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Gerits Gilens<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Daudzi cilv\u0113ki, kas dz\u012bvo \u0161odienas laikmet\u0101, tiek saukti par \u201cslikti\niezem\u0113tiem\u201d. Tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka m\u0113s ne piln\u012bgi atrodamies sav\u0101 \u0137ermen\u012b: m\u0113s\natrodamies kaut kur citur ar da\u013cu no sava pr\u0101ta, ar m\u016bsu dom\u0101m. Da\u017ereiz tas notiek\napzin\u0101ti, un tad m\u0113s saprotam, ka da\u013ca no pr\u0101ta atrodas citur. Da\u017ereiz tas\ntom\u0113r notiek neapzin\u0101ti: m\u0113s neapzin\u0101mies, ka m\u0113s esam kas daudz vair\u0101k nek\u0101\nzemes pl\u0101na person\u012bba, ar kuru m\u0113s identific\u0113jamies. M\u0113s esam \u201csabiedr\u012bbas\u201d\nda\u013ca, bet esam zaud\u0113ju\u0161i saikni ar savu dv\u0113seli, savu kodolu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kad es raugos uz sevi, es redzu, ka \u0161\u012b nodal\u012b\u0161an\u0101s s\u0101k\u0101s agri: da\u013ca no\nmana pr\u0101ta bija prom no manis. Kad es m\u0101c\u012bjos skol\u0101, nebija t\u0101, ka no t\u0101 \u013coti\nciestu, bet es tur nejutos k\u0101 m\u0101j\u0101s. Es klaus\u012bjos nodarb\u012bbas, sa\u0146\u0113mu apmierino\u0161us\nv\u0113rt\u0113jumus, kaut ar\u012b priek\u0161mets manu uzman\u012bbu \u012bsti nepiesaist\u012bja. Mana iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101\npasaule atrad\u0101s t\u0101lu no Zemes. Es daudz las\u012bju. Mani interes\u0113ja ar\u012b glezno\u0161ana,\nun, raugoties uz skaist\u0101m ainav\u0101m, piem\u0113ram, Reisd\u0101la (Salomon van Ruysdael)<\/em> spalvai piedero\u0161\u0101m, mani p\u0101r\u0146\u0113ma sap\u0146u pasaule.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u0101 k\u0101 manam t\u0113vam bija gar\u012bg\u0101s vesel\u012bbas probl\u0113mas, m\u0113s gandr\u012bz nekad\nnekur neizbrauc\u0101m. Skaista daba, iedvesmojo\u0161as ainavas, j\u016bra \u2013 nek\u0101 no t\u0101 man\u0101\njaun\u012bb\u0101 nebija. Lai ar\u012b N\u012bderland\u0113 ir daudz piekrastu, es pirmo reizi ieraudz\u012bju\nj\u016bru, kad man bija 18 gadi. Es labpr\u0101t\u0101k kav\u0113jos sav\u0101 iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 pasaul\u0113, nevis\nTilburgas pel\u0113kaj\u0101s iel\u0101s. Rezult\u0101ts bija slikts iezem\u0113jums k\u0101 pieaugu\u0161ajam:\nbez sirds un dv\u0113seles kl\u0101tb\u016btnes man\u0101 \u0137ermen\u012b. Citiem es bie\u017ei \u0161\u0137itu nosl\u0113gts un\nizklaid\u012bgs. Vaina nebija piln\u012bgi man\u012b, jo ar\u012b es bie\u017ei jutu, ka pats nevaru b\u016bt\nar citiem cilv\u0113kiem. Kad tu nevari b\u016bt pats, tu sl\u0113pies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Es ar\u012b jutu, ka nav iesp\u0113jams atrasties uz Zemes ar manu pr\u0101tu. Es\ndom\u0101ju, ka mums ir j\u0101piel\u0101gojas, un t\u0101da r\u012bc\u012bba bija mana vien\u012bg\u0101 iesp\u0113ja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Slikta zem\u0113juma c\u0113lonis vienm\u0113r ir t\u0101ds, ka j\u016bs k\u0101 b\u0113rns kaut k\u0101\nj\u016btaties t\u0101, ka nevarat b\u016bt pats, ka neesat laipni gaid\u012bts t\u0101ds, k\u0101ds esat.