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Pamelas Kribes \u010denelings ar Mariju<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u0101rgie draugi. Es esmu m\u0101te Marija. Es sveicu j\u016bs visus ar prieku sird\u012b. Esmu laim\u012bga dal\u012bties \u0161aj\u0101 mirkl\u012b ar jums, apvienojoties vien\u0101 sird\u012b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Autentisk\u0101 m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u0101 ener\u0123ija ilgu laiku nav bijusi uz Zemes. Ir biju\u0161as daudzas m\u0101tes, ta\u010du tam, k\u0101 vi\u0146as izmantoja savu m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u012bbu, bie\u017ei vien spied\u0101s cauri bailes, raizes un pat agresija. Pag\u0101tnes m\u0101tes bija ievainotas m\u0101tes, kuras savu uzdevumu pild\u012bja, maz b\u016bdamas m\u0101j\u0101s sev\u012b. Vi\u0146as vad\u012bj\u0101s no trauksmes saj\u016btas, ka tiks noraid\u012btas savas paties\u0101s b\u016bt\u012bbas d\u0113\u013c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Autentisk\u0101 m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137uma ener\u0123ija ir \u013coti viegla, maiga un \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi elast\u012bga. S\u0101kotn\u0113j\u0101 m\u0101tes ener\u0123ija ir nesavt\u012bga, bet ne sevis upur\u0113\u0161anas noz\u012bm\u0113. D\u0101sna ir pati m\u0101tes ener\u0123ija sav\u0101 iek\u0161ien\u0113<\/em>. M\u0101te nesavt\u012bgi pasniedz dz\u012bv\u012bbu no savas dzemdes, v\u0113loties turpin\u0101t dz\u012bv\u012bbu un \u013caut b\u0113rniem dz\u012bvot savu dz\u012bvi, att\u012bst\u012bt savu individualit\u0101ti, savu unik\u0101lo ener\u0123iju. Vi\u0146a nev\u0113las neko iepriek\u0161 noteikt vai veidot; vi\u0146a v\u0113las nodot tikai to, kas caur vi\u0146u pl\u016bst.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi\u0146a tur rok\u0101s z\u012bdaini, lai barotu un koptu vi\u0146u, kad tas ir v\u0113l mazs un trausls, bet vi\u0146a ir gatava pav\u0113rt rokas, kad modusies jaun\u0101 dz\u012bv\u012bba ir gatava aiziet, lai t\u0101 var\u0113tu aizlidot br\u012bv\u012bb\u0101. T\u0101 ir m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u012bbas b\u016bt\u012bba, t\u0101da, k\u0101 s\u0101kotn\u0113ji bija iecer\u0113ts: rad\u012bt dz\u012bv\u012bbu, aizsarg\u0101t un tur\u0113t vi\u0146u, kad t\u0101 ir \u013coti neaizsarg\u0101ta un kaila, un p\u0113c tam piln\u012bgi atbr\u012bvot, lai t\u0101 sasniegtu savu m\u0113r\u0137i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u012bbas funkcija da\u013c\u0113ji ir izn\u0113s\u0101t b\u0113rnu, un m\u0101te to dara nesavt\u012bgi, izj\u016btot prieku par to. Vi\u0146a burtiski k\u013c\u016bst par dzemdi kaut kam citam, kaut kam jaunam, un m\u0101te izj\u016bt prieku par \u0161o iesp\u0113ju. Kad jaun\u0101 dz\u012bv\u012bba dzimst, tas ir vi\u0146as pirmais solis \u0101rpasaul\u0113. B\u0113rns izn\u0101k no dzemdes. Un tas m\u0101tei sag\u0101d\u0101 prieku, jo vi\u0146a tagad redz, ko ir izn\u0113s\u0101jusi. Tagad vi\u0146a var mijiedarboties ar to, kas pamodies no vi\u0146as un caur vi\u0146u. Un, b\u0113rnam augot, m\u0101te l\u0113n\u0101m atk\u0101pjas un atlai\u017e, bet neko nezaud\u0113jot. Vi\u0146a atkal atgrie\u017eas sev\u012b, gatavojoties dzemdin\u0101t citu dz\u012bv\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pat man izmantojot b\u0113rnu k\u0101 piem\u0113ru, j\u016bs varat just, ka \u0161im procesam ir pla\u0161\u0101ka noz\u012bme. Visi jaunrades veidi, kad j\u016bs atv\u0113lat vietu kaut kam jaunam un \u013caujat tam br\u012bvi uzplaukt, pieder vienai kategorijai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0101kotn\u0113j\u0101s