{"id":370,"date":"2020-03-20T15:44:07","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T15:44:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/wp\/?p=370"},"modified":"2020-03-20T15:44:07","modified_gmt":"2020-03-20T15:44:07","slug":"ko-mums-vajadzetu-macit-saviem-berniem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/raksti\/ko-mums-vajadzetu-macit-saviem-berniem\/","title":{"rendered":"Ko mums vajadz\u0113tu m\u0101c\u012bt saviem b\u0113rniem"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong><em>Gerits Gilens<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><em>Ievads<\/em><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u0113s esam divu pasau\u013cu \u2013 \u0101r\u0113j\u0101s pasaules un m\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s pasaules \u2013 pavalstnieki. Kad m\u0113s esam mazi b\u0113rni, at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba starp \u0161\u012bm div\u0101m pasaul\u0113m tom\u0113r nav visai skaidra. B\u0113rnam ir sev j\u0101atkl\u0101j, kas vi\u0146am pieder un kas ne. Kad j\u016bs esat b\u0113rns, tas nav uzreiz ac\u012bmredzams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Es varu atcer\u0113ties, ka, b\u016bdams b\u0113rns, es da\u017ereiz baid\u012bjos no tumsas; es tur saskat\u012bju vis\u0101da veida objektus. Tad es saucu savu m\u0101ti, kurai ar\u012b b\u016btu j\u0101baid\u0101s no \u0161\u012bm bied\u0113jo\u0161aj\u0101m liet\u0101m. Es nor\u0101d\u012bju uz st\u016bri, kur es dom\u0101ju kaut ko redz\u0113jis. Tad m\u0101te nopl\u0101t\u012bja rokas un teica: \u201cTu redzi, ka \u0161eit nek\u0101 nav.\u201d Tas mani atviegloja. V\u0113l\u0101k es atkl\u0101ju, ka lietas, kur\u0101m es tic\u0113ju, nebija \u0161eit, es t\u0101s var\u0113ju redz\u0113t ar\u012b, kad manas acis bija aizv\u0113rtas: t\u0101s eksist\u0113ja man\u0101 galv\u0101. Pak\u0101peniski es s\u0101ku apzin\u0101ties at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bbu starp iek\u0161\u0113jo pasauli un \u0101r\u0113jo pasauli. Viss \u0101rpus manis bija pak\u013cauts stingriem likumiem, bet ne man\u0101 iek\u0161ien\u0113, kur ir iesp\u0113jams viss. Iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 pasaule bija tikai mana, \u0101r\u0113jo pasauli es dal\u012bju ar visiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tom\u0113r parasti liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca b\u0113rnu uzklausa ne\u0161aub\u012bgus v\u0113st\u012bjumus, ko vi\u0146i sa\u0146em no saviem vec\u0101kiem un skolot\u0101jiem: \u0101r\u0113j\u0101 pasaul\u0113 viss ir svar\u012bgs, bet iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 pasaul\u0113 ne \u2013 jums nevajadz\u0113tu tai piev\u0113rst p\u0101r\u0101k lielu uzman\u012bbu. Tagad m\u0113s redzam \u0161\u012b uzsvara ietekmi uz \u0101r\u0113jo pasauli: depresiju, izdeg\u0161anu, vesel\u012bbas probl\u0113mas. Tas ir v\u0113l kas vair\u0101k. T\u0101 k\u0101 m\u0113s uz pasauli raug\u0101mies ar savu neapzin\u0101to bai\u013cu ac\u012bm, m\u0113s saredzam ienaidniekus, pat ja to tur nav. T\u0101 rezult\u0101t\u0101 visur ir ienaidnieki un c\u012b\u0146as.