\nB\u0113rniem vienm\u0113r ir neapzin\u0101ta atmi\u0146a par gar\u012bg\u0101s pasaules skaistumu,\nrota\u013c\u012bgumu, rado\u0161umu un dz\u012bvesprieku \u2013 vietu, kur nav sloga un piespie\u0161anas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Br\u012bd\u012b, kad augo\u0161s b\u0113rns atkl\u0101j, ka vi\u0146\u0161 at\u0161\u0137iras no citiem, da\u013ca no\nvi\u0146a apzi\u0146as atk\u0101pjas \u2013 cilv\u0113ki sevi zaud\u0113. Tad vi\u0146\u0161 vai vi\u0146a piedal\u012bsies\nma\u0161\u012bn\u0101, ko sauc par m\u016bsdienu sabiedr\u012bbu, un k\u013c\u016bs par t\u0101s da\u013cu \u2013 m\u0113s to saucam\npar izaugsmi. Vai ar\u012b, zinot par savu sap\u0146u pasauli, atk\u0101psies sev\u012b, jo j\u016btas\nt\u0101, it k\u0101 vi\u0146am \u0161aj\u0101 pasaul\u0113 neb\u016btu vietas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pirmk\u0101rt, vi\u0146\u0161 sevi uzskata par iezem\u0113tu, bet vi\u0146\u0161 t\u0101ds nav. Vi\u0146\u0161 dom\u0101,\nka vi\u0146\u0161 past\u0101v t\u0101p\u0113c, ka ir sist\u0113mas da\u013ca. Tom\u0113r sist\u0113ma kopum\u0101 nemaz nav\niezem\u0113ta. Vi\u0146\u0161 vienk\u0101r\u0161i vairs neapzin\u0101s to da\u013cu sev\u012b, kura neiederas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Daudzas m\u016bsdienu biroju \u0113kas un r\u016bpn\u012bcas, pat veselas pils\u0113tas, nav\niezem\u0113tas p\u0113c b\u016bt\u012bbas. Tom\u0113r iedz\u012bvot\u0101ji taj\u0101s to neapzin\u0101s; vi\u0146i uzskata, ka\ntas ir norm\u0101li, un nej\u016bt, ka kaut kas nav k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101. Vi\u0146i ir zaud\u0113ju\u0161i kontaktu\nar savu gar\u012bgo \u201cEs\u201d un iek\u0161\u0113jo\nb\u0113rnu, kur\u0161 ir \u0161\u012bs \u201cEs\u201d da\u013cas\ngalven\u0101 izpausme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pirms da\u017eiem gadiem es staig\u0101ju pa \u0100zijas megapils\u0113tas iel\u0101m.\nApst\u0101d\u012bjumu tikpat k\u0101 nebija, tikai milz\u012bgi p\u016b\u013ci, sp\u0113c\u012bga satiksme, viena\naugstceltne p\u0113c otras. Es paman\u012bju, ka pils\u0113tas ener\u0123ija m\u012bt piln\u012bgi sev\u012b pa\u0161\u0101.\nTur piln\u012bgi tr\u016bka dabiska miera un harmonijas, kas nodro\u0161ina dziedino\u0161u saikni\nar Zemi. Cilv\u0113ki, kas t\u0101d\u0101 pils\u0113t\u0101 darbojas, k\u013c\u016bst par pils\u0113tas ener\u0123ijas da\u013cu\nun zem\u0113juma tr\u016bkumu uzskata par norm\u0101lu; vi\u0146i to uzskata par m\u016bsdienu\nsabiedr\u012bbas izpausm\u0113m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u0101p\u0113c attiec\u012bb\u0101 uz zem\u0113jumu j\u016bs varat cilv\u0113kus iedal\u012bt tr\u012bs grup\u0101s:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Cilv\u0113ki, kuri ir slikti iezem\u0113ti, bet to nezina; vi\u0146i pie\u0146em savus\nierobe\u017eojumus k\u0101 dotumu un piln\u012bgi neapzin\u0101s savu iek\u0161\u0113jo di\u017eenumu. Vi\u0146i sevi\nir