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Gerits Gilens<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sav\u0101 praks\u0113 esmu p\u0101rliecin\u0101jies, ka daudz\u0101s sieviet\u0113s past\u0101v pretest\u012bba pret v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju. Vi\u0146\u0101m t\u0101s asoci\u0113jas ar agresiju, ne\u017e\u0113l\u012bbu, seksu\u0101lu vardarb\u012bbu un apspie\u0161anu. Vi\u0146as t\u0101s uzver k\u0101 kaut ko t\u0101du, no k\u0101 ir j\u0101izvair\u0101s un ar ko vi\u0146\u0101m nav nek\u0101da sakara. Uzskata, ka t\u0101s ir c\u0113lonis visam, kas \u0161aj\u0101 pasaul\u0113 ir nepareizi. Diem\u017e\u0113l \u0161\u0101da sievietes poz\u012bcija saka \u201cn\u0113\u201d \u2013 es nevaru uzst\u0101d\u012bt robe\u017eas un b\u016bt pati. Vi\u0146a uzskata \u2013 ja tu gribi izv\u0113l\u0113ties b\u016bt pati, tev j\u0101izv\u0113las v\u012bri\u0161\u0137ais aspekts, un tas b\u016btu piln\u012bgi nepareizi un egoistiski. K\u0101 sievietei tev j\u0101b\u016bt m\u012blo\u0161ai un gar\u012bgai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Protams, ar\u012b v\u012brie\u0161i non\u0101k piln\u012bg\u0101 apjukum\u0101. Ko lai vi\u0146i dara ar savu v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju, kura, izr\u0101d\u0101s, ir tik \u201cslikta\u201d? Sievietes, \u0161\u0137iet, s\u016bta pretrun\u012bgus sign\u0101lus. Vi\u0146as saka, ka v\u012brie\u0161iem vajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt vair\u0101k saist\u012btiem ar sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m, kad paties\u012bb\u0101 vi\u0146as \u0161\u0101dus v\u012brie\u0161us uzskata par \u201cv\u0101rgu\u013ciem\u201d un dod priek\u0161roku v\u012brie\u0161iem, kuri ir ma\u010do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u0101tad \u2013 k\u0101 \u012bsti ir? Vai v\u012brie\u0161i patie\u0161\u0101m ir Rad\u012b\u0161anas k\u013c\u016bda, kura ir aptraip\u012bjusi sievietes? Un ko \u0161\u012b \u201cRad\u012b\u0161anas k\u013c\u016bda\u201d lai tagad dara ar sevi un savu v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u012bbu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n


Rad\u012b\u0161ana un dzim\u0161ana<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0101ksim ar \u0161o. Kas bija pirms Rad\u012b\u0161anas? Nebija nek\u0101, jo laiks ir visuma da\u013ca. T\u0101p\u0113c nav noz\u012bmes jaut\u0101t, kas bija pirms Rad\u012b\u0161anas, jo laiks pirms Rad\u012b\u0161anas neeksist\u0113ja. Tom\u0113r ir visuma da\u013ca, kas past\u0101v \u0101rpus telpas un laika: no m\u016bsu redzes viedok\u013ca \u0161\u012b da\u013ca ir m\u016b\u017e\u012bga; t\u0101 vienm\u0113r ir bijusi, t\u0101 vienm\u0113r b\u016bs. \u0160\u012b da\u013ca ir visa avots, tas ir bezgal\u012bgas beznosac\u012bjuma m\u012blest\u012bbas punkts. M\u012blest\u012bba ir visa, kas ir, avots. Rad\u012b\u0161an\u0101 laiks un telpa s\u0101ka eksist\u0113t, un apzi\u0146a sadal\u012bj\u0101s dualit\u0101t\u0113: iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 pasaul\u0113 un \u0101r\u0113j\u0101 pasaul\u0113; subjektivit\u0101t\u0113 un objektivit\u0101t\u0113. \u0160is process notiek nep\u0101rtraukti. Rad\u012b\u0161anai nav sakara ar pag\u0101tni, t\u0101 notiek tagad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ar\u012b m\u012blest\u012bba sa\u0161\u0137\u0113l\u0101s dualit\u0101t\u0113: m\u012blest\u012bb\u0101 pret \u0101r\u0113jo pasauli un m\u012blest\u012bb\u0101 pret iek\u0161\u0113jo pasauli, sievi\u0161\u0137aj\u0101s un v\u012bri\u0161\u0137aj\u0101s ener\u0123ij\u0101s. Sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101 ener\u0123ija ir v\u0113rsta uz \u0101r\u0113jo pasauli, saistoties un savienojoties ar citiem cilv\u0113kiem, dz\u012bvniekiem un augiem. V\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101 ener\u0123ija ir v\u0113rsta uz iek\u0161\u0113jo pasauli, uz iek\u0161\u0113jo autorit\u0101ti un autonomu pa\u0161realiz\u0101ciju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n