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Visas \u0161\u012bs probl\u0113mas var\u0113tu nov\u0113rst, ja m\u0113s savus b\u0113rnus audzin\u0101tu sav\u0101d\u0101k \u2013 ja m\u0113s vi\u0146iem m\u0101c\u012btu, k\u0101 r\u012bkoties ar savu iek\u0161\u0113jo pasauli \u2013 ja m\u0113s vi\u0146us mudin\u0101tu iem\u0101c\u012bties nov\u0113rt\u0113t \u0161\u012bs iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s pasaules bag\u0101t\u012bbu \u2013 ja m\u0113s vi\u0146iem m\u0101c\u012btu tuvoties vi\u0146u iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s pasaules tum\u0161ajai pusei ar m\u012blest\u012bbu, nevis nosod\u012bjumu \u2013 ja m\u0113s vi\u0146iem past\u0101st\u012btu, ka iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 pasaule ir bezgal\u012bga \u2013 ja m\u0113s vi\u0146iem pazi\u0146otu, cik dzi\u013ci \u0161aj\u0101 iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 pasaul\u0113 atrodas bezgal\u012bgs vieduma avots, pie kura vi\u0146i vienm\u0113r var atgriezties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u0113s nevaram ignor\u0113t m\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113jo pasauli nesod\u012bti. Cenu, ko m\u0113s maks\u0101jam, m\u0113s redzam sev apk\u0101rt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0101p\u0113c ir \u0161is \u012bss ce\u013cvedis. \u0160eit ir tr\u012bs m\u0101c\u012bbas par j\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113jo pasauli, kuras jums jau b\u016btu bijis j\u0101m\u0101c\u0101s k\u0101 b\u0113rnam skol\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><em>1. Apzinieties savas bailes<\/em><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja m\u0113s neiem\u0101c\u012bsimies skat\u012bties ac\u012bs sav\u0101m bail\u0113m, t\u0101s k\u013c\u016bst par kr\u0101sain\u0101m brill\u0113m, caur kur\u0101m m\u0113s redzam realit\u0101ti. Tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka m\u0113s lietas redzam k\u0101 pareizas un nepareizas un mums b\u016bs smagi j\u0101str\u0101d\u0101, lai negr\u0113kotu. M\u0113s esam aizvilkti prom no dz\u012bves priekiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Snieg\u0161u piem\u0113ru: mana pazi\u0146a no Francijas rad\u012bja neparastu att\u0113lu ar zirnek\u013ca m\u0101t\u012bti, kurai ir \u012bpa\u0161s kokons olu izn\u0113s\u0101\u0161anai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/afbeeldingen\/spider.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Sandrine, sieviete, kura rad\u012bja \u0161o att\u0113lu, j\u016bt \u012bpa\u0161u saikni ar maziem dz\u012bvniekiem, piem\u0113ram, zirnek\u013ciem un kukai\u0146iem, un vi\u0146a rada to p\u0101rsteidzo\u0161us att\u0113lus. Vi\u0146a ar\u012b sazin\u0101s ar vi\u0146iem. Pati Sandrine ir skaista franc\u016bziete, kura izstaro dzi\u013cu m\u012blest\u012bbu pret visu dz\u012bvo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0101pat k\u0101 daudziem cilv\u0113kiem, ar\u012b man zirnek\u013ci \u0161\u0137iet nedaudz bied\u0113jo\u0161i. To es ar\u012b sajutu, kad pirmo reizi redz\u0113ju att\u0113lu. Tad es m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ju to apl\u016bkot caur Sandrines ac\u012bm, un es sajutu kaut ko no vi\u0146as m\u012blest\u012bbas pret \u0161\u012bs plan\u0113tas mazajiem iedz\u012bvot\u0101jiem. P\u0113k\u0161\u0146i es ieraudz\u012bju kaut ko br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgu, kaut ko apburo\u0161u, kaut ko int\u012bmu. Dz\u012bvu rad\u012bbu, kura ir \u013coti at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bga no manis, bet kurai joproj\u0101m ir unik\u0101la vieta visum\u0101 un kura sav\u0101 veid\u0101 m\u012b\u013ci r\u016bp\u0113jas par sav\u0101m ol\u0101m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad es raugos caur bai\u013cu ac\u012bm, tad tas ir kaut kas bied\u0113jo\u0161s, kaut kas at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgs no manis, dualit\u0101tes produkts: zirneklis, d\u012bvaina rad\u012bba, kura var mani apdraud\u0113t; b\u016btne, kuru es sav\u0101 visum\u0101 nev\u0113los. Kad es raugos caur Sandrines ac\u012bm, dualit\u0101te piln\u012bgi izz\u016bd. To piedz\u012bvot ir diezgan liela