piln\u012bb\u0101 identific\u0113ju\u0161i ar eti\u0137eti, ko vi\u0146iem ir pielikusi sabiedr\u012bba,\npiem\u0113ram, pieaugu\u0161ais, str\u0101d\u0101jo\u0161s cilv\u0113ks vai m\u0101jsaimniece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Cilv\u0113ki, kuri ir slikti iezem\u0113ti un to zina. Tie bie\u017ei ir cilv\u0113ki, kuri\n\u0161eit nej\u016btas k\u0101 m\u0101j\u0101s, dom\u0101, ka vi\u0146i \u0161aj\u0101 pasaul\u0113 nav patiesi gaid\u012bti. Vi\u0146i\nredz apk\u0101rt\u0113jo soci\u0101lo realit\u0101ti un j\u016bt, ka vi\u0146iem \u0161eit nav vietas. Vi\u0146i\napzin\u0101s to sevis da\u013cu, kura neatrodas uz Zemes, un dom\u0101: \u201c\u0160\u012b pasaule neatbilst\ntam, kas es esmu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Cilv\u0113ki, kuri ir (vair\u0101k vai maz\u0101k) labi iezem\u0113ti. Neraugoties uz\nvis\u0101m probl\u0113m\u0101m un pretest\u012bbu, vi\u0146i joproj\u0101m zina, k\u0101 atrast savas iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s\npasaules izpausmes veidu. Vi\u0146i pasaulei par\u0101da kaut ko no sava paties\u0101 es.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160is raksts ir paredz\u0113ts, lai pal\u012bdz\u0113tu cilv\u0113kiem p\u0101riet no otr\u0101s grupas\nuz tre\u0161o grupu. Es to gribu dar\u012bt, balstoties uz savu pieredzi. Person\u012bgi es\nvienm\u0113r esmu \u013coti labi zin\u0101jis par savu iek\u0161\u0113jo pasauli, ta\u010du vienk\u0101r\u0161i\ntic\u0113jis, ka manam patiesajam \u201cEs\u201d\nuz Zemes nav vietas. T\u0101tad sav\u0101 zi\u0146\u0101 es biju dz\u012bvojis dubultu dz\u012bvi.\nNeraugoties uz to, es s\u0101ku spert svar\u012bgus so\u013cus pretim Zemei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1.\nsolis \u2013 atv\u0113liet sev laiku, lai uzzin\u0101tu, kas j\u016bs esat<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Raugoties no malas, pirmais solis man bija paradoks\u0101ls. Es nol\u0113mu\nneveidot karjeru un str\u0101d\u0101t p\u0113c iesp\u0113jas maz\u0101k. 20. gs. 80. gadu s\u0101kum\u0101 es\nstr\u0101d\u0101ju tikai nepilnu darba laiku tr\u012bs dienas ned\u0113\u013c\u0101, kas v\u012brietim toreiz bija\n\u013coti neparasti. Man ned\u0113\u013c\u0101 bija veselas \u010detras dienas, kuras var\u0113ju velt\u012bt sev.\nEs atvad\u012bjos no iesp\u0113jam\u0101s soci\u0101l\u0101s karjeras.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Atceros, ka es pirmo reizi darbadien\u0101 g\u0101ju uz bibliot\u0113ku un vienk\u0101r\u0161i\naps\u0113dos las\u012bt. Man tas patika. Laiks sev pa\u0161am, lai nodarbotos ar liet\u0101m, kuras\nman patie\u0161\u0101m \u0161\u0137ita interesantas. Laiks, lai kaut kad ned\u0113\u013cas vid\u016b mazliet\npastaig\u0101tos, kad v\u0113los.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ja v\u0113laties b\u016bt lab\u0101k iezem\u0113ts, tas ir pirmais solis, kas jums j\u0101veic.