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Pamelas \u010denelings ar Mariju Magdal\u0113nu<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Angliski tulkoju\u0161i Marija Baesa un Franks Tehans<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Piez\u012bme: \u0161aj\u0101 \u010deneling\u0101 ir runa par m\u012blest\u012bbas attiec\u012bb\u0101m starp v\u012brieti un sievieti, bet tas tikpat daudz attiecas uz homoseksu\u0101laj\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m. \u012asu \u010denelingu ar Je\u0161ua par homoseksu\u0101lismu skat. jeshua.net\/lv\/ J&A sada\u013cu.)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u0101rgie v\u012brie\u0161i un sievietes, es j\u016bs visus sveicinu. Es esmu \u0161eit, j\u016bsu vid\u016b, k\u0101 sieviete, k\u0101 m\u0101sa. Es ar jums esmu viens vesels un esmu bijusi cilv\u0113ks. Es no iek\u0161ienes zinu visas saj\u016btas, kuras jums ir \u0161odien. T\u0101s nav man sve\u0161as.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kas mani visvair\u0101k p\u0101rsteidz, kad es tagad skatos uz dz\u012bvi uz Zemes no \u0161\u012bs puses, ir smalkuma tr\u016bkums dz\u012bvei uz Zemes. Cilv\u0113ka b\u016btnes ievainojam\u012bba, s\u0101pes un br\u016bces, ko j\u016bs p\u0101rcie\u0161at, kam\u0113r esat uz Zemes, un glu\u017ei pret\u0113ji, j\u016bsu neticam\u0101 drosme, j\u016bsu past\u0101v\u012bg\u0101s alkas p\u0113c Gaismas un M\u012blest\u012bbas, j\u016bsu neatlaid\u012bba un priec\u012bg\u0101s uzvaras. Tas man tagad raksturo dz\u012bvi uz Zemes. Es redzu j\u016bs k\u0101 drosm\u012bgus e\u0146\u0123e\u013cus, kuri uz\u0146emas \u0161o pieredzi, \u0161o piedz\u012bvojumu ar sevi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kad j\u016bs nolai\u017eaties zemes dz\u012bv\u0113, j\u016bs gandr\u012bz vienm\u0113r n\u0101kat no valst\u012bbas, kura vibr\u0113 augst\u0101k\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b, nek\u0101 cilv\u0113ku sabiedr\u012bba to tagad dara uz Zemes. Kaut kur dzi\u013ci iek\u0161ien\u0113 j\u016bs sak\u0101t \u201cj\u0101\u201d, lai sastaptos ar \u0161o Zemes ener\u0123iju. J\u016bs pie\u0146emat l\u0113mumu: \u201cEs eju, lai to uz\u0146emtos\u201d: deju ar dz\u012bvi uz Zemes, kas da\u013c\u0113ji ir deja ar tumsu, ar bail\u0113m, pretest\u012bbu, vientul\u012bbu un pazaud\u0113t\u012bbas saj\u016btu. J\u016bs uz\u0146ematies \u0161o risku, un es tagad varu redz\u0113t, k\u0101p\u0113c. Neskatoties uz vis\u0101m cie\u0161an\u0101m, p\u016bl\u0113m, smagumiem, nav citur tik dzi\u013cas, tik bag\u0101tas un tik intens\u012bvas vietas k\u0101 tad, kad j\u016bs esat iemiesoti mat\u0113rij\u0101, form\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tom\u0113r bie\u017ei j\u016bs v\u0113laties atdal\u012bt sevi no formas un iziet \u0101rpus t\u0101s, lai savienotos ar kaut ko liel\u0101ku, kaut ko augst\u0101ku. J\u016bs cen\u0161aties atbr\u012bvoties no zemes dz\u012bves ietvariem. Bet es redzu skaistumu taj\u0101, kas j\u016bs esat k\u0101 zemes cilv\u0113ki: v\u012brietis, sieviete, b\u0113rns vai pieaugu\u0161ais. \u0160aj\u0101 specifiskaj\u0101 form\u0101, kura jums ir, j\u016bs izstarojat