pieredze. Bailes rada dualit\u0101ti, m\u012blest\u012bba to sadedzina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad es raugos uz tumsu ar bail\u0113m, t\u0101 ir kaut kas b\u012bstams, pret\u0113js gaismai un mani apdraudo\u0161s. Kad es raugos uz tumsu ar m\u012blest\u012bbu, tad es redzu vietu, kur nav gaismas, un dzirdu izbiju\u0161os, apmald\u012bju\u0161os b\u0113rnu, kur\u0161 l\u016bdz pal\u012bdz\u012bbu, manu bai\u013cu avotu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja m\u0113s \u0161aj\u0101 pasaul\u0113 gribam dz\u012bvot harmoniski, tad mums ir j\u0101ieskat\u0101s sav\u0101 iek\u0161ien\u0113 un god\u012bgi j\u0101apl\u016bko visas m\u016bsu bailes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u0101 to izdar\u012bt?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Izt\u0113lojieties, ka j\u016bsu bailes ir mazi b\u0113rni, kuri pasl\u0113pu\u0161ies kaut kur dzi\u013ci j\u016bsu iek\u0161ien\u0113. \u0160iem b\u0113rniem ir v\u0101rdi; piem\u0113ram, vientul\u012bba, nabadz\u012bba, s\u0101pes, b\u0113das. Varb\u016bt, ka tur ir pat b\u0113rns, kuru sauc par n\u0101vi. Tie ir v\u0101rdi tiem pamestajiem b\u0113rniem, kuri sauc p\u0113c pal\u012bdz\u012bbas. Uzaiciniet vi\u0146us un apskaujiet vi\u0146us visus. Vi\u0146i ir da\u013ca no jums un da\u013ca no j\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s pasaules. T\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 j\u016bs sniedzat savu gaismu savai pa\u0161a iek\u0161\u0113jai tumsai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja m\u0113s savas bailes neapzin\u0101mies, tad \u0161\u012bs bailes nokr\u0101so m\u016bsu brilles un \u0161\u0137iet mums k\u0101 m\u016bsu realit\u0101te. Kad m\u0113s augam, m\u0113s ieskaujam m\u016bsu bailes vis\u0101d\u0101s idej\u0101s, kas t\u0101s stiprina. Bailes vienm\u0113r sniedz negat\u012bvu v\u0113st\u012bjumu par apk\u0101rt\u0113jo pasauli. Galu gal\u0101 \u0161\u012bs idejas s\u0101k izskat\u012bties k\u0101 p\u0101rliecino\u0161as paties\u012bbas par pasauli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Raugoties uz sav\u0101m bail\u0113m k\u0101 uz pamestiem b\u0113rniem j\u016bsu iek\u0161ien\u0113 un m\u012b\u013ci vi\u0146us apskaujot, j\u016bs \u0161\u012bs brilles no\u0146emat un varat v\u0113rties apk\u0101rt\u0113j\u0101 pasaul\u0113 j\u016bsu pirmatn\u0113j\u0101 gaism\u0101 \u2013 m\u012blest\u012bbas gaism\u0101. Dualit\u0101te izz\u016bd un atgrie\u017eas k\u0101 vienot\u012bba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tas ir norm\u0101li, ka jums ir vis\u0101das bailes. Tikai tad, ja m\u0113s sp\u0113jam \u0161\u012bm bail\u0113m raudz\u012bties ac\u012bs god\u012bgi, m\u0113s varam transform\u0113t t\u0101s un apk\u0101rt\u0113jo pasauli ar m\u012blest\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dualit\u0101te ir nov\u0113rot\u0101ja ac\u012bs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><em><br>2. Izt\u0113le ir ce\u013c\u0161 uz iek\u0161\u0113jo bag\u0101t\u012bbu<\/em><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Konsult\u0101ciju un semin\u0101ru laik\u0101 es bie\u017ei dzirdu cilv\u0113kus sak\u0101m: \u201cEs neesmu p\u0101rliecin\u0101ts, vai t\u0101 nav tikai mana izt\u0113le.