M\u012blest\u012bba k\u013c\u016bst par uguni: z\u0113ns ir piedzimis<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Izt\u0113lojieties, ka pirms j\u016bsu dzim\u0161anas j\u016bs bij\u0101t skaists, m\u012blo\u0161s E\u0146\u0123elis. Sadal\u012b\u0161an\u0101s v\u012bri\u0161\u0137aj\u0101 un sievi\u0161\u0137aj\u0101 v\u0113l nav notikusi. Tad E\u0146\u0123elis nok\u0101pj m\u016bsu pasaul\u0113, kur \u0161aj\u0101 fiziskaj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b notiek \u0161\u0137el\u0161an\u0101s starp v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o un sievi\u0161\u0137o. Vienot\u012bba sadal\u0101s dv\u012b\u0146os: z\u0113n\u0101 un meiten\u0113. Maz\u0101 meitene ir pilna m\u012blest\u012bbas pret \u0101r\u0113jo pasauli. Mazais z\u0113ns ir m\u012blest\u012bbas b\u016bt\u012bba pret sevi. T\u0101da m\u012blest\u012bbas b\u016bt\u012bba, ko m\u0113s saucam par uguni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u016bsu uguns ir pirm\u0101 v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas izpausme j\u016bsos. K\u0101da ir \u0161\u012b uguns? T\u0101 ir j\u016bsu v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s dz\u012bvot, piedz\u012bvojumu, atkl\u0101jumu alkas un ar\u012b v\u0113lme izpaust j\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113jo uguni pasaul\u0113. Izpaust to, kas j\u016bsos ir unik\u0101ls, rad\u012bt kaut ko jaunu, nojaukt vec\u0101s robe\u017eas. Saj\u016btiet, ka \u0161\u012b uguns ir dzi\u013ci koncentr\u0113ta m\u012blest\u012bba pret sevi j\u016bsu iek\u0161ien\u0113. Saj\u016btiet ar\u012b, ka katra uguns ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bga, katra uguns ir unik\u0101la un katrai ir sava kr\u0101sa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101 ener\u0123ija tiek rad\u012bta no m\u012blest\u012bbas pret sevi. S\u0101kum\u0101 \u0161\u012b m\u012blest\u012bba ir tik koncentr\u0113ta, ka izpau\u017eas k\u0101 uguns, ko simboliz\u0113 mazais z\u0113ns. Ja j\u016bs v\u0113laties aktiviz\u0113t v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju, saj\u016btiet atkal \u0161o uguni. Saj\u016btiet, k\u0101da ir j\u016bsu uguns. Pie\u0146emiet \u0161o uguni un ieraugiet j\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113jo z\u0113nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Viss s\u0101kas, pie\u0146emot \u0161o z\u0113nu j\u016bsu iek\u0161ien\u0113, t\u0101, ka j\u016bs patiesi varat m\u012bl\u0113t \u0161o uguni, \u0161o kaisli j\u016bsu iek\u0161ien\u0113. M\u012blest\u012bba pret sevi ved pie pa\u0161cie\u0146as. Cilv\u0113ks, kam ir pa\u0161cie\u0146a, dabisk\u0101 veid\u0101 uzst\u0101da robe\u017eas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Daudzi cilv\u0113ki praktiski uzst\u0101da robe\u017eas, m\u0101coties teikt \u201cn\u0113\u201d, vi\u0146i to uzskata par sp\u0113ka izpausmi. Bet t\u0101 b\u016bt\u012bb\u0101 nav taisn\u012bba. Robe\u017eu uzst\u0101d\u012b\u0161ana noz\u012bm\u0113 paust m\u012blest\u012bbu pret sevi, tas ir patiesais sp\u0113ks. Pareiz\u0101 veid\u0101 teikts katrs \u201cn\u0113\u201d noz\u012bm\u0113 \u201cj\u0101\u201d sev pa\u0161am, ar m\u012blest\u012bbu, par kuru j\u016bs k\u013c\u016bstat. M\u012blest\u012bba pret sevi s\u0101kas ar ner\u0101tn\u0101 b\u0113rna atra\u0161anu sev\u012b: \u0161is mazais z\u0113ns v\u0113las izlauzties cauri robe\u017e\u0101m, izp\u0113t\u012bt jaunas teritorijas un galu gal\u0101 izpaust sevi aiz t\u012bras koncentr\u0113tas, kaisl\u012bgas m\u012blest\u012bbas pret sevi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ja j\u016bs izt\u0113lojaties sevi k\u0101 skaistu karstu uguni, cilv\u0113ki nep\u0101rk\u0101ps vi\u0146as robe\u017eas, vi\u0146i b\u016bs uzman\u012bgi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Savas v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas apzin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s vienm\u0113r s\u0101kas ar maz\u0101 z\u0113na apzin\u0101\u0161anos j\u016bsu iek\u0161ien\u0113. Bez maz\u0101 z\u0113na nav \u012bstas v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas. Bet to izdar\u012bt ir gr\u016bti, jo m\u0113s dz\u012bvojam pasaul\u0113, kur mazais z\u0113ns nav laipni gaid\u012bts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n


