D\u0101rgie draugi, man ir prieks atkal b\u016bt ar jums. Kas es j\u016bs redzu, es redzu ne tik daudz j\u016bsu fiziskos \u0137erme\u0146us, k\u0101 j\u016bs redzat sevi spogul\u012b, cik redzu un j\u016btu j\u016bsu iek\u0161\u0113jo b\u016bt\u012bbu \u2013 j\u016bsu domu, saj\u016btu un emociju kust\u012bbu. Esmu \u0161eit, lai pal\u012bdz\u0113tu jums j\u016bsu ce\u013cojum\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160odien es grib\u0113tu apspriest t\u0113mu, kurai ir bijusi \u013coti liela ietekme uz jums visas j\u016bsu Zemes v\u0113stures garum\u0101. T\u0101 ir seksualit\u0101tes t\u0113ma un tas, k\u0101 to p\u0101rdz\u012bvo v\u012brie\u0161i un sievietes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u0101 nav vienk\u0101r\u0161a lieta apsprie\u0161anai. Seksualit\u0101tes t\u0113ma ir apgr\u016btin\u0101ta ar daudziem spriedumiem, bail\u0113m un emocij\u0101m. Neviens t\u0101s aspekts vairs nav spont\u0101ns un pa\u0161saprotams. Tas pats skar ar\u012b seksualit\u0101tes tie\u0161o aspektu, sevi br\u012bvi izzino\u0161a nevain\u012bg\u0101 b\u0113rna aspektu, kas ar\u012b ir pazaud\u0113ts. J\u016bs esat bai\u013cu un spriedzes pilni, kad nepiecie\u0161ams seksu\u0101li izteikt sevi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Es gribu velt\u012bt \u0161o \u010denelingu \u0161ai nastai, bet vispirms es grib\u0113tu nedaudz pateikt par to, ko noz\u012bm\u0113 seksualit\u0101te no gar\u012bg\u0101 redzes viedok\u013ca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Seksualit\u0101te \u2013 t\u0101 ir kop\u0113ja v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s un sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123iju deja. Paties\u012bb\u0101 seksualit\u0101te \u2013 tas ir vair\u0101k k\u0101 fiziskais akts. Tas noz\u012bm\u0113 visu j\u016bsu un j\u016bsu partnera l\u012bme\u0146u un aspektu iesaist\u012b\u0161anu dej\u0101. Es gribu izkl\u0101st\u012bt at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bbas starp \u010detriem l\u012bme\u0146iem jeb aspektiem, iesaist\u012btiem \u0161aj\u0101 ener\u0123iju dej\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pirmais \u2013 tas ir fiziskais l\u012bmenis<\/em><\/strong> \u2013 tas ir fizisk\u0101 \u0137erme\u0146a aspekts. \u0136ermenis ir nevain\u012bgs. Tas zina seksu\u0101lo v\u0113l\u0113\u0161anos un iek\u0101ri, un t\u0101s spont\u0101ni ir kl\u0101t \u0137ermen\u012b. \u0136ermenis mekl\u0113 apmierin\u0101jumu \u0161\u012bm vel\u0113\u0161an\u0101m, un tas ir cilv\u0113ks jeb dv\u0113seles apzi\u0146a, kas nosaka, k\u0101 \u0161\u012bs vel\u0113\u0161an\u0101s izpau\u017eas un izsak\u0101s. V\u0113lreiz atk\u0101rto\u0161os, ka \u0137ermenis ir nevain\u012bgs. Tas, kas tam ir \u2013 t\u0101s ir v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s un iek\u0101re. Taj\u0101 nav nek\u0101 nepareiza. Tas var b\u016bt prieka, sp\u0113les un apmierin\u0101juma avots. Ta\u010du \u0137ermenis pats par sevi neizv\u0113las savas seksu\u0101l\u0101s ener\u0123ijas izteiksmes veidu. Tas esat j\u016bs, k\u0101 cilv\u0113ciska b\u016btne, atbild\u012bgs par to, \u0137ermenim ir nepiecie\u0161ama j\u016bsu vad\u012bba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kad j\u016bs izj\u016btat seksualit\u0101ti vism\u012blo\u0161\u0101kaj\u0101 veid\u0101, vad\u012bbas centrs atrodas sird\u012b. Ja