ener\u0123iju p\u0101rb\u012bdei j\u016bsu iek\u0161ien\u0113, lai atjaunotu atdo\u0161anas un sa\u0146em\u0161anas l\u012bdzsvaru. J\u016bs iejaucaties c\u012b\u0146\u0101 starp j\u016bsu d\u0113liem tie\u0161i \u0161\u012b iemesla d\u0113\u013c. Tas prasa no jums skaidri iez\u012bm\u0113t savas robe\u017eas un piepras\u012bt no vi\u0146iem cie\u0146u. T\u0101 ir bie\u017ea probl\u0113ma jut\u012bgiem vec\u0101kiem, kuri cen\u0161as saprast savus b\u0113rnus un nev\u0113las ievainot vi\u0146us. Vec\u0101ku lom\u0101 vi\u0146i bie\u017ei zaud\u0113 l\u012bdzsvaru, jo apspie\u017e savas pa\u0161u emocijas un zaud\u0113 sava pa\u0161a iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 b\u0113rna p\u0113das. Jums j\u0101k\u013c\u016bst stingr\u0101kai un koncentr\u0113tai uz sevi attiec\u012bb\u0101s ar j\u016bsu b\u0113rniem. K\u013c\u016bstot savu vajadz\u012bbu apzino\u0161\u0101kai un stingr\u0101kai, j\u016bs var\u0113siet k\u013c\u016bt par piem\u0113ru saviem b\u0113rniem un par\u0101d\u012bt vi\u0146iem, ko noz\u012bm\u0113 vienlaic\u012bgi b\u016bt gan augsti jut\u012bgam, gan p\u0101rliecin\u0101tam par sevi. Iemiesojot \u0161o l\u012bdzsvara ener\u0123iju, j\u016bs m\u0101c\u0101t vi\u0146us daudz lab\u0101k, k\u0101 jebkad ar v\u0101rdiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u0113rni \u0146em j\u016bsu ener\u0123iju, j\u016btot t\u0101, kas j\u016bs esat, raksturu, \u012bpa\u0161i – jut\u012bgi b\u0113rni. Un t\u0101, at\u013caujiet sev k\u0101du telpu pa\u0161izteiksmei, un j\u016bs ieraudz\u012bsiet, ka tas padar\u012bs j\u016bs iezem\u0113t\u0101ku un dos jums \u012bstu mieru un harmoniju, kuru j\u016bs mekl\u0113jat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u0101 man realiz\u0113t manu nodomu un v\u0113l\u0113\u0161anos str\u0101d\u0101t ar b\u0113rniem? Es j\u016btu aicin\u0101jumu str\u0101d\u0101t ar b\u0113rniem j\u016bsu aprakst\u012btaj\u0101 stil\u0101, bet, tai pat laik\u0101, manas bailes par neveiksmi un \u0161aubas, ka neviens \u0101rpasaul\u0113 negaida mani, novalda manu dzi\u0146u. Atkal un atkal mans p\u0101rliec\u012bbas par sevi tr\u016bkums p\u0101rtrauc manas pa\u0161izteiksmes pl\u016bsmu. Ko man ar to ies\u0101kt?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ir j\u016bsos patiesa kv\u0113la v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s, kura n\u0101k no j\u016bsu dv\u0113seles. Ir svar\u012bgi saglab\u0101t \u0161o tieksmi un r\u012bkoties ar to maigi un r\u016bp\u012bgi. Reiz\u0113 ar entuziasmu \u0161\u012b v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s pamodina j\u016bsos bailes. T\u0101s iznes virspus\u0113 vecu r\u0113tu, kura atgrie\u017e j\u016bs b\u0113rn\u012bb\u0101 un pat agr\u0101k, iepriek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s iemieso\u0161an\u0101s, kur\u0101s j\u016bs izjut\u0101t atteikumu, izsakot t\u0101s \u012bpa\u0161\u012bbas, kuras tagad gribat izteikt atkal. (Vardarb\u012bga) atteikuma pieredze atst\u0101ja traumu j\u016bsu dv\u0113sel\u0113. \u0160\u012b trauma izpau\u017e savu preto\u0161anos un sv\u0101rst\u012bbas k\u0101 pret\u0113jo pusi v\u0113lmei atkal izpaust savu \u012bsto gar\u012bgo ener\u0123iju. \u0160\u012b mantojuma izpratne un pie\u0146em\u0161ana \u2013 pirmais un galvenais solis uz pa\u0161izdziedin\u0101\u0161anu. Ar neieciet\u012bbu pret sevi un savu bai\u013cu un nedro\u0161\u012bbas nosod\u012b\u0161anu j\u016bs noliedzat \u0161\u012bs s\u0101pes sev\u012b, kuras v\u0113las tikt atz\u012btas un p\u0101rvestas uz apzi\u0146u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Atv\u0113liet sev laiku ievainot\u0101 iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 b\u0113rna iz\u0101rst\u0113\u0161anai. J\u016bsu entuziasmam ir pareizs virziens, bet tas ar\u012b padara j\u016bs nemier\u012bgu, jo j\u016bs m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t p\u0101r\u0101k \u0101tri tikt gal\u0101 ar