K\u0101p\u0113c mazais z\u0113ns nav laipni gaid\u012bts<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Izt\u0113lojieties, ka agr\u0101kos laikos j\u016bs piedzim\u0101t k\u0101 meitene. Tad jums bija paredz\u0113ts k\u0101 b\u0113rnam valk\u0101t kleitu, pal\u012bdz\u0113t m\u0101tei un sp\u0113l\u0113ties ar lell\u0113m. V\u0113l\u0101k jums vajadz\u0113ja apprec\u0113ties, dz\u012bvot pa m\u0101ju, palikt bez izgl\u012bt\u012bbas un r\u016bp\u0113ties par savu v\u012bru un b\u0113rniem, un neko citu j\u016bs v\u0113l\u0113ties nevar\u0113j\u0101t. Tikai tad j\u016bs tik\u0101t uzskat\u012bta par labu meiteni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Citiem v\u0101rdiem, ja j\u016bs b\u016btu meitene, tad mazais z\u0113ns j\u016bsos b\u016btu pasaul\u0113 piln\u012bgi nev\u0113lams. T\u0101dai meitenei, kurai bija cit\u0101di pl\u0101ni, kura v\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s att\u012bst\u012bties un juta sev\u012b piedz\u012bvojumu garu, visi dr\u012bz vien teica, ka tas ir piln\u012bgi nedabiski \u2013 rezult\u0101t\u0101 vi\u0146ai tika iedvesta liela vainas apzi\u0146a. Past\u0101v\u012bgas dom\u0101\u0161anas jaut\u0101jums meiten\u0113m nepast\u0101v\u0113ja; t\u0101p\u0113c meitenes tika ignor\u0113tas. \u0160aj\u0101 pasaul\u0113 joproj\u0101m ir daudz cilv\u0113ku, pat \u0161odien, kas dom\u0101, ka meiten\u0113m izgl\u012bt\u012bba nav vajadz\u012bga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cZ\u0113nam\u201d meitenes iek\u0161ien\u0113 joproj\u0101m turpin\u0101s gr\u016bti laiki. Daudz\u0101m sieviet\u0113m ir sava veida iek\u0161\u0113js tabu pret v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju un t\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 ar\u012b pret mazo z\u0113nu. B\u016bt gar\u012bgam noz\u012bm\u0113 b\u016bt m\u012b\u013cam, jaukam un ar emp\u0101tiju. Bet ner\u0101tnais mazais z\u0113ns neatbilst \u0161im t\u0113lam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Faktiski, ja j\u016bs piedzim\u0101t k\u0101 z\u0113ns, j\u016bs bij\u0101t nedaudz \u201cneizdevies\u201d. K\u0101 tad t\u0101? T\u0101p\u0113c ka pasaulei bija vajadz\u012bgi paklaus\u012bgi v\u012brie\u0161i: t\u0101di, kas veic smagu darbu, un kareivji, protams ne t\u0101di, kas dom\u0101ja patst\u0101v\u012bgi. Pasaulei nebija vajadz\u012bgi br\u012bvi gari, kas m\u012bl piedz\u012bvojumus, piem\u0113ram, m\u0101kslinieki un br\u012bvdom\u0101t\u0101ji. Citiem v\u0101rdiem, \u013coti ilgu laiku cilv\u0113ku sabiedr\u012bbai bija vajadz\u012bgi v\u012brie\u0161i, kas sev\u012b apspieda mazo z\u0113nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vieds v\u012brietis audzina savu iek\u0161\u0113jo z\u0113nu. Vi\u0146\u0161 zina, ka \u0161is z\u0113ns ir vi\u0146a iedvesmas avots, vi\u0146a dz\u012bves ener\u0123ija, es\u012bbas c\u0113lonis. Mazais z\u0113ns p\u0101rst\u0101v izmai\u0146as, ko v\u012brietis v\u0113las ienest pasaul\u0113. Ta\u010du eso\u0161aj\u0101m soci\u0101laj\u0101m strukt\u016br\u0101m p\u0101rmai\u0146as nepat\u012bk. Un t\u0101d\u0113\u013c v\u012brietim nav \u013cauts b\u016bt labam t\u0113vam savam iek\u0161\u0113jam z\u0113nam. T\u0101 viet\u0101, lai iedvesmotos no maz\u0101 z\u0113na, vi\u0146am ir lemts vi\u0146u apspiest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pa\u0161reiz\u0113j\u0101s soci\u0101l\u0101s strukt\u016bras nav pal\u012bgs mazajam z\u0113nam izpaust vi\u0146a rado\u0161o ener\u0123iju, \u0161\u012bs strukt\u016bras galvenok\u0101rt r\u016bp\u0113jas par savu saglab\u0101\u0161anos. Diktatori, valdnieki, priek\u0161nieki, \u0123ener\u0101\u013ci \u2013 vi\u0146iem visiem ir vajadz\u012bgi paklaus\u012bgi v\u012brie\u0161i, kas seko akli, nevis v\u012brie\u0161i, kas piev\u0113ru\u0161ies savam iek\u0161\u0113jam z\u0113nam. T\u0101p\u0113c mazais z\u0113ns v\u012briet\u012b nav v\u0113lams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Izt\u0113lojieties z\u0113nu, kur\u0161 ar dzi\u013cu interesi raug\u0101s nakts zvaig\u017e\u0146otaj\u0101s debes\u012bs. Sav\u0101 sird\u012b vi\u0146\u0161 j\u016bt dzi\u013cu saikni ar zvaigzn\u0113m; vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113las par t\u0101m uzzin\u0101t vair\u0101k. Vi\u0146\u0161 v\u0113las ce\u013cot uz zvaigzn\u0113m