Rad\u012b\u0161anas Gaismu. Daudzas gar\u012bg\u0101s trad\u012bcijas ir fokus\u0113tas uz izie\u0161anu \u0101rpus cilv\u0113ka formas: \u201c\u0137ermenis nav labs, vi\u0146\u0161 nav paties\u012bbas nes\u0113js; emocijas ir aizdom\u012bgas, kaisl\u012bba ir piln\u012bgi izsl\u0113gta; seksualit\u0101te ir k\u0101rdin\u0101juma avots, j\u0101, pat posto\u0161a\u201d. Visa zemes eksistence faktiski bija nov\u0101jin\u0101ta, un tai bija at\u0146emts t\u0101s sv\u0113tums ar \u0161\u0101da veida dom\u0101\u0161anu, un tas notika aiz v\u0113lmes kontrol\u0113t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uz Zemes bija sp\u0113ki, kas v\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s kontrol\u0113t dz\u012bvi. Un, lai \u012bstenotu kontroli p\u0101r cilv\u0113kiem, p\u0101r dz\u012bvi, j\u016bs to vislab\u0101kaj\u0101 veid\u0101 sasniedzat caur pr\u0101tu: caur idej\u0101m un t\u0113liem, ko j\u016bs izplat\u0101t, ko j\u016bs izmantojat iedve\u0161anai. Ment\u0101l\u0101 kontrole ir daudz aptvero\u0161\u0101ka nek\u0101 manipul\u0113\u0161ana ar fizisku sp\u0113ku. J\u016bs varat dzi\u013ci skart cilv\u0113kus vi\u0146u dv\u0113sel\u0113s un izmain\u012bt vi\u0146us, kad j\u016bs noliekat vi\u0146iem priek\u0161\u0101 da\u017eus att\u0113lojumus par to, kas vi\u0146i ir, par vi\u0146u cien\u012bbu vai necien\u012bbu, un vi\u0146u dabisko impulsu labumu vai \u201csliktumu\u201d (\u013caunumu).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u016bs \u0161\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 esat dzi\u013ci ietekm\u0113ti, un \u0161\u012b st\u0101vok\u013ca d\u0113\u013c j\u016bs s\u0101k\u0101t raudz\u012bties uz dz\u012bvi uz Zemes k\u0101 uz daudzos veidos necien\u012bgu. Tas jums ir m\u0101c\u012bts, un neapzin\u0101ti j\u016bs joproj\u0101m nesat \u0161os iespaidus sev l\u012bdz. Tiem joproj\u0101m ir ietekme uz to, k\u0101 j\u016bs dom\u0101jat par sevi, saj\u016btat j\u016bsu \u0137ermeni, j\u016bsu iek\u0101res, j\u016bsu v\u0113lmes, emocijas un j\u016bsu kaisli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u016bsdien\u0101s lietas s\u0101k k\u013c\u016bt elast\u012bg\u0101kas, vec\u0101s idejas draud sabrukt. Tas ir t\u0101p\u0113c, ka arvien vair\u0101k un vair\u0101k cilv\u0113ku ir pamodu\u0161ies, j\u016bt v\u0113lmi b\u016bt patiesiem pret sevi. \u0160is jaunais ener\u0123ijas vilnis modina cilv\u0113kus individu\u0101li, vienu p\u0113c otra, un t\u0101 k\u0101 tas pieaug, tas ietekm\u0113s sabiedr\u012bbu kopum\u0101. T\u0101 ir kust\u012bba atpaka\u013c pie Zemes, j\u016bs var\u0113tu teikt, un atpaka\u013c pie dabisk\u0101 sevis, jo j\u016bs esat Zemes da\u013ca. J\u016bsu \u0137ermenis ir Zemes da\u013ca: j\u016bsu seksualit\u0101te, j\u016bsu instinkti, j\u016bsu \u0137erme\u0146a valoda ir Zemes da\u013ca. J\u016bsu zemes dabu nevar bezgal\u012bgi noliegt, t\u0101 ir dz\u012bvotsp\u0113j\u012bga Rad\u012b\u0161anas da\u013ca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un k\u0101ds lietu st\u0101voklis jums ir \u0161aj\u0101 savienojum\u0101, starp zem\u0101ko un augst\u0101ko? Tradicion\u0101li j\u016bs teiktu, ka gar\u012bgumam bija dar\u012b\u0161ana