j\u016bs uzliekat sirdij atbild\u012bbu par j\u016bsu seksu\u0101lo ener\u0123iju, t\u0101 atrad\u012bs vispriec\u012bg\u0101ko t\u0101s izpausmes veidu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pret\u0113j\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101, ja at\u013caut j\u016bsu dom\u0101m (spriedumiem) vai emocij\u0101m vad\u012bt seksualit\u0101tes pl\u016bsmas tec\u0113jumu, j\u016bs redz\u0113siet, ka tas noved\u012bs pie j\u016bsu ener\u0123ijas blo\u0137\u0113\u0161anas, bet par to es pateik\u0161u v\u0113l\u0101k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Seksu\u0101l\u0101s dejas otrais aspekts \u2013 tas ir emocion\u0101lais l\u012bmenis<\/em><\/strong>. Seksu\u0101la savien\u012bba \u2013 tas ir dzi\u013ci emocion\u0101ls akts. Ja j\u016bs ignor\u0113jat \u0161o aspektu \u2013 t\u0101tad, j\u016bs nepiln\u012bgi esat kl\u0101t \u0161aj\u0101 darb\u012bb\u0101 un ierobe\u017eojat sev \u012bsto seksualit\u0101tes j\u0113gu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Iepriek\u0161\u0113j\u0101 \u010deneling\u0101 \u201cDarbs ar emocij\u0101m\u201d m\u0113s pla\u0161i apspried\u0101m emociju t\u0113mu. M\u0113s pakav\u0113j\u0101mies pie stipr\u0101m dusmu, bai\u013cu un skumju emocij\u0101m un apspried\u0101m, k\u0101 t\u0101s aizved j\u016bs prom no j\u016bsu centra. Kad jebkuras no \u0161\u012bm stipraj\u0101m emocij\u0101m par\u0101d\u0101s savstarp\u0113j\u0101s attiec\u012bb\u0101s starp diviem cilv\u0113kiem un vi\u0146i t\u0101s apzin\u0101ti neatpaz\u012bst, tas \u012bpa\u0161i izpau\u017eas tuv\u012bbas laik\u0101. \u0160\u012bs emocijas var izsaukt psiholo\u0123isku preto\u0161an\u0101s vai izbeig\u0161anas reakciju fizisk\u0101s tuv\u012bbas laik\u0101, vai nesp\u0113ju \u0137ermenim sajust iek\u0101ri un uzbudin\u0101jumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Eksist\u0113jot t\u0101diem psiholo\u0123iskiem un fiziskiem blokiem, \u013coti svar\u012bgi ir str\u0101d\u0101t ar tiem l\u012bmen\u012b, kur\u0101 tie radu\u0161ies, tas ir, emocion\u0101laj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b. Ja j\u016bs m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t tikt va\u013c\u0101 no fiziskajiem simptomiem, ne\u0146emot v\u0113r\u0101 aiz tiem eso\u0161o emocion\u0101lo dinamiku \u2013 j\u016bs necien\u0101t sevi un savu \u0137ermeni. Kad \u0137ermenis pretojas intimit\u0101tei, tas dod jums skaidru z\u012bmi par to, ka te ir emocion\u0101ls bloks. Tas var b\u016bt probl\u0113mu d\u0113\u013c starp jums un j\u016bsu partneri, vai t\u0101 var b\u016bt emocion\u0101la r\u0113ta, kuru j\u016bs esat atnesis no pag\u0101tnes, Lai kas tas ar\u012b neb\u016btu, tam ir j\u0101tiek nosauktam, noteiktam un aizv\u0101ktam uzman\u012bg\u0101 un m\u012blo\u0161\u0101 veid\u0101, pirms seksu\u0101l\u0101 ener\u0123ija var\u0113s br\u012bvi tec\u0113t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u0101ko\u0161ais aiz emocion\u0101l\u0101 n\u0101k sirds l\u012bmenis<\/em><\/strong> \u2013 tas ir l\u012bmenis, kur m\u012bt saj\u016btas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tai pa\u0161\u0101 \u010deneling\u0101, kuru es jau piemin\u0113ju (\u201cDarbs ar emocij\u0101m\u201d), m\u0113s iez\u012bm\u0113j\u0101m robe\u017eu starp saj\u016bt\u0101m un emocij\u0101m. Saj\u016btas pieder intu\u012bcijas un iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s zin\u0101\u0161anas sf\u0113rai. J\u016bsu saj\u016bto\u0161\u0101 puse run\u0101 ar jums ar klusiem \u010dukstiem, pilniem gudr\u012bbas un l\u012bdzciet\u012bbas. Emocijas ir dramatisk\u0101kas p\u0113c dabas, un m\u0113s t\u0101s nosauc\u0101m par \u201cnesapra\u0161anas spr\u0101dzieniem\u201d, kas t\u0101s faktiski ar\u012b ir \u2013 spr\u0101dzieni no nesapra\u0161anas, kas ar jums notiek. (Sk. \u010denelingu skaidrojumam.