un uzzin\u0101t, kas \u012bsti ir kosmoss. T\u0101 ir trakul\u012bga dzi\u013ca v\u0113lme, ko var sajust tikai mazais z\u0113ns \u2013 vi\u0146\u0161 j\u016bt liesmojam savu iek\u0161\u0113jo uguni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Protams, b\u016btu lieliski, ja \u0161im mazajam z\u0113nam b\u016btu \u013cauts izaug par v\u012brieti, kur\u0161 \u0161o v\u0113lmi iekustin\u0101tu un padar\u012btu par galveno sav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113. Piem\u0113ram, vi\u0146\u0161 var\u0113tu k\u013c\u016bt par astronomu vai par zin\u0101tnisk\u0101s fantastikas rakstnieku, vai doties astr\u0101los ce\u013cojumos pa visumu, vai pat saskarties ar sve\u0161\u0101m rad\u012bb\u0101m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vieds v\u012brietis ir tas, kur\u0161 ir labs t\u0113vs mazajam z\u0113nam; kur\u0161 \u013cauj iek\u0161\u0113jam mazajam z\u0113nam dz\u012bvot; kur\u0161 paliek uztic\u012bgs vi\u0146a iek\u0161\u0113jai ugunij un turpina tai tic\u0113t. Vi\u0146u nekav\u0113 pasaule, kura saka, ka tas viss ir neiesp\u0113jami un ka vi\u0146am ir j\u0101aug.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160\u0101ds cilv\u0113ks vienm\u0113r aizrauj un iedvesmo citus. Jo vi\u0146\u0161 \u013cauj z\u0113nam sav\u0101 iek\u0161ien\u0113 b\u016bt dz\u012bvam, vi\u0146\u0161 pieskaras ar\u012b z\u0113nam citos cilv\u0113kos. T\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 citos rada saj\u016btu, ka vi\u0146i ir dz\u012bvi; vi\u0146\u0161 atg\u0101dina vi\u0146iem par vi\u0146u s\u0101kotn\u0113jo uguni, par to, kas vi\u0146i ir. Vi\u0146am nav gr\u016bti uzst\u0101d\u012bt robe\u017eas, teikt \u201cn\u0113\u201d citiem. Cilv\u0113ki j\u016bt vi\u0146a uguni un redz \u2013 kad \u0161im v\u012brietim ir saikne ar savu iek\u0161\u0113jo uguni, vi\u0146\u0161 ir iedvesmots un iedvesmojo\u0161s. Vi\u0146i ir skolot\u0101ji, es to atceros no skolas laika. Skolot\u0101ji, kuri patiesi run\u0101ja no sav\u0101m iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101m ugun\u012bm, bija labi skolot\u0101ji; vi\u0146i iedvesmoja un bija rado\u0161i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Diem\u017e\u0113l tas t\u0101 parasti nenotiek. Z\u0113ns \u0101tri uzzina, ka vi\u0146am nevajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt sap\u0146ot\u0101jam. Vi\u0146am j\u0101b\u016bt gatavam dz\u012bvei sabiedr\u012bb\u0101, atbild\u012bgai dz\u012bvei, darbam no devi\u0146iem l\u012bdz pieciem ofis\u0101. Tad ugunij ir tikai pas\u012bva dz\u012bve. Jums ir \u013cauts las\u012bt zin\u0101tnisko fantastiku sav\u0101 br\u012bvaj\u0101 laik\u0101, abon\u0113t \u017eurn\u0101lu \u201cAstronomija\u201d un nopirkt teleskopu. Ja j\u016bs ne\u013caujat ugunij izdzist piln\u012bgi, jums joproj\u0101m ir pietiekami daudz savas dz\u012bves, lai gan j\u016bs neesat p\u0101r\u0101k laim\u012bgs. Ir taisn\u012bba, ka \u0161aj\u0101 laik\u0101 pieaugu\u0161i v\u012brie\u0161i \u013caujas z\u0113nam tikai sav\u0101 br\u012bvaj\u0101 laik\u0101. B\u016bt pieaugu\u0161am noz\u012bm\u0113 vairs nepiev\u0113rst uzman\u012bbu mazajam z\u0113nam, vairs netic\u0113t saviem sap\u0146iem, bet klaus\u012bt priek\u0161nieku un piln\u012bgi apmierin\u0101t sabiedr\u012bbas un j\u016bsu vec\u0101ku cer\u012bbas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sievietes bie\u017ei apsl\u0101p\u0113 mazo z\u0113nu sev\u012b, ignor\u0113jot vi\u0146u, ne\u013caujot vi\u0146am b\u016bt, jo vi\u0146u p\u0101rliec\u012bba ir, ka mazais z\u0113ns nav da\u013ca no sievietes. Kam\u0113r \u0161\u0101da p\u0101rliec\u012bba vi\u0146\u0101s past\u0101v, vi\u0146as nekad nesp\u0113s rad\u012bt vesel\u012bgu iek\u0161\u0113jo v\u012brieti. No otras puses, v\u012brie\u0161i savu z\u0113nu apsl\u0101p\u0113 ar varu. T\u0101 ir v\u012brie\u0161u tra\u0123\u0113dija, ka vi\u0146i savu sp\u0113ku izlieto pret sevi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Skolot\u0101ji parasti, st\u0101vot klases priek\u0161\u0101, to nesaprot: vi\u0146iem lab\u0101k b\u016btu m\u0101c\u012bt labas mazas meitenes, kas lieliski m\u0101c\u0101s. Jo draud briesmas, ka z\u0113ni izr\u0101d\u012bs uzman\u012bbu, vi\u0146\u0101m