ar \u201caugst\u0101ko\u201d, un bie\u017ei ar\u012b ar kalpo\u0161anu ide\u0101lam \u2013 j\u016bs kalpoj\u0101t kaut kam augst\u0101kam, piem\u0113ram, noliekot sev kalpot j\u016bsu kaimi\u0146am vai j\u016bsu kopienai. Un zem\u0101kais tika piel\u012bdzin\u0101ts tam, kas ir orient\u0113ts uz ego, fokus\u0113ts uz sevi, \u012bstenots k\u0101 savas pa\u0161a v\u0113lmes. Ja j\u016bs sekoj\u0101t sav\u0101m tieksm\u0113m, j\u016bs bij\u0101t \u201cnog\u0101ju\u0161i no ce\u013ca\u201d, uz ego orient\u0113tais bija apkrauts ar gr\u0113ku un spriedumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tom\u0113r tagad j\u016bs esat dom\u0101\u0161anas par gar\u012bgumu transform\u0101cijas vid\u016b. J\u016bs to j\u016btat k\u0101 aicin\u0101jumu uz izmai\u0146\u0101m no visas j\u016bsu b\u016bt\u012bbas, un j\u016bs esat atn\u0101ku\u0161i \u0161urp, lai atbalst\u012btu apzi\u0146as mo\u0161anos uz Zemes. Pirms j\u016bs veic\u0101t l\u0113cienu j\u016bsu pa\u0161reiz\u0113j\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113, j\u016bs jut\u0101t potenci\u0101lu fundament\u0101l\u0101m p\u0101rmai\u0146\u0101m, kas notiek \u0161aj\u0101 laik\u0101. J\u016bsu dv\u0113seli tas pievilka, un j\u016bs nol\u0113m\u0101t: \u201cEs v\u0113los b\u016bt t\u0101 da\u013ca, t\u0101p\u0113c es atkal eju uz turieni.\u201d Vec\u0101s apzi\u0146as domin\u0113\u0161ana, k\u0101da t\u0101 bija, bija sasniegusi savu robe\u017eu. Liet\u0101m tagad vajadz\u0113tu<\/em> b\u016bt sav\u0101d\u0101k\u0101m. Pat cilv\u0113ces, dabas turpm\u0101k\u0101 izdz\u012bvo\u0161ana un harmonija ar Zemi ir atkar\u012bga no t\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160is pamo\u0161an\u0101s un transform\u0101cijas process aicina j\u016bs pav\u0113rsties pret t\u0101 saucamo zem\u0101ko sev\u012b un pie\u0161\u0137irt tam piln\u012bgi citu v\u0113rt\u012bbu. Un ko noz\u012bm\u0113 \u0161\u012b pav\u0113r\u0161an\u0101s pret zem\u0101ko? Veikt savieno\u0161anos ar j\u016bsu \u0137ermeni, ar j\u016bsu v\u0113deru, ar j\u016bsu saj\u016bt\u0101m \u2013 atpaz\u012bt j\u016bsu pa\u0161u dz\u012bvnieka dabu<\/em>. K\u0101 cilv\u0113ciskas b\u016btnes j\u016bs sav\u0101s dom\u0101s esat dz\u012bvoju\u0161as tik ilgi, ka j\u016bs esat zaud\u0113ju\u0161as savu savienojumu ar to, ko es grib\u0113tu saukt par j\u016bsu \u201cdz\u012bvnieciskumu\u201d, dz\u012bvnieku, j\u016bsu instinkt\u012bvo da\u013cu. \u0160is j\u0113dziens uzreiz izraisa noteiktas asoci\u0101cijas, bet kas ir \u201cdz\u012bvnieciskums\u201d paties\u012bb\u0101? Dz\u012bvniekiem nav ment\u0101l\u0101s ener\u0123ijas, k\u0101du, piem\u0113ram, ra\u017eo cilv\u0113ki. Dz\u012bvnieki dz\u012bvo p\u0113c instinkta, bet \u0161is instinkts ir daudz sare\u017e\u0123\u012bt\u0101ks, daudz smalk\u0101ks instruments, nek\u0101 cilv\u0113ki parasti uzskata. Instinkts ir j\u016bsu v\u0113der\u0101<\/em>. Instinkts pal\u012bdz jums tie\u0161i sajust, ko k\u0101ds j\u016bt pret jums: vai vi\u0146\u0161 j\u016btas labi, vai izj\u016bt pret\u012bgumu; vai vi\u0146\u0161 dod jums kaut ko v\u0113lamu, vai j\u016bs v\u0113laties, lai vi\u0146\u0161 ietu prom. Bet tas, ko cilv\u0113kiem