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kad seksu\u0101lo partneru sirdis ir atv\u0113rtas viena otrai, starp vi\u0146iem eksist\u0113 uztic\u012bba, m\u012blest\u012bba un savstarp\u0113ja sapratne. Ja sirdis ir atv\u0113rtas tik\u0161an\u0101s laik\u0101, j\u016bs at\u013caujat j\u016bsu intu\u012bcijai lemt, kas notiks fizisk\u0101s tuv\u012bbas laik\u0101. J\u016bs nesl\u0113pjat savas emocijas un atkl\u0101ti run\u0101jat par t\u0101m. Vecas s\u0101pes var izn\u0101kt virspus\u0113, un tas tiek pie\u0146emts pien\u0101c\u012bgi. J\u016bs pie\u0146em t\u0101du, k\u0101ds j\u016bs esat, un \u0161ai pie\u0146em\u0161anai piem\u012bt di\u017es dziedino\u0161s sp\u0113ks. Kad j\u016bs sasaist\u0101t savu sirds ener\u0123iju ar seksu\u0101lo ener\u0123iju, var notikt di\u017ea izdziedin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s jom\u0101, kurai t\u0101 visvair\u0101k vajadz\u012bga. Ta\u010du sirds var ar\u012b netverami trauc\u0113t j\u016bs seksualit\u0101tes izpau\u0161an\u0101 vispriec\u012bg\u0101kaj\u0101 un vism\u012blo\u0161\u0101kaj\u0101 veid\u0101. Sirds da\u017e\u0101du iemeslu d\u0113\u013c var aizv\u0113rties seksu\u0101lajam priekam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pirmk\u0101rt, sird\u012b var b\u016bt kv\u0113la v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s pacelties virs Zemes fizisk\u0101s realit\u0101tes. Otrk\u0101rt, t\u0101s var b\u016bt reli\u0123iskas dogmas, kuras attur sirdi no atv\u0113r\u0161an\u0101s tam, kas \u012bsten\u012bb\u0101 ir \u012bsta seksualit\u0101te. Es tagad piev\u0113rs\u012b\u0161os abiem \u0161iem gad\u012bjumiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sirdij var b\u016bt stipra tieksme pacelties virs materi\u0101l\u0101s realit\u0101tes bl\u012bv\u0101 pl\u0101na. Tas ir nostal\u0123ijas veids. Te var b\u016bt ilgas p\u0113c vienot\u012bbas, kura tom\u0113r neparedz seksu\u0101lu savieno\u0161anos, bet nes sev\u012b neman\u0101mu atteik\u0161anos no Zemes valst\u012bbas (ietverot \u0161eit ar\u012b seksualit\u0101ti).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Daudziem no jums ir paz\u012bstama kv\u0113l\u0101 v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s izrauties no \u0161\u012bs realit\u0101tes. Daudzi no jums atceras m\u012blest\u012bbas un harmonijas ener\u0123iju, kuru j\u016bs izjut\u0101t nemateri\u0101laj\u0101s sf\u0113r\u0101s l\u012bdz iemieso\u0161an\u0101s uz Zemes. J\u016bsu sirdij ir nepiecie\u0161ami \u0161o vibr\u0101ciju nepiespiest\u012bba un vieglums. J\u016bs cen\u0161aties uzs\u016bt \u0161o ener\u0123iju medit\u0101cijas laik\u0101. Bie\u017ei augst\u0101k\u0101s \u010dakras, ar to es dom\u0101ju sirds, galvas, tre\u0161\u0101s acs un kro\u0146a \u010dakras, aktiviz\u0113jas t\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101. T\u0101s atveras, kad tai pat laik\u0101 