\nAtv\u0113liet sev laiku. Nav svar\u012bgi, ko j\u016bs ar \u0161o laiku dar\u0101t, kam\u0113r j\u016btat, ka \u0161is\nlaiks viss pieder jums. Katru br\u012bdi, kad tas nav m\u016bsu, m\u0113s paties\u012bb\u0101\nneatrodamies uz Zemes. Lai var\u0113tu dz\u012bvei uz Zemes teikt \u201cj\u0101\u201d un piln\u012bgi\natrasties \u0161eit, mums ir j\u0101j\u016bt, ka mums ir laiks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tas ir milz\u012bgs solis. Uz mums no sabiedr\u012bbas puses tiek izdar\u012bts liels\nspiediens, lai m\u0113s b\u016btu aiz\u0146emti, lai kaut ko dar\u012btu. No mums tiek gaid\u012bts, ka\nm\u0113s veidosim karjeru, peln\u012bsim naudu, b\u016bsim noder\u012bgi sabiedr\u012bbas locek\u013ci,\nr\u016bp\u0113simies par citiem utt. Visas \u0161\u012bs lietas mums izvirza pras\u012bbas. Ja m\u0113s kaut\nko nedar\u0101m, ja m\u0113s atv\u0113lam laiku sev, m\u0113s j\u016btamies vain\u012bgi. Kad m\u0113s vienk\u0101r\u0161i\ns\u0113\u017eam, neko nedarot, tas tiek uzskat\u012bts par sliktu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ir v\u0113l viens iemesls, k\u0101p\u0113c sev atv\u0113l\u0113ts laiks ir tik svar\u012bgs: m\u0113s\nnevaram iezem\u0113ties, kam\u0113r m\u0113s nezin\u0101m, kas m\u0113s esam<\/em>. Kam\u0113r m\u0113s augam, \u0101r\u0113j\u0101\npasaule jums teiks, kas j\u016bs esat. J\u016bs sa\u0146emat v\u0101rdu no saviem vec\u0101kiem; j\u016bs\nesat z\u0113ns vai meitene. No jums tiek gaid\u012bta \u012bpa\u0161a uzved\u012bba atbilsto\u0161i j\u016bsu\ndzimumam. J\u016bs apg\u016bstat \u0161\u012bs idejas par sevi. Tikai tad, ja pats atv\u0113lat sev\nlaiku un telpu, j\u016bs varat atlaist \u0161os iek\u0161\u0113jos v\u0113st\u012bjumus. Man k\u0101 v\u012brietim bija\nsvar\u012bgi atlaist visa veida idejas par to, ko noz\u012bm\u0113 b\u016bt v\u012brietim. Rad\u012bt telpu\nsievi\u0161\u0137ajam man\u012b, telpu b\u0113rnam man\u012b \u2013 telpu e\u0146\u0123elim man\u012b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Laiks sev vienm\u0113r noz\u012bm\u0113, ka agri vai v\u0113lu j\u016bs apzin\u0101sieties, kas\nnotiek j\u016bsu iek\u0161ien\u0113, kas j\u016bs paties\u012bb\u0101 esat sav\u0101 b\u016bt\u012bb\u0101 \u2013 j\u016bsu unik\u0101lais j\u016bs.\nTas jums liks justies sav\u0101d\u0101k, liks sajust, kas j\u016bs paties\u012bb\u0101 esat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u012asta sazem\u0113\u0161an\u0101s s\u0101kas ar laika atv\u0113l\u0113\u0161anu, lai atkl\u0101tu sev\u012b da\u013cu, kura\nnav iezem\u0113ta. Ja j\u016bs to nedar\u0101t un piln\u012bgi ejat l\u012bdzi sabiedr\u012bbas ener\u0123ijai,\ntad j\u016bs noraid\u0101t \u0161o da\u013cu un esat spiesti pieder\u0113t I grupai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.\nsolis \u2013 izpaudiet sevi<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