j\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101m r\u0113t\u0101m. Atcerieties, ka tas nav j\u016bsu manifest\u0101cijas \u0101rpasaul\u0113 process. Runa iet par j\u016bsu<\/em><\/strong> izdziedin\u0101\u0161anu. Pirmais un pats svar\u012bg\u0101kais m\u0113r\u0137is katrai dv\u0113selei, kura iemiesojas uz Zemes \u2013 t\u0101 ir pa\u0161realiz\u0101cija<\/em><\/strong>. Iem\u012bl\u0113t un pie\u0146emt sevi t\u0101du, k\u0101ds esi, un izjust atbr\u012bvo\u0161anu, kas n\u0101k no t\u0101. Tas ir pamats visai rado\u0161ajai, gar\u012bgajai ener\u0123ijai. Ja tas ir izdar\u012bts, \u0101r\u0113j\u0101s manifest\u0101cijas notiek viegli un bez piep\u016bles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tas fakts, ka j\u016bs gribat dz\u012bvot, balstoties uz sirdi, pasaka to, ka j\u016bs esat gatavs griezties pie bai\u013cu un tumsas kodola, kur\u0161 v\u0113l arvien eksist\u0113 j\u016bsu iek\u0161ien\u0113. Tieksme izteikt savas dv\u0113seles ener\u0123iju uz Zemes vienm\u0113r atn\u0101k tad, kad j\u016bs esat gatavs pa\u0161izdziedin\u0101\u0161anai pa\u0161\u0101 dzi\u013c\u0101kaj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b. Ja j\u016bs gatavojaties izteikt savas sirds iedvesmu uz Zemes, jums, vair\u0101k k\u0101 jebkad, ir j\u0101atlai\u017e sava pag\u0101tne, izgl\u012bt\u012bba un savstarp\u0113j\u0101s attiec\u012bbas, kas jau vairs nekalpo jums. Savieno\u0161an\u0101s ar j\u016bsu dv\u0113seli rada kust\u012bbu j\u016bsu dz\u012bv\u0113. Tas izskat\u0101s t\u0101, it k\u0101 j\u016bs atk\u0101pjaties par soli atpaka\u013c, pirms j\u016bsu gar\u012bg\u0101 ener\u0123ija sp\u0113s pie\u0146em materi\u0101lu formu. J\u016bsu dz\u012bv\u0113 notiek izmai\u0146as, un lietas var uz k\u0101du laiku pat non\u0101kt haos\u0101 un nek\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101. Tie\u0161i t\u0101 ar\u012b j\u0101b\u016bt. Ne\u0161aubieties par sevi, ja j\u016bsu dv\u0113seles v\u0113lmju manifest\u0101cijas process pa ce\u013cam pakl\u016bp. Tie\u0161i \u0161ie gr\u016bdieni un krat\u012b\u0161an\u0101s pal\u012bdz jums apzin\u0101ties, kas j\u016bs esat paties\u012bb\u0101 un ko j\u016bs varat pied\u0101v\u0101t citiem. Ejot cauri bail\u0113m un p\u0101rliec\u012bbas tr\u016bkumam, tiekoties ar tiem aci pret aci, j\u016bs k\u013c\u016bstat m\u012blo\u0161\u0101ks un l\u012bdzj\u016bt\u012bg\u0101ks attiec\u012bb\u0101 pret citiem. Atbr\u012bvojoties no spriedumiem un patiesi pie\u0146emot sevi t\u0101du, k\u0101ds j\u016bs esat \u0161aj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, j\u016bs k\u013c\u016bstat gudr\u0101ks. J\u016bs saprotat, ka tas patie\u0161\u0101m skar tikai j\u016bs, bet ne citus. Un \u0161aj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b citi s\u0101ks n\u0101kt pie jums. Vi\u0146i ieraudz\u012bs j\u016bsos kaut ko vi\u0146us iedvesmojo\u0161u. Iesp\u0113jas j\u016bsu dv\u0113seles iedvesmas izpau\u0161anai s\u0101ks viegli par\u0101d\u012bties pa\u0161as. J\u016bs esat gatavs un j\u016bs zin\u0101siet par to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00a9 Pamela Kribbe 2008<\/strong>
www.jeshua.net<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

* Holistisk\u0101 medic\u012bna (no ang\u013cu whole – holistic medicine<\/em>) – medic\u012bna, kas skata cilv\u0113ku k\u0101 mikrokosmu neatrauti no Visum\u0101, makrokosm\u0101, notieko\u0161iem procesiem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Marija run\u0101 caur Pamelu 2008. gada 24. janv\u0101ris Mani d\u0101rgie draugi! Es sveicinu j\u016bs. Mums ir \u013coti pat\u012bkama j\u016bsu kl\u0101tb\u016btne \u0161eit \u0161odien, un m\u0113s svinam j\u016bsu atra\u0161anos uz Zemes \u0161aj\u0101 laik\u0101. Pirms es kaut ko teik\u0161u par m\u016bsu \u0161odienas t\u0113mu \u2013 jaun\u0101s \u0113ras b\u0113rniem \u2013 es gribu piev\u0113rst uzman\u012bbu jums pa\u0161iem. Katru dienu j\u016bs…<\/p>\n

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