ir gr\u016bti izdar\u012bt, tad tas ir pa\u013cauties uz savu instinktu, un da\u017ereiz vi\u0146i vairs nevar to sajust. J\u016bs tik stipri esat dz\u012bvoju\u0161i no savas galvas, ka j\u016bs esat pazaud\u0113ju\u0161i savienojumu ar j\u016bsu instinktu, savas dz\u012bvnieka dabas gudr\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u016bsu apgr\u016btin\u0101t\u0101s attiec\u012bbas ar j\u016bsu pa\u0161u dz\u012bvnieciskumu, dz\u012bvnieku j\u016bsu iek\u0161ien\u0113, sevi skaidri par\u0101da seksualit\u0101tes jom\u0101. Kas notiek, kad cilv\u0113ki uz\u0146emas int\u012bmas, seksu\u0101las attiec\u012bbas ar otru? Draudz\u012bb\u0101, kur\u0101 nav seksualit\u0101tes, j\u016bs zin\u0101m\u0101 m\u0113r\u0101 varat palikt \u0101rpus instinkt\u012bvas dz\u012bvnieka dabas jomas. J\u016bs varat savienoties no galvas un, kad savienojums padzi\u013cin\u0101s, no sirds. Bet tad, kad starp diviem cilv\u0113kiem ir atv\u0113rta seksualit\u0101tes joma, sp\u0113l\u0113 citi sp\u0113ki. Ir instinkt\u012bva piesaiste fiziskaj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b, piesaiste starp pretstatiem, tam ir maz sakara ar galvu un ne oblig\u0101ti ar sirdi, abiem. Sava seksu\u0101l\u0101 kaisle bie\u017ei baida cilv\u0113kus, un vi\u0146i var rea\u0123\u0113t div\u0113j\u0101di. Piesaiste var iedvest t\u0101das bailes, k\u0101 kontroles zaud\u0113\u0161anu, sevis<\/em> zaud\u0113\u0161anu, t\u0101, ka j\u016bs visu sl\u0113dzat un aizejat. Jeb j\u016bs ejat l\u012bdzi piesaistes pl\u016bsmai, bet j\u016bs paliekat fokus\u0113ti uz iek\u0101res saj\u016btu, kura jums ir \u0137ermen\u012b, un j\u016bs neesat atv\u0113rti dzi\u013cai intimit\u0101tei, ko seksualit\u0101te var izrais\u012bt j\u016bsos. Tas ir reti, ka divi cilv\u0113ki var b\u016bt int\u012bmi un pieredz\u0113t savieno\u0161anos abos, vi\u0146u dz\u012bvnieka dabas un vi\u0146u sirds, l\u012bme\u0146os.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tiek uzskat\u012bts par kaunu, ka seksualit\u0101te patiesi var\u0113tu b\u016bt ce\u013c\u0161 uz dzi\u013cu gar\u012bg\u0101s un cilv\u0113cisk\u0101s m\u012blest\u012bbas sajaukumu. K\u0101p\u0113c v\u012brie\u0161iem un sieviet\u0113m ir tik gr\u016bti izjust sv\u0113to un dziedino\u0161o seksualit\u0101tes aspektu? Ja runa ir par fiziskajiem, seksu\u0101lajiem instinktiem, tad j\u016bs esat uzaugu\u0161i ar visiem tabu un aizliegumu veidiem. Tas kop\u0161 da\u017e\u0101m desmitgad\u0113m ir s\u0101cis main\u012bties, ta\u010du joproj\u0101m \u0161aj\u0101 jom\u0101 nav re\u0101las<\/em> br\u012bv\u012bbas. Vai j\u016bs varat justies br\u012bvi ar iek\u0101res saj\u016bt\u0101m, ko j\u016bs pieredzat? Vai j\u016bs t\u0101s izbaud\u0101t? Jeb tas patie\u0161\u0101m ir kaut kas trauc\u0113jo\u0161s, ka j\u016bs v\u0113laties no t\u0101 atbr\u012bvoties vai nu ar fizisku seksu (kas padara seksu par \u201ckas\u012b\u0161anos, kur niez\u201d), vai atsl\u0113dzot sevi no t\u0101 caur pr\u0101ta sp\u0113ku? Tas joproj\u0101m cilv\u0113kiem ir gr\u016bti \u2013 rota\u013c\u012bgi un ar prieku pie\u0146emt savas seksu\u0101l\u0101s v\u0113lmes. Notiek tas, ka vai nu vi\u0146i sav\u0101 galv\u0101 