tr\u012bs apak\u0161\u0113j\u0101s \u010dakras (saules pinums, seksu\u0101li \u2013 rado\u0161\u0101 un mugurkaula pamatnes), kuras ir vit\u0101li svar\u012bgas priek\u0161 j\u016bsu Zemes Es, paliek vair\u0101k vai maz\u0101k neiesaist\u012btas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Maz\u0101k dabisk\u0101 veid\u0101 tas notiek, kad j\u016bs lietojat kaut k\u0101dus prepar\u0101tus. Kad j\u016bs lietojat apzi\u0146u papla\u0161ino\u0161as vielas, aug\u0161\u0113j\u0101s \u010dakras m\u0101ksl\u012bgi pla\u0161i atveras, un j\u016bs varat uz laiku izjust ekst\u0101zi un sv\u0113tlaimi, kas at\u013cauj jums aizmirst par Zemes realit\u0101tes bl\u012bvajiem un smagajiem aspektiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kaut ar\u012b \u0161\u012bs ilgas un v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s iziet aiz r\u0101mjiem ir saprotamas, ir \u013coti svar\u012bgi atrasties mier\u0101 ar Zemes realit\u0101ti. Pret\u0113j\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 j\u016bs rad\u0101t m\u0101ksl\u012bgu sadal\u012bjumu starp j\u016bsu ener\u0123\u0113tisk\u0101 lauka aug\u0161\u0113jo un apak\u0161\u0113jo da\u013cu. J\u016bs atdodat priek\u0161roku esam\u012bbai savas auras aug\u0161\u0113j\u0101 da\u013c\u0101 un audz\u0113jat sl\u0113ptu vai atkl\u0101tu pretest\u012bbu \u0137erme\u0146a, emociju un seksualit\u0101tes realit\u0101tei. Tas rada nel\u012bdzsvarot\u012bbu j\u016bsu ener\u0123\u0113tiskaj\u0101 lauk\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kad j\u016bs skumstat p\u0113c M\u0101j\u0101m, pacentieties atrast j\u016bsu atra\u0161an\u0101s iemeslu un m\u0113r\u0137i uz Zemes tagad. C\u0113lonis, kura d\u0113\u013c j\u016bs esat \u0161eit, nav taj\u0101, lai izrautos no Zemes, bet taj\u0101, lai atvestu M\u0101jas uz Zemi. Tas ir sv\u0113ts ce\u013cojums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Otrs iemesls sirdij izvair\u012bties no seksualit\u0101tes \u2013 ir reli\u0123iskas dogmas, bie\u017ei atnestas no iepriek\u0161\u0113j\u0101m dz\u012bv\u0113m. T\u0101s var\u0113ja b\u016bt dz\u012bves, kur\u0101s j\u016bs uz\u0146\u0113m\u0101ties bezlaul\u012bbas sol\u012bjumu, vai kur\u0101s j\u016bs m\u0101c\u012bja just kaunu un vainu no fiziska apmierin\u0101juma un seksualit\u0101tes. \u0160\u012bs ener\u0123ijas var\u0113ja v\u0113l saglab\u0101ties j\u016bsu sird\u012b. Sakar\u0101 ar to jums var b\u016bt negat\u012bvs viedoklis vai sl\u0113pta pretest\u012bba fiziskai tuv\u012bbai. Aiz \u0161iem viedok\u013ciem un saj\u016bt\u0101m nav paties\u012bbas. Es v\u0113lreiz gribu jums teikt, ka \u0137ermenis pats par sevi ir nevain\u012bgs. Kaisle, v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s un vienk\u0101r\u0161i visi fiziskie procesi, kuri spie\u017e alkt p\u0113c seksu\u0101las savieno\u0161an\u0101s \u2013 tie ir dabiski, vesel\u012bgi procesi. Disbalansi seksu\u0101laj\u0101 sf\u0113r\u0101 vienm\u0113r rodas nefiziskajos l\u012bme\u0146os, divus no kuriem es tagad apspriedu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ceturtais un p\u0113d\u0113jais l\u012bmenis \u2013 tas ir pr\u0101ta aspekts<\/em><\/strong>. Ment\u0101laj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b var eksist\u0113t mor\u0101las vai gar\u012bgas p\u0101rliec\u012bbas, kuras attur j\u016bs no seksu\u0101l\u0101s baudas