V\u0113l viens svar\u012bgs solis bija tas, ka es pie\u0146\u0113mu l\u0113mumu padar\u012bt savu\niek\u0161\u0113jo dz\u012bvi redzamu citiem. Es nol\u0113mu par\u0101d\u012bt pasaulei manu \u201cat\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgumu\u201d,\nmanas paties\u0101s kr\u0101sas. Man\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 es to izdar\u012bju, izveidojot t\u012bmek\u013ca vietni\nun public\u0113jot taj\u0101 vis\u0101da veida tekstus par t\u0113mu: \u201cDz\u012bve un Apzi\u0146a\u201d. Gadu gait\u0101\nes biju izstr\u0101d\u0101jis daudz ideju par to, kam l\u012bdzin\u0101s dz\u012bve. Radot t\u012bmek\u013ca\nvietni, man\u012b par\u0101d\u012bj\u0101s kaut kas t\u0101ds, ko es vienm\u0113r biju tur\u0113jis t\u0101l\u0101k no\npasaules, \u2013 es piesk\u0101ros pasaulei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kas notiek, kad j\u016bs to dar\u0101t?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vec\u0101 sabiedr\u012bba nav iezem\u0113ta un nav l\u012bdzsvarota. M\u0113s nedz\u012bvojam\nsimbioz\u0113 ar Zemi; nav harmonijas. M\u016bsu ekonomika balst\u0101s uz Zemes izlaup\u012b\u0161anu.\nM\u0113s \u0101tri ieg\u016bstam no Zemes milz\u012bgus resursus, kas nepiecie\u0161ami, lai turpin\u0101tu\nra\u017eot ap\u0161aub\u0101mu masveida produkciju, un, \u0161\u0101di r\u012bkojoties, m\u0113s izn\u012bcin\u0101m vidi.\nIr skaidrs, ka m\u0113s nevaram m\u016b\u017e\u012bgi turpin\u0101t \u0161o nesabalans\u0113to dz\u012bvesveidu, kur\u0161\nizriet no t\u0101, ka cilv\u0113ku sabiedr\u012bba kopum\u0101 nav iezem\u0113ta. Daudzi tagad\ndz\u012bvojo\u0161ie cilv\u0113ki dom\u0101, ka vi\u0146i ir labi iezem\u0113ti, bet tas t\u0101 nav. Cilv\u0113kiem\nrodas mald\u012bga iezem\u0113t\u012bbas saj\u016bta, jo vi\u0146i ir cie\u0161i savienoti ar lielu\nener\u0123\u0113tisku sist\u0113mu, kas pati par sevi nav iezem\u0113ta. Tas vi\u0146iem \u013cauj ne\u0146emt\nv\u0113r\u0101 Zemi. Rezult\u0101ts ir Zemes izmanto\u0161ana un izn\u012bcin\u0101\u0161ana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Br\u012bd\u012b, kad \u013caujat kaut kam pl\u016bst no sevis dzi\u013cumiem uz Zemi, j\u016bs rad\u0101t\nener\u0123\u0113tisku ciklu. J\u016bs kaut ko atdodat Zemei, un atpaka\u013c n\u0101k pl\u016bsma. Tas ir\ndabisks cikls, kas \u013coti at\u0161\u0137iras no modern\u0101s, postindustri\u0101l\u0101s sabiedr\u012bbas\npl\u0113son\u012bg\u0101 meh\u0101nisma. Radot \u0161\u0101du ciklu ar Zemi, j\u016bs autom\u0101tiski s\u0101ksiet justies\nk\u0101 Zemes da\u013ca un uz\u0146emsieties atbild\u012bbu par Zemi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jo vair\u0101k cilv\u0113ku izveido \u0161\u0101du ciklu, jo tas rada liel\u0101ku un lab\u0101ku\nl\u012bdzsvaru starp do\u0161anu un \u0146em\u0161anu, starp Zemi un cilv\u0113ci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jaunaj\u0101 laikmet\u0101 cilv\u0113ce b\u016bs iezem\u0113ta. Bet to var pan\u0101kt tikai tad, ja\nindiv\u012bdi pie\u0146em l\u0113mumu paust uz Zemes savas skaist\u0101k\u0101s un dzi\u013c\u0101k\u0101s da\u013cas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3.\nsolis \u2013 sakiet \u201cj\u0101\u201d ien\u0101ko\u0161ajai pl\u016bsmai<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Lai \u0161is cikls piln\u012bb\u0101 notiktu un tiktu piln\u012bgi aktiviz\u0113ts, ir svar\u012bgi\nteikt \u201cj\u0101\u201d ien\u0101ko\u0161ajai straumei. Tas var \u0161\u0137ist vienk\u0101r\u0161i, bet tas t\u0101 nav. M\u016bsu\ndz\u012bv\u0113s past\u0101v visda\u017e\u0101d\u0101k\u0101s vec\u0101s bailes un uzskati, kas to kav\u0113. M\u0113s ar\u012b bie\u017ei\nesam izveidoju\u0161i realit\u0101ti, kas to sare\u017e\u0123\u012b d\u0113\u013c \u0161\u012bm vecaj\u0101m bail\u0113m un uzskatiem,\nkas m\u016bs ap\u0146em.