iespr\u016bst nosod\u012bjum\u0101, vai bail\u0113s no t\u0101. Jeb vi\u0146i iegrimst sav\u0101 iek\u0101r\u0113 gr\u0113c\u012bg\u0101, nosl\u0113gt\u0101 veid\u0101, padarot seksualit\u0101ti par ko t\u0101du, kas notiek tums\u0101. Abos gad\u012bjumos var neb\u016bt savienojums starp sirdi un dz\u012bvnieku, starp augst\u0101ko un zem\u0101ko, starp iek\u0101ri un m\u012blest\u012bbu. Nesp\u0113ja nov\u0113rt\u0113t dz\u012bvnieka da\u013cas v\u0113rt\u012bbu atsl\u0113dz j\u016bs ar\u012b no m\u012blo\u0161\u0101s un gar\u012bg\u0101s da\u013cas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u0101 j\u016bs atkal varat apvienot to, kas tika sadal\u012bts, un justies br\u012bv\u0101k ar savu dz\u012bvnieka un seksu\u0101lo dabu? Pirmk\u0101rt, godiniet \u0137ermeni un \u013caujiet aiziet vecajiem spriedumiem par iek\u0101ri un seksualit\u0101ti. Iek\u0101re ir dabiska ener\u0123ijas pl\u016bsma, kuru \u0123ener\u0113 \u0137ermenis. Vi\u0146\u0161 ir nevain\u012bgs un nav iedzimti b\u012bstams vai destrukt\u012bvs. M\u0113\u0123iniet pie\u0146emt vi\u0146u ar prieku un patiku. Ikreiz, kad j\u016bs j\u016btat iek\u0101ri, baudiet tirpu saj\u016btas j\u016bsu \u0137ermen\u012b, raugieties uz to k\u0101 pat\u012bkamu pa\u0161u par sevi, bez iedarbo\u0161an\u0101s uz to. Pamata jutekliskums j\u016bsu \u0137ermenim eksist\u0113 k\u0101 sl\u0113ptas dzi\u0146as, un t\u0101s \u013cauj jums izbaud\u012bt da\u017e\u0101da veida \u0137erme\u0146a izj\u016btas, t\u0101das k\u0101 \u0113\u0161ana, dzer\u0161ana, pieskar\u0161an\u0101s, dejo\u0161ana, peld\u0113\u0161an\u0101s vai pastaiga saul\u0113. Seksualit\u0101te, kas ir sekss ar k\u0101du citu, ir viena izteiksme no \u0161\u012b pamata jutekliskuma, kas piem\u012bt jums k\u0101 cilv\u0113ciskai b\u016btnei. Nekaunieties no t\u0101, baudiet to. J\u016bsu juteklisk\u0101 daba ir kaut kas d\u0101rgs un br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgs. Ja j\u016bs apkampjat savu juteklisko dabu un pie\u0146emat iek\u0101res saj\u016btas ar atv\u0113rtu pr\u0101tu, jums var b\u016bt prieks no t\u0101! J\u016bs varat dal\u012bties taj\u0101 ar citu cilv\u0113ku, un, ja j\u016bsu divu starp\u0101 ir dzi\u013c\u0101ks savienojums, j\u016bs paman\u012bsiet, k\u0101 iek\u0101res pl\u016bsma faktiski padar\u012bs j\u016bs tuv\u0101kus, \u013caus atv\u0113rties j\u016bsu sird\u012bm vienam pret otru un savienos ne tikai fiziskaj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b, bet ar\u012b emocion\u0101laj\u0101 un gar\u012bgaj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iek\u0101re var ievest m\u012blest\u012bb\u0101 un paties\u0101 tuv\u012bb\u0101. Es grib\u0113tu uzsv\u0113rt, ka iek\u0101re nav pretstats sv\u0113tai un r\u0101mai m\u012blest\u012bbai starp diviem cilv\u0113kiem. Iek\u0101re un m\u012blest\u012bba var iet kop\u0101, un iek\u0101re faktiski var jums pal\u012bdz\u0113t sasniegt dzi\u013cu tuv\u012bbas st\u0101vokli ar otru, ja atdodaties tai bez kauna un attur\u012bbas. Jums ir \u0161is dzi\u013ci s\u0113do\u0161ais priek\u0161stats, ka, ja j\u016bs \u013causieties, ja j\u016bs sl\u012bd\u0113siet pa j\u016bsu emociju un v\u0113lmju