atkal ir j\u0101aizsarg\u0101jas no t\u0101 \u2013 vi\u0146\u0101m atkal ir j\u0101patveras no sevis. Un t\u0101 mazo z\u0113nu sl\u0101p\u0113 arvien vair\u0101k nosac\u012bjumu, arvien liel\u0101ka aizsardz\u012bba pret vi\u0146u. Rota\u013claukumi k\u013c\u016bst dro\u0161\u0101ki. Tom\u0113r paradoks\u0101li, ka dro\u0161\u0101kajos rota\u013claukumos notiek visvair\u0101k nelaimes gad\u012bjumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Past\u0101v v\u0113l viens izgl\u012bt\u012bbas paradokss. Mazie z\u0113ni, kam ir visliel\u0101k\u0101s gr\u016bt\u012bbas piel\u0101goties, kas nev\u0113las iev\u0113rot noteikumus, kas pamet skolu, bie\u017ei vien ir visrado\u0161\u0101kie. Tie ir cilv\u0113ki, kuri turpm\u0101kaj\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 uzs\u0101k biznesu, kuri sabiedr\u012bb\u0101 ir m\u0101kslinieki vai novatori. K\u0101ds, kur\u0161 reiz tika p\u0113t\u012bjis bag\u0101t\u0101kos cilv\u0113kus uz Zemes, sev par p\u0101rsteigumu atkl\u0101ja, ka neviens no vi\u0146iem nav pabeidzis savu izgl\u012bt\u012bbu. Lai gan mazie z\u0113ni nav laipni gaid\u012bti, tom\u0113r vi\u0146i ir tie, kas rada p\u0101rmai\u0146as m\u016bsu pasaul\u0113 un pie\u0161\u0137ir tai kr\u0101su.<\/p>\n\n\n\n


V\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas br\u016bce \u2013 pazaud\u0113t\u0101 meitene<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160\u012bs esejas s\u0101kum\u0101 es rakst\u012bju, ka v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju s\u0101ka asoci\u0113t ar agresiju, ne\u017e\u0113l\u012bbu, seksu\u0101lu vardarb\u012bbu un apspie\u0161anu. K\u0101p\u0113c tas t\u0101 ir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u0101p\u0113c, ka mazajiem z\u0113niem nav \u013cauts dabiski b\u016bt. V\u012brietis neat\u013c\u0101v\u0101s b\u016bt mazais z\u0113ns. Vi\u0146am nebija \u013cauts doties piedz\u012bvojumos, p\u0113t\u012bt un rad\u012bt. Tas tika uzskat\u012bts par nepareizu, jo tad vi\u0146am b\u016btu j\u0101pielieto sava v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101 ener\u0123ija, lai dar\u012btu to, ko pats v\u0113las. Vi\u0146a v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101 ener\u0123ija tika lietota no citu puses un citu lab\u0101; no priek\u0161nieka puses, kur\u0161 lika vi\u0146am smagi str\u0101d\u0101t un kur\u0161 nev\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s darbinieku, kam b\u016btu jaunas domas vai kur\u0161 dar\u012btu citas trakas lietas. Vai v\u0113l slikt\u0101k, v\u012brie\u0161a ener\u0123iju izmantoja diktators, kuram vi\u0146\u0161 bija vajadz\u012bgs k\u0101 karav\u012brs, lai c\u012bn\u012btos kar\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Turkl\u0101t maz\u0101 z\u0113na apsl\u0101p\u0113\u0161anai v\u012briet\u012b ir pat smag\u0101kas sekas. Mazajam z\u0113nam pat\u012bk rota\u013c\u0101ties ar savu dv\u012b\u0146u m\u0101su: vi\u0146a dv\u0113seles otro pusi. Ja vi\u0146\u0161 dodas mekl\u0113t piedz\u012bvojumus, tad konstat\u0113, ka vi\u0146u iepriecina meitenes kl\u0101tb\u016btne. Meitene vi\u0146am nor\u0101da uz pasaules skaistumu, \u013cauj vi\u0146am m\u012bl\u0113t dz\u012bvniekus. Caur meiteni vi\u0146u daudz vair\u0101k iepriecina visi vi\u0146a piedz\u012bvojumi un atkl\u0101jumi; vi\u0146a dz\u012bve un pieredze k\u013c\u016bst bag\u0101t\u0101kas, pateicoties meitenei. Vesel\u012bg\u0101 b\u0113rna psih\u0113 starp z\u0113nu un meiteni ir cie\u0161a sadarb\u012bba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pateicoties meitenei, vi\u0146\u0161 izaug par l\u012bdzsvarotu nobriedu\u0161u v\u012brieti, kur\u0161 ir vienots ar sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m, vi\u0146\u0161 j\u016bt m\u012blest\u012bbu pret dz\u012bvi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0101t\u0113m, kur\u0101m ir d\u0113ls, bie\u017ei ir gr\u016bti saprast, ka t\u0101ds mazs z\u0113ns nerun\u0101 par sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m. Risin\u0101jums ir vienk\u0101r\u0161s: dariet kaut ko kop\u0101 ar mazo z\u0113nu, kaut ko kop\u0101 b\u016bv\u0113jiet, dodieties kop\u0113j\u0101 piedz\u012bvojum\u0101. Tad notiek tas, ka mazajam z\u0113nam ir \u013cauts b\u016bt t\u0101dam, k\u0101ds vi\u0146\u0161 ir, un t\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 aktiviz\u0113 ar\u012b iek\u0161\u0113jo meiteni. P\u0113c tam s\u0101k vi\u0146\u0161 sarun\u0101ties un dal\u012bties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tas pats notiek ar\u012b otr\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101. Ja j\u016bs k\u0101 t\u0113vs v\u0113laties kaut ko dar\u012bt kop\u0101 ar j\u016bsu meitu, tas ne vienm\u0113r labi izdodas. Bet ja j\u016bs vispirms parun\u0101jaties un mazliet dal\u0101ties, un p\u0113c tam liekat priek\u0161\u0101 kaut ko kop\u012bgi dar\u012bt, j\u016bs paman\u0101t, ka p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i j\u016bs sa\u0146emat entuziastisku atbildi. Mazais z\u0113ns ir aktiviz\u0113ts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ja mazajam z\u0113nam nav at\u013cauts rota\u013c\u0101ties, vi\u0146\u0161 nerota\u013c\u0101jas ar\u012b ar mazo meiteni. Rezult\u0101ts ir emocion\u0101la nabadz\u012bba. \u0160\u0101d\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 past\u0101v nesabalans\u0113ta v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101 ener\u0123ija, kura ir atsve\u0161in\u0101ta no sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101. V\u012brie\u0161os dzi\u013ci iek\u0161ien\u0113 m\u0101jo pazaud\u0113t\u0101 meitene, kura j\u016btas piln\u012bgi aizmirsta. Un tie\u0161i to v\u0113las vara \u2013 v\u012brieti, kur\u0161 ir piln\u012bgi paklaus\u012bgs un nej\u016bt\u012bgs k\u0101 robots. \u0160\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 v\u012brietis tiek dehumaniz\u0113ts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kad es biju b\u0113rns, es dom\u0101ju, ka mir\u0161u, kad b\u016b\u0161u pieaudzis. Pieaugu\u0161ie v\u012brie\u0161i man lik\u0101s k\u0101 pel\u0113kas fig\u016bras, kuras nerota\u013c\u0101jas un kur\u0101m tr\u016bkst prieka un vienm\u0113r ir \u013coti smagi j\u0101str\u0101d\u0101. Sav\u0101 zi\u0146\u0101 man bija taisn\u012bba. Tie bija v\u012brie\u0161i, kuri past\u0101v\u012bgi apspieda mazo z\u0113nu sev\u012b un visp\u0101r ignor\u0113ja mazo meiteni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n


Ievainotie v\u012brie\u0161i<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u012bksts, smagu darbu pildo\u0161s str\u0101dnieks, kareivis, kur\u0161 akli pilda pav\u0113les \u2013 tie ir ievainoti v\u012brie\u0161i. Tie ir v\u012brie\u0161i, kuri ir apspiedu\u0161i savu dabisko ener\u0123iju \u2013 mazo z\u0113nu \u2013 un l\u012bdz ar to vi\u0146iem nav ar\u012b saiknes ar savu s\u0101kotn\u0113jo sievi\u0161\u0137o pusi: mazo meiteni. V\u012brietis, kur\u0161 nav iem\u0101c\u012bjies rota\u013c\u0101ties ar savu iek\u0161\u0113jo meiteni k\u0101 z\u0113ns, nesaprot savu iek\u0161\u0113jo sievieti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rezum\u0113jot: v\u012brie\u0161i ir ievainoti, un sieviet\u0113m bie\u017ei ir nepareizs uzskats par v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju, jo ir tik daudz ievainotu un r\u016bd\u012btu v\u012brie\u0161u. \u0160\u012b nepareiz\u0101 uzskata d\u0113\u013c sievietes atsve\u0161in\u0101s no savas v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas. Zaud\u0113jot saikni ar v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju, ir tik maz patm\u012bl\u012bbas, tik maz pa\u0161cie\u0146as. Tas izraisa to, ka sievietes nesp\u0113j noteikt sev robe\u017eas un izvair\u012bties no izs\u012bkuma, saslimst\u012bbas un depresijas, ko izrais\u012bjusi nedabisk\u0101 ener\u0123ija, kura grauj vi\u0146u sist\u0113mu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u012brie\u0161iem sekas ir tikpat dramatiskas. T\u0101 k\u0101 vi\u0146i nosl\u0101p\u0113 savu mazo z\u0113nu, vi\u0146u dz\u012bve k\u013c\u016bst apnic\u012bga, un vi\u0146i iek\u0161\u0113ji mirst. T\u0101 k\u0101 vi\u0146iem nav ar\u012b saiknes ar savu iek\u0161\u0113jo meiteni, ar savu iek\u0161\u0113jo sievieti, vi\u0146i ir vientu\u013ci. T\u0101 ir vientul\u012bba, kura bie\u017ei pat nav vairs saj\u016btama, jo maz\u0101 meitene ir piln\u012bgi pazaud\u0113ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n