\u201d Es vienm\u0113r j\u016btu, ka cilv\u0113kiem ir ideja, ka fantaz\u0113t vi\u0146iem nav at\u013cauts. Tas ir ac\u012bmredzams tabu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tom\u0113r ir tik daudz skaista, ko cilv\u0113ce ir rad\u012bjusi. Padom\u0101jiet par visu br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgo m\u016bziku, glezn\u0101m, literat\u016bru, film\u0101m, arhitekt\u016bru \u2013 visu, kas radies no cilv\u0113ku izt\u0113les. Ar\u012b lielajiem zin\u0101tniekiem un filozofiem bija liela izt\u0113le. Tom\u0113r skol\u0101 diem\u017e\u0113l nav atv\u0113l\u0113ts laiks, lai aps\u0113stos mal\u0101 un pafantaz\u0113tu. Ja t\u0101ds b\u016btu, m\u0113s visi to nov\u0113rt\u0113tu un izmantotu m\u016bsu izt\u0113li rado\u0161\u0101k: ja to m\u0101ca skol\u0101, tad tam ir j\u0101b\u016bt kam svar\u012bgam. Diem\u017e\u0113l tas t\u0101 nav.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Varb\u016bt j\u016bs vienk\u0101r\u0161i sak\u0101t sev, ka jums nav izt\u0113les? N\u0113? Vai jums nekad nav biju\u0161as seksu\u0101las fant\u0101zijas? Kad j\u016bs bij\u0101t b\u0113rns, j\u016bs nekad nefantaz\u0113j\u0101t par savu n\u0101kotni? Par sap\u0146u m\u0101ju? Nekad nesap\u0146oj\u0101t par ide\u0101lu partneri, darbu, k\u0101du v\u0113laties? Nefantaz\u0113j\u0101t par ce\u013cojumu uz t\u0101lu zemi? Ticiet man, jums ir daudz izt\u0113les: katr\u0101 dom\u0101 par n\u0101kotni j\u016bs izmantojat savu izt\u0113li.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja j\u016bs gribat iem\u0101c\u012bties savu izt\u0113li izmantot rado\u0161i, tad pirmais solis ir \u2013 j\u016bs atz\u012bstat, ka j\u016bs bie\u017ei izmantojat savu izt\u0113li; t\u0101 ir da\u013ca no cilv\u0113ka b\u016bt\u012bbas. Da\u017eiem cilv\u0113kiem t\u0101 ir att\u012bst\u012bta lab\u0101k nek\u0101 citiem, t\u0101 katr\u0101 cilv\u0113k\u0101 darbojas at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgi un sav\u0101 veid\u0101. Tom\u0113r t\u0101 ir kl\u0101teso\u0161a ikvien\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017eiem cilv\u0113kiem vi\u0146u fant\u0101zija ir \u013coti vizu\u0101la, citiem ne tik \u013coti. Ja ar\u012b jums t\u0101 nav, saprotiet, ka ir cilv\u0113ki, kuri ir piedzimu\u0161i neredz\u012bgi un nezina, kas ir att\u0113li un kr\u0101sas, tom\u0113r vi\u0146iem ir lieliska izt\u0113le, un da\u017ei, piem\u0113ram, raksta br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgus rom\u0101nus. T\u0101pat k\u0101 ikvienam cilv\u0113kam ir sap\u0146i, t\u0101 ar\u012b ikviens sp\u0113j fantaz\u0113t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2. solis \u2013 j\u016bs vienk\u0101r\u0161i s\u0101kat izmantot savu izt\u0113li. Fantaz\u0113\u0161ana ir lieta, kuru j\u016bs varat att\u012bst\u012bt. T\u0101pat k\u0101 uz visu, ar\u012b uz \u0161o attiecas teiciens \u201cdarbs dara meistaru\u201d. Atk\u0101rto\u0161ana ir galvenais, un j\u016bs tai velt\u0101t laiku. Tikl\u012bdz j\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 pasaule paman\u012bs, ka j\u016bs velt\u0101t laiku, lai m\u0101c\u012btos izmantot savu izt\u0113li, t\u0101 n\u0101ks pal\u012bg\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u013boti vienk\u0101r\u0161s vingrin\u0101jums ir izt\u0113loties, ka j\u016bs sarun\u0101jaties ar gudru v\u012brieti vai sievieti. Ja j\u016bs esat sieviete, izv\u0113l\u0113ties v\u012brieti, un otr\u0101di. Tas pal\u012bdz jums justies k\u0101 piln\u012bgam cilv\u0113kam, kur\u0161 ir gan v\u012brietis, gan sieviete. Ja jums ir gr\u016bti k\u0101du izt\u0113loties, izv\u0113lieties cilv\u0113ku no v\u0113stures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0101ciet sarunu un fantaz\u0113jiet, k\u0101das atbildes var\u0113tu b\u016bt. Piem\u0113ram, run\u0101jiet par probl\u0113mu, kura jums ir. Nebaidieties iedom\u0101ties, k\u0101das atbildes j\u016bs sa\u0146emat; padariet to par dialogu. Man tas vislab\u0101k darbojas, kad es atbildes pierakstu. K\u0101d\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b j\u016bs paman\u012bsiet, ka fantaz\u0113t\u0101s atbildes n\u0101k pavisam viegli. Jums faktiski par t\u0101m vairs nav j\u0101dom\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un tad pien\u0101k br\u012bdis, kad j\u016bs saprotat: \u201cHei, tas ko, es tagad dzirdu, ir \u013coti \u012bpa\u0161s.