vilni, j\u016bs zaud\u0113siet kontroli p\u0101r liet\u0101m. Bet tas bie\u017ei vien ir otr\u0101di. Ja j\u016bs m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t ierobe\u017eot vai kontrol\u0113t kaut ko l\u012bdz\u012bgu seksu\u0101lai v\u0113lmei, j\u016bs str\u0101d\u0101jat pret dabisku sp\u0113ku, kas ir tik sp\u0113c\u012bgs, ka j\u016bs vienalga zaud\u0113siet. Ierobe\u017eojot to, j\u016bs izrais\u0101t izkrop\u013cotu un pat perversu seksualit\u0101tes izpausmi. Seksualit\u0101tes pazemojo\u0161\u0101s formas vienm\u0113r iet kop\u0101 ar slimiem un nelok\u0101miem spriedumiem par cilv\u0113cisko dabu. Tie\u0161i t\u0101p\u0113c reli\u0123isk\u0101 degsme un seksu\u0101l\u0101 perversit\u0101te bie\u017ei iet roku rok\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Justies dro\u0161i ar savu seksu\u0101lo dabu ir pirmais solis ce\u013c\u0101 uz int\u012bmu savieno\u0161anos ar otru. J\u016bs nov\u0113rt\u0113jat savu \u0137ermeni un pieredzes veidu, ko vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113las jums pied\u0101v\u0101t. Protams, lai int\u012bmi savienotos ar otru cilv\u0113ku, ir nepiecie\u0161ams vair\u0101k nek\u0101 tikai tas. Jums ir dar\u012b\u0161ana ar citu b\u016btni, form\u0113tu un veidotu uz cita fonu un ar citu v\u0113sturi. Lai j\u016bs abi justos dro\u0161i un pasarg\u0101ti, j\u016bsu sird\u012bm vajadz\u0113s atv\u0113rties vienam pret otru. Abiem jums b\u016bs nepiecie\u0161ama aizsardz\u012bba, lai pasarg\u0101tu sevi no pado\u0161an\u0101s otram, no aizbildniec\u012bbas. J\u016bs visi iek\u0161ien\u0113 nesat vec\u0101s emocion\u0101l\u0101s br\u016bces. Katram no jums ir t\u0101da aizsardz\u012bba, un ir svar\u012bgi to atpaz\u012bt sev\u012b. Emocion\u0101l\u0101 tuv\u012bba rodas, kad j\u016bs esat gatavi ieraudz\u012bt savas bailes un kad j\u016bs patiesi esat gatavi saprast vienam otra s\u0101pes. Tikko k\u0101 j\u016bs esat gatavi to dar\u012bt, j\u016bsu sird\u012bs ir prieks un j\u016bsu starp\u0101 b\u016bs dziedino\u0161a pl\u016bsma. J\u016bs k\u013c\u016bsiet tuv\u0101ki, abos, gan \u0137erme\u0146a, gan dv\u0113seles, l\u012bme\u0146os. \u0160is delik\u0101tais saie\u0161anas kop\u0101 process patie\u0161\u0101m ir m\u012blest\u012bbas veido\u0161anas m\u0101ksla. T\u0101 ietver pie\u0137er\u0161anos, paciet\u012bbu, god\u012bgumu un drosmi. Tas ir gan kaisl\u012bgi, gan augsti gar\u012bgi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kad es s\u0101kotn\u0113ji run\u0101ju par smalkuma tr\u016bkumu cilv\u0113ciskajai pieredzei uz Zemes, es atsaucos ar\u012b uz m\u012blest\u012bbas veido\u0161anas m\u0101kslu. K\u0101 dv\u0113sele, j\u016bs neesat ierobe\u017eoti form\u0101. P\u0113c savas b\u016bt\u012bbas j\u016bs neesat v\u012brietis vai sieviete, b\u0113rns vai pieaugu\u0161ais, slims vai vesels \u2013 t\u0101s visas ir pagaidu manifest\u0101cijas. Tom\u0113r \u0161ie nepast\u0101v\u012bgie veidi pied\u0101v\u0101 da\u017e\u0101das pieredzes, kas potenci\u0101li ir smalkas un dzi\u013ci gar\u012bgas. B\u016b\u0161ana k\u0101 sievietei vai v\u012brietim pied\u0101v\u0101 jums iesp\u0113ju pieredz\u0113t cilv\u0113cisk\u0101s