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bailes liek mums tur\u0113ties pie t\u0101, kas \u0161\u0137iet dro\u0161ais, paz\u012bstamais \u2013 vecais.\nDarbs, attiec\u012bbas, draugu loks, \u0123imene, dz\u012bves vide \u2013 t\u0101s var b\u016bt visas lietas,\nar kur\u0101m m\u0113s paties\u012bb\u0101 neesam laim\u012bgi, bet kuras tom\u0113r sniedz mums dro\u0161\u012bbas\nsaj\u016btu. Tas ne\u013cauj jaunajam, ko Zeme v\u0113las mums dot, patiesi non\u0101kt m\u016bsu ce\u013c\u0101.\nBailes liek mums palikt savienotiem ar vecaj\u0101m ener\u0123ijas sist\u0113m\u0101m, kas nav\niezem\u0113tas, un bailes liek mums tur\u0113ties pie mald\u012bga zem\u0113juma un dro\u0161\u012bbas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Teikt \u201cj\u0101\u201d jaunajam noz\u012bm\u0113, ka mums ir j\u0101atlai\u017e vecais. Tas ir\nuztic\u0113\u0161an\u0101s solis, un, t\u0101 k\u0101 m\u016bsu cilv\u0113ku pasaule ir balst\u012bta uz bail\u0113m, tas\nnav viegls solis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Izt\u0113lojieties sekojo\u0161o. Jums ir b\u0113rns pusaud\u017ea vecum\u0101. K\u0101du dienu vi\u0146\u0161\nvai vi\u0146a pien\u0101k pie jums un saka: \u201cEs vairs nev\u0113los iet uz skolu, es tur j\u016btos\nnelaim\u012bgs un neko neiem\u0101cos.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iedom\u0101jieties, k\u0101das saj\u016btas jums no t\u0101 rodas. Iesp\u0113jams, panika: doma,\nka ar \u0161o b\u0113rnu tagad viss notiks nepareizi. Dz\u012bve, neko nedarot, paliekot m\u0101j\u0101s,\n\u2013 \u0161\u0101ds b\u0113rns k\u013c\u016bs par piln\u012bgu neveiksminieku. M\u0113s visi v\u0113lamies, lai b\u0113rns\nsa\u0146em savus diplomus un labi apmaks\u0101tu darbu. M\u0113s \u012bsti nevaram notic\u0113t, ka ce\u013c\u0161\nuz laim\u012bgu dz\u012bvi \u0161im b\u0113rnam ir pavisam cit\u0101ds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160\u0101d\u0101 situ\u0101cij\u0101 saj\u016btiet spiedienu, kuru j\u016bs izdar\u0101t uz b\u0113rnu, v\u0113sti, ko\nsniedzat b\u0113rnam: \u201cJa tu neiesi kop\u0101 ar sist\u0113mu, viss noies greizi.\u201d Un t\u0101p\u0113c\nb\u0113rnam ir dzi\u013c\u0161 jaut\u0101jums, k\u0101ds var\u0113tu b\u016bt vi\u0146a vai vi\u0146as ce\u013c\u0161 uz piepild\u012bjumu\nun laimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160\u012b nost\u0101ja, \u0161\u012b p\u0101rliec\u012bba par sist\u0113mu faktiski ir m\u016bsu pa\u0161u \u201csv\u0113t\u0101\u201d\ntic\u012bba, ka, tikl\u012bdz j\u016bs iziesiet no sist\u0113mas, viss ies greizi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0113s esam \u0161is b\u0113rns; m\u0113s j\u016btam savu iek\u0161\u0113jo m\u0113r\u0137i \u2013 ce\u013cu uz laimi. Tom\u0113r\nm\u016bsos ir ar\u012b \u013coti sp\u0113c\u012bga autoritat\u012bva