Dziedin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Viss dziedin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s process s\u0101kas, atkal savienojoties ar iek\u0161\u0113jo z\u0113nu. Par laimi, dziedin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s jau notiek piln\u0101 spar\u0101. Protams, Rietumos v\u012brie\u0161u r\u012bc\u012bb\u0101 ir vair\u0101k br\u012bv\u0101 laika. Par laimi, br\u012bvaj\u0101 laik\u0101 \u0161odien v\u012brietis var baud\u012bt dz\u012bvi. V\u012brie\u0161iem ir \u013caut b\u016bt jut\u012bgiem v\u012brie\u0161iem, sievietes var tais\u012bt karjeru. \u0160eit b\u016bs vieta mazajam z\u0113nam, kur parota\u013c\u0101ties. Un rota\u013c\u012bgais z\u0113ns atkal sauc aug\u0161up savas dv\u0113seles otro pusi, iek\u0161\u0113jo meiteni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Atsl\u0113ga, lai iek\u0161\u0113ji dziedin\u0101tos: z\u0113ns sauc meiteni, meitene sauc z\u0113nu. Vi\u0146u kop\u012bg\u0101 kl\u0101tb\u016btne ved pie dv\u0113seles, sava paties\u0101 es, apzin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Turkl\u0101t patlaban ir arvien vair\u0101k cilv\u0113ku, kas br\u012bvaj\u0101 atkl\u0101j to, ko vi\u0146iem pat\u012bk dar\u012bt un kas var nest vi\u0146iem ar\u012b ien\u0101kumus. Notiek br\u012bnumaina iek\u0161\u0113ja p\u0101rsl\u0113g\u0161an\u0101s: unik\u0101l\u0101 v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101 ener\u0123ija vairs netiek izmantota, kalpojot \u0101r\u0113jiem sp\u0113kiem, bet gan kalpojot mazajam z\u0113nam, kalpojot savam priekam dz\u012bv\u0113. Tas ir iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s dziedin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s moments: v\u012brietis atkal ie\u0146em savu dabisko vietu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u012brie\u0161a ce\u013c\u0161 uz dziedin\u0101\u0161anos ir \u0161\u0101ds. Vispirms sazinieties ar pazaud\u0113to z\u0113nu un s\u0101ciet dz\u012bvot, vadoties p\u0113c \u0161\u012b z\u0113na. Iesp\u0113jams, ka j\u016bs jau to dar\u0101t br\u012bvaj\u0101 laik\u0101 vai pa br\u012bvdien\u0101m. Arvien liel\u0101ka telpa k\u013c\u016bst pieejama mazajam z\u0113nam, kam\u0113r j\u016bs piln\u012bgi dz\u012bvojat ar vi\u0146a iek\u0161\u0113jo aizrau\u0161anos. Protams, j\u016bs t\u0101d\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 sastopaties ar liel\u0101m bail\u0113m. \u0160\u012bs bailes jums vienm\u0113r st\u0101sta, ka to nevar izdar\u012bt, ka tas nav iesp\u0113jams, ka tas ir bezatbild\u012bgi, ka jums ir j\u0101apmierin\u0101s ar to, kas jums ir. Pal\u016bkojieties dzi\u013ci uz \u0161o bai\u013cu avotu. Iesp\u0113jams, t\u0101s izraisa balsis no pag\u0101tnes, no j\u016bsu sen\u010diem. Vai ar\u012b balss no autorit\u0101tes puses, kura m\u0113\u0123ina \u012bstenot varu p\u0101r jums. P\u0113c tam izdariet izv\u0113li. Jaut\u0101jiet sev: vai es savu v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju atdo\u0161u kalpot \u0161\u012bm bals\u012bm, vai ar\u012b kalpot manai pa\u0161a ugunij, manam pa\u0161a entuziasmam un rado\u0161umam, mazajam z\u0113nam man\u0101 iek\u0161ien\u0113?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kam j\u016bs kalposiet, kur\u0161 ir j\u016bsu saimnieks? Ja j\u016bs s\u0101ksiet dz\u012bvot, vadoties p\u0113c maz\u0101 z\u0113na, j\u016bs saskarsieties ar nepieredz\u0113tiem rado\u0161iem resursiem sev\u012b. Izrad\u012bsies, ka j\u016bs varat b\u016bt un dar\u012bt vair\u0101k, nek\u0101 j\u016bs k\u0101dreiz var\u0113j\u0101t iedom\u0101ties. J\u016bs vair\u0101k apzin\u0101sieties savas j\u016btas. Atveriet tam visam durvis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apzinieties \u2013 kad j\u016bs pie\u0161\u0137irat telpu savai iek\u0161\u0113jai ugunij un s\u0101kat dz\u012bvot, vadoties p\u0113c maz\u0101 z\u0113na, s\u0101kas ar\u012b atkl\u0101jumu iek\u0161\u0113jais ce\u013c\u0161. M\u0113s esam viens; m\u0113s esam cilv\u0113ki, nevis v\u012brie\u0161i vai sievietes, un m\u0113s \u0161o jauno vienot\u012bbu pan\u0101kam, kad atst\u0101jam aiz muguras visas vec\u0101s idejas par sevi, par to, ko noz\u012bm\u0113 b\u016bt v\u012brietim vai sievietei. S\u0101kot