ener\u0123ijas, m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u0101s m\u012blest\u012bbas, \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi pietr\u016bkst uz Zemes: sieviet\u0113s, v\u012brie\u0161os, b\u0113rnos. Agr\u0101k b\u0113rnu apr\u016bpe bija gandr\u012bz tikai sievie\u0161u pien\u0101kums, un t\u0101 ir nedabiska situ\u0101cija. V\u012brie\u0161iem bija \u013cauts sevi apliecin\u0101t tikai soci\u0101laj\u0101 sf\u0113r\u0101. Vi\u0146iem n\u0101c\u0101s sacensties un apliecin\u0101t sevi \u0101r\u0113j\u0101 pasaul\u0113, savuk\u0101rt sieviet\u0113m bija ier\u0101d\u012bta vieta priv\u0101taj\u0101 m\u0101jas sf\u0113r\u0101. Rezult\u0101t\u0101 sievietes savu identit\u0101ti ieguva tikai no m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137uma. Vi\u0146\u0101m bija maz iesp\u0113ju paust un \u012bstenot savu rado\u0161o, unik\u0101lo ener\u0123iju, kura saka: \u201cT\u0101 esmu es, un es v\u0113los izpausties t\u0101.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sieviete nevar tikai dot un kalpot. Rezult\u0101t\u0101 vi\u0146\u0101 par\u0101d\u0101s neapmierin\u0101t\u012bba, jo v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101 ener\u0123ija vi\u0146ai ir liegta: ener\u0123ija, kura saka \u201cEs\u201d un v\u0113las sevi pozit\u012bvi apliecin\u0101t, izpau\u017eoties rado\u0161\u0101, instinkt\u012bv\u0101 un ar\u012b seksu\u0101l\u0101 veid\u0101. \u0160ie rado\u0161ie sp\u0113ki sieviet\u0113 tika apspiesti, un vi\u0146ai n\u0101c\u0101s visu smelties no m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u012bbas. T\u0101d\u0113j\u0101di m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u012bba ieguva emocion\u0101lu l\u0101di\u0146u un nepiecie\u0161am\u012bbu b\u016bt p\u0101rliecino\u0161ai. Tas m\u0101tei k\u013cuva tik svar\u012bgi, ka vi\u0146a var\u0113ja apsl\u0101p\u0113t savus b\u0113rnus, vai nu p\u0101r\u0101k sarg\u0101jot un nesp\u0113jot atlaist, vai ar\u012b k\u013c\u016bstot aukstai un att\u0101lin\u0101tai. Vi\u0146a juta, ka kaut kas vi\u0146ai tiek at\u0146emts, koncentr\u0113joties tikai uz m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u012bbu. M\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u012bba ieguva izkrop\u013cotu formu; tas s\u0101pin\u0101ja b\u0113rnus un norobe\u017eoja t\u0113vus, un t\u0101p\u0113c \u0161aj\u0101 sp\u0113l\u0113 visiem bija s\u0101p\u012bgas lomas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tom\u0113r \u0161is st\u0101sts nav par vainas apzin\u0101\u0161anos. Svar\u012bgi ir \u2013 lai gan sieviet\u0113m, gan v\u012brie\u0161iem tiktu atjaunota m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u012bbas s\u0101kotn\u0113j\u0101 j\u0113ga, lai it \u012bpa\u0161i sievietes atkal palielin\u0101tu un stiprin\u0101tu savu rado\u0161o sp\u0113ku un atkal izpaustos no savas dv\u0113seles, un protot iest\u0101ties par sevi. Tad m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u012bba vi\u0146u dz\u012bv\u0113 ie\u0146em dabisku vietu: tas v\u0113l nav viss, tas vienk\u0101r\u0161i ir viens no vi\u0146as b\u016bt\u012bbas aspektiem. M\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u012bba var izpausties, dzemd\u0113jot b\u0113rnus, ta\u010du sieviete to var paust ar\u012b cit\u0101di: caur savu darbu, attiec\u012bb\u0101m ar cilv\u0113kiem, draugiem vai tiem, kas vi\u0146ai pal\u012bdz. M\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u012bba ir pla\u0161\u0101ka nek\u0101 vienk\u0101r\u0161i  biolo\u0123iska b\u0113rnu rad\u012b\u0161ana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Es aicinu j\u016bs tagad m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t sajust ener\u0123iju no t\u0101, kas ir