balss, kas saka, ka to nevar izdar\u012bt, ka\nir naivi un b\u0113rni\u0161\u0137\u012bgi tam tic\u0113t un ka ieklaus\u012b\u0161an\u0101s sav\u0101 iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 bals\u012b, sav\u0101s\ndzi\u013c\u0101kaj\u0101s v\u0113lm\u0113s paties\u012bb\u0101 ir eskeipisms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0113s augam ar domu, ka m\u016bsu sabiedr\u012bbas ener\u0123\u0113tisk\u0101 sist\u0113ma nodro\u0161ina\nnoteikt\u012bbu: bankas ir uzticamas, m\u016bsu pensijas ir garant\u0113tas, past\u0101v\u012bgs darbs\nsniedz dro\u0161\u012bbu. Kad m\u0113s esam slimi, \u0101rsti m\u016bs uzlabo, m\u016bsu izgl\u012bt\u012bba garant\u0113\nmums labu darbu utt. Tom\u0113r m\u016bsdien\u0101s m\u0113s atkl\u0101jam, ka \u0161\u012bs lietas nav tik\ndro\u0161as. Iemesls tam ir t\u0101ds, ka m\u016bsu sabiedr\u012bbai kopum\u0101 tr\u016bkst iezem\u0113juma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lab\u0101 zi\u0146a ir t\u0101, ka m\u0113s to varam main\u012bt un ka daudzi cilv\u0113ki to jau\ndara. Vair\u0101k nek\u0101 jebkad \u0161odienas moto ir: \u201cUzlabo pasauli, s\u0101kot ar sevi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vispirms radiet sev labu iezem\u0113jumu un vesel\u012bgu ener\u0123\u0113tisko ciklu, kur\u0101\nj\u016bs izpau\u017eat sevi pasaul\u0113, un atverieties tam, ko pasaule v\u0113las jums sniegt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Atv\u0113rties \u2013 k\u0101 m\u0113s to dar\u0101m? Tikl\u012bdz m\u0113s s\u0101kam st\u0101st\u012bt par to, kas ir\nm\u016bsos, pasaulei, m\u016bsu priek\u0161\u0101 s\u0101k par\u0101d\u012bties jaunas lietas. Ir \u013coti svar\u012bgi\nuztic\u0113ties tam, tic\u0113t tam un dzi\u013ci no sirds pateikt \u201cj\u0101\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Visbeidzot:\npie\u0146emiet beznosac\u012bjuma m\u012blest\u012bbu<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Galu gal\u0101, iezem\u0113\u0161an\u0101s ir \u013coti vienk\u0101r\u0161a lieta: pie\u0146emiet m\u0101tes Zemes\nm\u012blest\u012bbu person\u012bgi. Atsakieties no idejas, ka Zeme ir mirusi, nedz\u012bva lieta,\nun iek\u0161\u0113ji noska\u0146ojieties uz vi\u0146as apzi\u0146u \u2013 un tad j\u016btiet m\u012blest\u012bbu pret jums\nperson\u012bgi. J\u016btiet, ka Zeme v\u0113las jums pal\u012bdz\u0113t un vienm\u0113r atbalsta j\u016bs j\u016bsu\nce\u013c\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dz\u012bves br\u012bnums uz Zemes ir t\u0101ds \u2013 jo vair\u0101k j\u016bs atv\u0113rsieties un b\u016bsiet\npa\u0161i, jo vair\u0101k jut\u012bsieties Zemes m\u012bl\u0113ti. Dzirdiet Zemes aicin\u0101jumu. Dzirdiet,\nk\u0101 vi\u0146a sauc j\u016bsu dv\u0113seli, j\u016bsu patieso \u201cEs\u201d.\nSakiet \u201cj\u0101\u201d sev un sakiet \u201cj\u0101\u201d Zemes m\u012blest\u012bbai, kas dom\u0101ta jums. T\u0101 ir\niezem\u0113\u0161an\u0101s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00a9 Gerrit Gielen<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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