\u201d J\u016bs esat savienoju\u0161i savu izt\u0113li ar dzi\u013c\u0101ku avotu: dzi\u013co vieduma sl\u0101ni sev\u012b. Kad j\u016bs esat atjaunoju\u0161i kontaktu ar \u0161o avotu, j\u016bs varat pie\u0146emt l\u0113mumu: \u201cEs esmu savas dz\u012bves autorit\u0101te.\u201d \u0160\u012b p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 autorit\u0101te nav nekas \u0101rpus jums \u2013 t\u0101 dz\u012bvo j\u016bsos. Sev\u012b j\u016bs esat tikai viens cilv\u0113ks \u2013 j\u016bs. J\u016bs esat savas dz\u012bves autorit\u0101te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cilv\u0113ki ir atdevu\u0161i savu iek\u0161\u0113jo autorit\u0101ti, jo dom\u0101, ka ir nekompetenti. Izmantojot savu izt\u0113li, j\u016bs tom\u0113r varat nodibin\u0101t kontaktu ar savu iek\u0161\u0113jo vieduma avotu. Br\u012bd\u012b, kad j\u016bs saprotat, ka varat b\u016bt savas dz\u012bves autorit\u0101te, ir piedzimusi p\u0101rliec\u012bba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><em><br>3. M\u0101cieties dom\u0101t pozit\u012bvi \u2013 un, galvenais, saprotiet, kas tas ir<\/em><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Daudz tiek run\u0101ts par pozit\u012bv\u0101s dom\u0101\u0161anas sp\u0113ku. Vis\u0101s cilv\u0113ku grup\u0101s nebeidzami tiek atk\u0101rtotas domas, piem\u0113ram: \u201cEs esmu bag\u0101ts.\u201d Bet tas paties\u012bb\u0101 nepal\u012bdz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u0101 tad b\u016btu j\u0101dara, lai tas pal\u012bdz\u0113tu? Tas s\u0101kas ar pie\u0146\u0113mumu, ka dzi\u013ci j\u016bsu iek\u0161ien\u0113 ir gaismas un m\u012blest\u012bbas avots: j\u016bsu kodols.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir divu veidu domas. Ir domas, kuras harmoniz\u0113 ar gaismu no \u0161\u012b avota un pastiprina \u0161o gaismu, un nodro\u0161ina, ka t\u0101 pl\u016bst caur Zemi. Bet ir ar\u012b domas, kuras blo\u0137\u0113 gaismu no \u0161\u012b avota un kar\u0101jas k\u0101 tum\u0161i m\u0101ko\u0146i. T\u0101s ir domas, kas balst\u0101s uz bail\u0113m. Piem\u0113ram, ja j\u016bs gribat b\u016bt bag\u0101ts, jo baid\u0101ties no nabadz\u012bbas, kad paties\u012bb\u0101 t\u0101s nav, t\u0101 nav pozit\u012bva doma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To var praktiz\u0113t. Izt\u0113lojieties \u0161o avotu k\u0101 mirdzo\u0161u sauli, kaut kur virs j\u016bsu galvas. Tad radiet domu sav\u0101 galv\u0101. Ja t\u0101 ir pozit\u012bva doma, doma, kas ir harmonij\u0101 ar \u0161o avotu, tad j\u016bs jut\u012bsiet pozit\u012bvu reakciju sav\u0101 \u0137ermen\u012b; piem\u0113ram, sajut\u012bsiet siltumu sav\u0101 sird\u012b. Gaisma pl\u016bst cauri domai. Ja t\u0101 ir negat\u012bva doma, tad gaisma no j\u016bsu avota ir blo\u0137\u0113ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u0113rojiet savu \u0137ermeni, vai nerodas sasprindzin\u0101jums. J\u016bsu \u0137ermenis j\u016bt, kad kontakts ar avotu ir blo\u0137\u0113ts, un rea\u0123\u0113 uz to, bie\u017ei ar nepabeigt\u012bbas saj\u016btu. Ja j\u016bs to paman\u0101t, tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka t\u0101 ir negat\u012bva doma. Tad j\u016bs uzdodat jaut\u0101jumu: \u201cK\u0101das bailes aiz t\u0101 sl\u0113pjas?