ieg\u016b\u0161anas. Liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca no \u0161\u012bm p\u0101rliec\u012bb\u0101m ir reli\u0123iskas p\u0113c savas dabas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Gar\u012bgaj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b j\u016bs varat uztvert fizisko \u0137ermeni k\u0101 k\u0101du cietumu. Ne\u2013fizisk\u0101 realit\u0101te jeb \u201caugst\u0101k\u0101s sf\u0113ras\u201d (k\u0101 j\u016bs t\u0101s saucat, ne es) ir tik \u013coti cildin\u0101tas, ka fizisko realit\u0101ti s\u0101k nenov\u0113rt\u0113t. Visbie\u017e\u0101k tas notiek Gaismas Darbinieku vid\u016b. \u012apa\u0161i vi\u0146u vid\u016b bie\u017ei eksist\u0113 pretest\u012bba priekam un baudai, kuru dod seksualit\u0101te. Tas notiek da\u013c\u0113ji mor\u0101lu un reli\u0123isku p\u0101rliec\u012bbu d\u0113\u013c, da\u013c\u0113ji piln\u012bga pieredzes tr\u016bkuma \u0161aj\u0101 dz\u012bves aspekt\u0101 d\u0113\u013c. Vairums Gaismas Darbinieku dv\u0113se\u013cu ir pavad\u012bju\u0161as daudzas iemieso\u0161an\u0101s gar\u012bdznieku, m\u016bku un vi\u0146iem l\u012bdz\u012bgu lom\u0101s, t\u0101lum\u0101 no sabiedr\u012bbas, bez partnera un \u0123imenes. Vi\u0146i tik \u013coti bija koncentr\u0113ti uz gar\u012bgo, ka seksualit\u0101tes sf\u0113ra bija piln\u012bgi ignor\u0113ta. T\u0101dej\u0101di ment\u0101laj\u0101 un gar\u012bgaj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b ar\u012b var b\u016bt zin\u0101ms aizv\u0113rt\u012bbas veids, kas attur j\u016bs no seksu\u0101l\u0101s ener\u0123ijas izp\u0113t\u012b\u0161anas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Gar\u012bgiem un reli\u0123iskiem cilv\u0113kiem bie\u017ei nepietiek cie\u0146as pret \u0137ermeni t\u0101 dabiskaj\u0101s izpausm\u0113s. Paties\u012bb\u0101 tas ir b\u0113d\u012bgi, t\u0101 k\u0101 izteik\u0161an\u0101s mat\u0113rij\u0101 m\u016bsu pus\u0113 skait\u0101s pats sv\u0113t\u0101kais ce\u013cojums, k\u0101du tik dv\u0113sele var uz\u0146emties. S\u0113t s\u0113klas un ieg\u016bt j\u016bsu dievi\u0161\u0137\u012bguma aug\u013cus tik t\u0101lu no M\u0101j\u0101m, mat\u0113rijas un formas realit\u0101t\u0113, ir sakr\u0101ls veikums. Tas ir visaugst\u0101kais dievi\u0161\u0137\u0101s rad\u012b\u0161anas akts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Iesp\u0113jams, j\u016bs kaut kad esat biju\u0161i kl\u0101t pie mirsto\u0161\u0101 gultas vai pie b\u0113rna dzim\u0161anas. \u0160ajos momentos dv\u0113sele pamet vai uzs\u0101k deju ar realit\u0101ti. Abi \u0161ie laika momenti ir aptverti ar sv\u0113tuma atmosf\u0113ru. J\u016bs varat sajust to k\u0101 dzi\u013cu, visaptvero\u0161u godbij\u012bgu klusumu, ievado\u0161u dv\u0113seles atn\u0101k\u0161anu vai do\u0161anos prom. No m\u016bsu aizkl\u0101ja puses ir kl\u0101t dzi\u013c\u0101k\u0101 cie\u0146a pret to, ko j\u016bs dar\u0101t \u0161ajos br\u012b\u017eos. Deja ar mat\u0113riju ir sv\u0113ta. Un j\u016bs piedz\u012bvojat to tik bie\u017ei!