dz\u012bvot, vadoties p\u0113c pazaud\u0113t\u0101 maz\u0101 z\u0113na, m\u0113s lab\u0101k apzin\u0101mies vi\u0146a dv\u012b\u0146u m\u0101su: pazaud\u0113to mazo meiteni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u012brie\u0161i bie\u017ei vien dara vis\u0101das d\u012bvainas lietas, lai b\u016btu tuv\u0101ki sav\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m: izmantojot atbalsta grupas vai ko taml\u012bdz\u012bgu. Da\u017ereiz tas pal\u012bdz\u0113s, bet tas nav pats dabisk\u0101kais veids. Dabisk\u0101kais veids ir dar\u012bt to, kas jums pat\u012bk. \u013baujiet z\u0113nam atkal rota\u013c\u0101ties, \u013caujiet ugunij atkal uzliesmot. T\u0101d\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 j\u016bsu emocion\u0101l\u0101 dz\u012bve att\u012bst\u012bsies pati par sevi. Z\u0113ns sauc meiteni. Futbolistam ir p\u0101rsteidzo\u0161s sitiens, \u0161ahistam \u2013 izcils g\u0101jiens. Sav\u0101 sp\u0113l\u0113 iesaist\u012btai z\u0113ns rada dzi\u013cu iek\u0161\u0113ju saikni ar iek\u0161\u0113jo meiteni. \u0160is kontakts ar intuit\u012bvo var sniegt \u013coti dzi\u013cas, \u013coti intens\u012bvas skaistuma izj\u016btas. Tas turpin\u0101s un izplat\u0101s vis\u0101s dz\u012bves jom\u0101s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n


Kad meitene atkal ir tur, br\u016bce ir sadzied\u0113ta<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Protams, iek\u0161\u0113ja dziedin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s ietekm\u0113 pasauli ap mums. Ja v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101 ener\u0123ija \u013cauj sevi \u013caunpr\u0101t\u012bgi izmantot vis\u0101m vecaj\u0101m varas strukt\u016br\u0101m, v\u012brie\u0161i nedarbojas harmonij\u0101 ar apk\u0101rt\u0113jo pasauli. Rezult\u0101ts ir m\u016bsu dabisk\u0101s vides, plan\u0113tas Zeme post\u012b\u0161ana. Atgrie\u017eoties klaus\u012bties m\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113jo uguni, v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101 ener\u0123ija k\u013c\u016bst saska\u0146ota ar dv\u0113seli. Dv\u0113seles l\u012bmen\u012b ir harmonija; t\u0101p\u0113c dv\u0113seles impulsi ilgtermi\u0146\u0101 vienm\u0113r rad\u012bs harmoniju \u0161aj\u0101 pasaul\u0113. Ja m\u0113s atkal s\u0101kam r\u012bkoties, vadoties p\u0113c m\u016bsu dv\u0113seles, tas vienm\u0113r ved\u012bs pie m\u016bsu dz\u012bves vides, dz\u012bvnieku un augu valst\u012bbu un pa\u0161as Zemes atjauno\u0161an\u0101s. Vec\u0101s uz bail\u0113m balst\u012bt\u0101s strukt\u016bras, kuras cen\u0161as ieg\u016bt \u012bpa\u0161umu un varu, sairs, jo t\u0101m vairs neb\u016bs v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas atbalsta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nobeigum\u0101, l\u016bk, kas. Daudzi v\u012brie\u0161i s\u016bdzas, ka sievietes ir gr\u016bti saprast. T\u0101, protams, nav re\u0101la probl\u0113ma; probl\u0113ma ir zems pa\u0161nov\u0113rt\u0113jums. M\u0113s neesam vienk\u0101r\u0161i v\u012brie\u0161i vai sievietes, m\u0113s esam cilv\u0113ki. Savienojoties ar mazo z\u0113nu, v\u012brietis apzin\u0101s ar\u012b vi\u0146a sievi\u0161\u0137o pusi. Rezult\u0101t\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 m\u0101c\u0101s k\u013c\u016bt piln\u012bgs cilv\u0113ks: b\u016btne, kura ir gan v\u012bri\u0161\u0137a, gan sievi\u0161\u0137a. Tad vi\u0146am vairs neb\u016bs probl\u0113mu saprast sievietes. Ar\u012b sievietes ir cilv\u0113ki.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00a9 Gerrit Gielen<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Gerits Gilens Sav\u0101 praks\u0113 esmu p\u0101rliecin\u0101jies, ka daudz\u0101s sieviet\u0113s past\u0101v pretest\u012bba pret v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju. Vi\u0146\u0101m t\u0101s asoci\u0113jas ar agresiju, ne\u017e\u0113l\u012bbu, seksu\u0101lu vardarb\u012bbu un apspie\u0161anu. Vi\u0146as t\u0101s uzver k\u0101 kaut ko t\u0101du, no k\u0101 ir j\u0101izvair\u0101s un ar ko vi\u0146\u0101m nav nek\u0101da sakara. Uzskata, ka t\u0101s ir c\u0113lonis visam, kas \u0161aj\u0101 pasaul\u0113 ir nepareizi. Diem\u017e\u0113l…<\/p>\n

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