m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137s sev\u012b, sav\u0101 sird\u012b. Un, ja j\u016bs v\u0113laties, varat pal\u016bgt man, lai es tuvojos, lai j\u016bs var\u0113tu sazin\u0101ties ar \u0161o \u013coti maigo ener\u0123iju. T\u0101 ir univers\u0101la pl\u016bsma \u2013 t\u0101 nav mana, t\u0101 iet cauri visiem. Bez \u0161\u012bs ener\u0123ijas neb\u016btu Rad\u012b\u0161anas un visuma. T\u0101 ir prim\u0101r\u0101 ener\u0123ija, un t\u0101 ir m\u012blest\u012bba. \u013baujiet tai iepl\u016bst sird\u012b un raugieties, k\u0101 to saj\u016btat tie\u0161i j\u016bs, un \u013caujiet tai pl\u016bst uz j\u016bsu v\u0113deru un iegurni. Izj\u016btiet \u013coti dzi\u013ci, ka \u0161\u012b s\u0101kotn\u0113j\u0101 ener\u0123ija sniedz jums \u201cm\u0101ju\u201d un dro\u0161\u012bbas saj\u016btu, \u013caujot jums atsl\u0101bin\u0101ties un vienlaikus sniedzot jums piln\u012bgu br\u012bv\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Izt\u0113lojieties divas izstieptas rokas, sievietes rokas: atv\u0113rtas, m\u012bkstas un maigas. Ielieciet sevi \u0161aj\u0101s atv\u0113rtaj\u0101s rok\u0101s. T\u0101s \u013caus jums aiziet jebkur\u0101 laik\u0101, bet j\u016bs vienm\u0113r varat atgriezties. J\u016bs varat doties, kurp vien v\u0113laties, bet \u0161\u012bs rokas vienm\u0113r ir j\u016bsu r\u012bc\u012bb\u0101, t\u0101p\u0113c j\u016bs varat k\u0101du laiku atp\u016bsties un apzin\u0101ties, ka ar jums \u2013 t\u0101diem, k\u0101di esat \u2013 br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgi, unik\u0101li un m\u012bl\u0113ti, \u2013 viss ir labi t\u0101pat. J\u016bs esat aizsarg\u0101ti, jums vienm\u0113r ir atbalsts \u2013 t\u0101 ir m\u012blest\u012bba no visuma. \u0160\u012bs m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u0101s rokas, kas tur j\u016bs un ieskauj, \u2013 j\u016bs varat apjaust, \u2013 vi\u0146as redz, kas j\u016bs esat. Vi\u0146as ir laim\u012bgas, kad j\u016bs t\u0101s atst\u0101jat, lai augtu un att\u012bst\u012btos pa\u0161i, un vi\u0146as ir laim\u012bgas, kad j\u016bs vi\u0146\u0101s atgrie\u017eaties. T\u0101s ir g\u0101d\u012bgas, nevis pa\u0123\u0113ro\u0161as rokas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Atlaidiet pag\u0101tnes t\u0113lus. J\u016bsu pa\u0161u biolo\u0123isk\u0101s m\u0101tes dz\u012bv\u0113 bija zin\u0101mi ierobe\u017eojumi un bailes, kuru d\u0113\u013c vi\u0146a nevar\u0113ja b\u016bt dabiska. Piedodiet to vi\u0146ai, kaut ar\u012b piedo\u0161ana da\u017ereiz ir gr\u016bta, \u0146emot v\u0113r\u0101 sekas, k\u0101das piedz\u012bvoj\u0101t. J\u016btiet v\u0113lmi piedot. Nedom\u0101jiet par vi\u0146u tikai k\u0101 par savu m\u0101ti; padom\u0101jiet par t\u0101m daudzaj\u0101m m\u0101t\u0113m, kuru v\u0113sturi veido ilgsto\u0161as un cietsird\u012bgas c\u012b\u0146as starp v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o un sievi\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ar\u012b v\u012brie\u0161iem ir laup\u012bta vi\u0146u paties\u0101 t\u0113vi\u0161\u0137\u012bba, kura noz\u012bm\u0113 ko vair\u0101k, ne tikai b\u0113rnu aizsarg\u0101t un r\u016bp\u0113ties par vi\u0146a izdz\u012bvo\u0161anu. Raugoties emocion\u0101li, t\u0113vi\u0161\u0137\u012bba ir kas daudz liel\u0101ks. Tai ir saist\u012bba ar b\u0113rna faktisk\u0101s unikalit\u0101tes atbalstu: iedro\u0161in\u0101t pie\u0146emt izaicin\u0101jumus un b\u016bt b\u0113rnam par piem\u0113ru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Paties\u0101 t\u0113vi\u0161\u0137\u012bba v\u012brie\u0161iem zin\u0101maj\u0101 v\u0113stur\u0113 galvenok\u0101rt bija burtiski liegta, jo vi\u0146i reti bija m\u0101j\u0101s un vi\u0146u emocion\u0101l\u0101 dz\u012bve t\u0101p\u0113c noplicin\u0101j\u0101s. T\u0101p\u0113c