\u201d Atrodiet \u0161o bai\u013cu avotu: apmald\u012bju\u0161os b\u0113rnu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><em><br>Visbeidzot: darbs dara meistaru<\/em><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0101kum\u0101 \u0161\u0101ds iek\u0161\u0113jais darbs mazliet atg\u0101dina p\u0101rbrauk\u0161anu uz d\u012bvainu pils\u0113tu \u0101rzem\u0113s. Ja j\u016bs uz turieni dodaties pirmoreiz, viss \u0161\u0137iet d\u012bvains un mulsino\u0161s, varb\u016bt pat draudo\u0161s. Pak\u0101peniski viss k\u013c\u016bst pierast\u0101ks, cilv\u0113ki paz\u012bstam\u0101ki. Jums par\u0101d\u0101s jauni draugi, turkl\u0101t j\u016bs j\u016btaties mier\u012bgs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kaut kas l\u012bdz\u012bgs notiek ar\u012b, kad j\u016bs s\u0101kat p\u0113t\u012bt savu iek\u0161\u0113jo pasauli. T\u0101 ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bga pasaule ar at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgiem noteikumiem, ta\u010du pak\u0101peniski t\u0101 k\u013c\u016bst \u0113rt\u0101ka un paz\u012bstam\u0101ka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Izt\u0113lojieties, l\u016bk, ko: katram cilv\u0113kam uz Zemes ir zemes gabals. Tagad iedom\u0101jieties, ka cilv\u0113ks savu zemes gabalu ieskauj liel\u0101 m\u012blest\u012bb\u0101 un uzman\u012bb\u0101, padara to, cik vien iesp\u0113jams, skaistu. Cik skaista b\u016btu plan\u0113ta Zeme!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tas paties\u012bb\u0101 par\u0101da to, k\u0101 Visums ir likts kop\u0101. Katram ir mazs Visuma gabals, kuru j\u016bs kontrol\u0113jat, kuru j\u016bs neredzat no \u0101rpasaules, bet no iek\u0161ienes. Paskatieties apk\u0101rt: neviena cita \u0161eit nav, tas viss ir j\u016bsu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vai m\u0113s pret \u0161o gabalu izturamies ar m\u012blest\u012bbu? Vai m\u0113s m\u012blam sevi? Visbie\u017e\u0101k m\u0113s to nedar\u0101m. Parasti m\u0113s l\u012bdzin\u0101mies d\u0101rzniekiem, kuri izsaka daudz koment\u0101ru par savu kaimi\u0146u d\u0101rziem, bet piln\u012bgi atst\u0101jam nov\u0101rt\u0101 savu d\u0101rzu un samait\u0101jam to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u0113s piepild\u0101m Visuma gabalu, kur\u0161 pieder mums, ar negat\u012bv\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m un dom\u0101m; taj\u0101 gandr\u012bz nav gaismas. M\u0113s bie\u017ei dodam sev tik maz m\u012blest\u012bbas. Paskatieties uz apk\u0101rt\u0113jo pasauli un redziet, k\u0101das tam ir sekas. Liel\u0101kaj\u0101 da\u013c\u0101 no mums valda ziema: iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 Saule nesp\u012bd. Teiksim \u201cj\u0101\u201d katram m\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 d\u0101rza gabalam. \u013bausim m\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113jai Saulei \u2013 neizs\u012bksto\u0161ajam dz\u012bves avotam \u2013 apsp\u012bd\u0113t katru augu, lai cik mazs tas b\u016btu. \u013bausim ziemai atv\u0113rt ce\u013cu br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgam pavasarim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gerrit-gielen.nl\/\">\u00a9 Gerrit Gielen<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jeshua.net\/\">www.jeshua.net<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tulkoja J\u0101nis Oppe<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gerits Gilens Ievads M\u0113s esam divu pasau\u013cu \u2013 \u0101r\u0113j\u0101s pasaules un m\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s pasaules \u2013 pavalstnieki. Kad m\u0113s esam mazi b\u0113rni, at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba starp \u0161\u012bm div\u0101m pasaul\u0113m tom\u0113r nav visai skaidra. B\u0113rnam ir sev j\u0101atkl\u0101j, kas vi\u0146am pieder un kas ne. 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