m\u012blest\u012bbas veido\u0161anu, un baud\u012bt to fiziski, emocion\u0101li un gar\u012bgi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cilv\u0113ku sabiedr\u012bb\u0101 ir liels juceklis seksualit\u0101tes sakar\u0101. Tiekoties sav\u0101 starp\u0101 v\u012brietim un sievietei, var atv\u0113rties sv\u0113ta kop\u012bba, telpa, kur\u0101 j\u016bs j\u016btaties pacelti veselum\u0101, kur\u0161 p\u0101rsniedz j\u016bs abus k\u0101 cilv\u0113ciskas b\u016btnes. J\u016bs to varat saukt par dv\u0113seli vai Dievu, bet iev\u0113rojam\u0101k\u0101 lieta ir t\u0101, ka \u0161\u012b sv\u0113t\u0101 pieredze visp\u0101r neizskat\u0101s k\u0101 iek\u0101re, kaut ar\u012b iek\u0101re \u2013 vienam otra fiziska izzin\u0101\u0161ana \u2013 form\u0113 ieeju taj\u0101. J\u016bsu zemes daba nav nekrietna vai zemiska; seksualit\u0101te un gar\u012bgums var b\u016bt partneri. Tie\u0161i t\u0101p\u0113c es aicinu j\u016bs justies br\u012bvi ar savu kaisli, j\u016bsu \u0137erme\u0146a v\u0113lm\u0113m, j\u016bsu seksualit\u0101ti. Izziniet to sav\u0101 temp\u0101 un sav\u0101 ritm\u0101. Paties\u012bb\u0101 es grib\u0113tu j\u016bs tagad aicin\u0101t \u013caut j\u016bsu apzi\u0146ai nolaisties j\u016bsu v\u0113der\u0101. J\u016bsu apzi\u0146a nav nekas cits k\u0101 fokuss, tad virziet \u0161o fokusu uz j\u016bsu v\u0113deru. Saj\u016btiet, k\u0101 \u0161is rajons j\u016btas, un iegrimstiet v\u0113l dzi\u013c\u0101k j\u016bsu seksu\u0101lo org\u0101nu un astes kaula (saknes) \u010dakras \u2013 j\u016bsu iegur\u0146a \u2013 rajon\u0101. Laidieties lejup uz \u0161o j\u016bsu \u0137erme\u0146a rajonu ar objekt\u012bvu un neitr\u0101lu uzman\u012bbu. T\u0101 ir br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bga j\u016bsu \u0137erme\u0146a da\u013ca, un j\u016btiet \u0161eit dz\u012bv\u012bbas sp\u0113ka avotu \u2013 j\u016bs varat redz\u0113t vai sajust kr\u0101su. Saj\u016btiet, k\u0101 j\u016bs varat \u013caut \u0161ai dz\u012bv\u012bbas sp\u0113ka, jutekliskuma un fiziskuma pl\u016bsmai nolaisties caur j\u016bsu k\u0101j\u0101m un izveidot savienojumu ar Zemi. Saj\u016btiet, cik sv\u0113t\u012bgi un dabiski ir piedz\u012bvot \u0161o \u0137erme\u0146a pl\u016bsmu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iev\u0113rojiet, ja j\u016bs varat, vai j\u016bsu \u0137ermenim tagad kaut ko vajag, vai j\u016bs \u013caujat j\u016bsu \u0137ermenim pieredz\u0113t visu, ko vi\u0146am patiktu pieredz\u0113t. Varb\u016bt ir kaut kas, ko j\u016bsu \u0137ermenis grib\u0113tu pieredz\u0113t bie\u017e\u0101k j\u016bsu ikdien\u0101? T\u0101 var b\u016bt vienk\u0101r\u0161a lieta, kaut kas, kam j\u016bs paejat gar\u0101m sav\u0101 galv\u0101. Izturieties pret \u0161\u012bm vajadz\u012bb\u0101m nopietni, \u0137ermenis v\u0113las j\u016bs vest M\u0101j\u0101s. \u0136ermenis nav pretstats dv\u0113selei, t\u0101 ir dv\u0113sele materi\u0101l\u0101 form\u0101. T\u0101 ir j\u016bsu galva, nevis j\u016bsu \u0137ermenis, kas izol\u0113 j\u016bs no dv\u0113seles. Izl\u012bgstiet ar savu \u0137ermeni un baudiet vi\u0146a daudz\u0101s d\u0101vanas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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