vi\u0146i nevar\u0113ja b\u016bt \u012bsti t\u0113vi, k\u0101di var\u0113tu b\u016bt. Sieviet\u0113m bija j\u0101pilda t\u0113va loma; bet, k\u0101 jau tika min\u0113ts, vi\u0146as to dar\u012bja sagroz\u012bti. V\u012brie\u0161iem un sieviet\u0113m \u2013 katram ir savs ieguld\u012bjums b\u0113rna izgl\u012bto\u0161an\u0101 un izaugsm\u0113, un tam t\u0101 vajadz\u0113tu b\u016bt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tagad m\u0113\u0123iniet sajust s\u0101kotn\u0113jo t\u0113va ener\u0123iju sev\u012b, vi\u0146a univers\u0101lo sp\u0113ku un rado\u0161umu. T\u0113vi\u0161\u0137ums ir aizsarg\u0101jo\u0161s, bet ar\u012b izaicino\u0161s. Tas mudina j\u016bs izp\u0113t\u012bt savas robe\u017eas un p\u0101rvar\u0113t savas bailes. Da\u017ereiz t\u0113vs j\u016bs iedunk\u0101, kad p\u0101r\u0101k esat m\u0101tes rok\u0101s, un saka: \u201cSper soli \u0101rpasaul\u0113; paskaties, kas tur notiek un ko tu tur var\u0113tu atkl\u0101t.\u201d T\u0113vi\u0161\u0137ums un m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137ums darbojas kop\u0101 un nav sav\u0101 starp\u0101 pretrun\u012bgi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0101ti\u0161\u0137uma ener\u0123ija n\u0113s\u0101 j\u016bs sav\u0101s div\u0101s rok\u0101s, kam\u0113r jums tas nepiecie\u0161ams. Bet \u0161\u012bs rokas nev\u0113las j\u016bs padz\u012bt no ligzdas \u2013 t\u0101s tam nav rad\u012btas. Tie\u0161i t\u0113vi\u0161\u0137uma ener\u0123ija dod jums gr\u016bdienu un saka: \u201cTu esi unik\u0101ls cilv\u0113ks, dodies atkl\u0101t, kas tu esi, k\u013c\u016bdies, kl\u016bpi. Es esmu ar tevi, es tev uzticos, uzmundrinu un atbalstu tevi tavos piedz\u012bvojumos.\u201d Ar\u012b no t\u0113vi\u0161\u0137uma n\u0101k ener\u0123ija, kas ir g\u0101d\u012bga un sarg\u0101jo\u0161a, bet t\u0101 ir drosm\u012bg\u0101ka un mudina j\u016bs spert soli nezin\u0101maj\u0101. Uzticieties \u0161ai ener\u0123ijai un uz\u0146emiet to sev\u012b. Raugieties, kur \u0161\u012b t\u0113vi\u0161\u0137\u0101 ener\u0123ija v\u0113las j\u016bsu \u0137ermen\u012b non\u0101kt un vai ir \u012bpa\u0161as vietas, kur nepiecie\u0161ams \u0161\u012bs ener\u0123ijas piepl\u016bdums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Visbeidzot, apzinieties, ka j\u016bs atkal s\u0101kat atpaz\u012bt \u0161\u012bs s\u0101kotn\u0113j\u0101s ener\u0123ijas \u2013 m\u0101ti\u0161\u0137\u0101s un t\u0113vi\u0161\u0137\u0101s \u2013 to patiesaj\u0101 form\u0101; j\u016bs varat ar\u012b dal\u012bties taj\u0101s ar citiem cilv\u0113kiem. T\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101 j\u016bs \u0161o univers\u0101lo m\u012blest\u012bbas pl\u016bsmu p\u0101rst\u0101vat s\u0101j\u0101 pasaul\u0113. Iem\u0101coties atjaunot \u0161\u012bs ener\u0123ijas sev\u012b un s\u0101kot t\u0101s atpaz\u012bt un saprast, j\u016bs pal\u012bdz\u0113siet p\u0101rveidot pag\u0101tni. J\u016bs k\u013c\u016bsiet par gaismu \u0161aj\u0101 pasaul\u0113, kur v\u012bri\u0161\u0137ais un sievi\u0161\u0137ais atkal var uzs\u0101kt kop\u012bgu deju. Un n\u0101kotnes b\u0113rniem b\u016bs lab\u0101ka iesp\u0113ja harmoniski augt. Vi\u0146i k\u013c\u016bs l\u012bdzsvarot\u0101ki, nobriedu\u0161\u0101ki.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Es sveicu j\u016bs ar pateic\u012bbu par j\u016bsu v\u0113lmi to uz\u0146emties un k\u013c\u016bt par piem\u0113ru jaunai n\u0101kotnei. Es jums salut\u0113ju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00a9 Pamela Kribbe<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No ang\u013cu valodas tulkoju\u0161i Marija Baesa (Maria Baes)<\/em> un Franks Tehans (Frank Tehan)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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