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Seksualit\u0101tes \u012bst\u0101 j\u0113ga \u2013 t\u0101 ir deja mat\u0113rij\u0101, kura, tai pat laik\u0101, pace\u013cas virs t\u0101s. Ar sabalans\u0113tu seksu\u0101lo pa\u0161izteik\u0161anos j\u016bs izejat aiz materi\u0101l\u0101s realit\u0101tes ietvariem, neignor\u0113jot un neapspie\u017eot to, nenoniecinot tr\u012bs apak\u0161\u0113j\u0101s \u010dakras ekst\u0101zes mekl\u0113jumos tikai caur augst\u0101kaj\u0101m. Viengabalaina seksualit\u0101te aptver visus j\u016bsu b\u016bt\u012bbas l\u012bme\u0146us. Seksualit\u0101te \u2013 tas ir tilts starp mat\u0113riju un garu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kad divi m\u012blo\u0161i cilv\u0113ki atrodas fizisk\u0101 tuv\u012bb\u0101, visas vi\u0146u \u0137erme\u0146u \u0161\u016bnas s\u0101k vibr\u0113t nedaudz \u0101tr\u0101k… t\u0101s s\u0101k nedaudz dejot. Atveras v\u0101rti uz ener\u0123\u0113tisku realit\u0101ti ar mazliet augst\u0101ku vibr\u0101ciju un gai\u0161\u0101k\u0101m j\u016bt\u0101m. P\u0113c seksu\u0101l\u0101s savieno\u0161an\u0101s, kur\u0101 piedal\u012bj\u0101s j\u016bsu \u0137ermenis, dv\u0113sele un pr\u0101ts, j\u016bs j\u016btaties priec\u012bgs un mier\u012bgs vienlaic\u012bgi. T\u0101 ir klusa ekst\u0101ze. J\u016bsu \u0137erme\u0146a \u0161\u016bnas pam\u0113\u0123in\u0101ja m\u012blest\u012bbas ener\u0123iju, un \u0161aj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b j\u016bs mazlieti\u0146 pietuvin\u0101j\u0101t sev M\u012blest\u012bbas realit\u0101ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ja seksu\u0101laj\u0101 savieno\u0161an\u0101s visi \u010detri l\u012bme\u0146i pl\u016bst kop\u0101 \u2013 notiek sv\u0113ts rad\u012b\u0161anas akts. B\u0113rni, kuri dzimu\u0161i t\u0101d\u0101 akt\u0101, ir pa\u0161i dabisk\u0101kie. Kad v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s un sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123iju deja notiek t\u0101d\u0101 priec\u012bg\u0101 veid\u0101, t\u0101 var atnest tikai labu. Ja b\u0113rns ir ie\u0146emts t\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101, vi\u0146\u0161 ien\u0101k Zemes realit\u0101t\u0113 viegli, M\u012blest\u012bb\u0101 un Gaism\u0101. Tas ir vism\u012blo\u0161\u0101kais uzaicin\u0101jums uz Zemi, kuru dv\u0113sele var sa\u0146emt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sakar\u0101 ar to, ka seksu\u0101l\u0101s ener\u0123ijas ir tik v\u0113rt\u012bgas, m\u0113s l\u016bdzam j\u016bs attiekties ar cie\u0146u pret savu seksualit\u0101ti. Ja ar to rodas probl\u0113mas, bailes vai spriedze, neties\u0101jiet seksualit\u0101ti k\u0101 t\u0101du vai nepagrieziet tai muguru, jo t\u0101 ir dabiska un sv\u0113ta j\u016bsu da\u013ca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Es tagad grib\u0113tu iedzi\u013cin\u0101ties seksualit\u0101tes v\u0113stur\u0113, bet p\u0113c tam pateikt kaut ko par specifiskaj\u0101m probl\u0113m\u0101m, kuras m\u016bsdien\u0101s izj\u016bt sievietes un v\u012brie\u0161i vi\u0146u seksu\u0101laj\u0101 pa\u0161izteiksm\u0113.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Daudz kas var notikt seksualit\u0101tes sf\u0113r\u0101. Sav\u0101 kodol\u0101 seksualit\u0101te nes lielu gaismas potenci\u0101lu, bet tie\u0161i t\u0101p\u0113c \u0161eit ir ar\u012b potenci\u0101la b\u012bstam\u012bba t\u0101s nepareiz\u0101 izmanto\u0161an\u0101. V\u0113sture, par kuru es tagad run\u0101ju \u2013 t\u0101 ir viena no v\u0113stur\u0113m par c\u012b\u0146u varas d\u0113\u013c starp v\u012brie\u0161iem un sieviet\u0113m. T\u0101 ir sena v\u0113sture, kura s\u0101k\u0101s tad, kad \u0101rpuszemes galaktisk\u0101s imp\u0113rijas pirmo reizi sad\u016br\u0101s ar dz\u012bv\u012bbu uz Zemes. (Sk. S\u0113riju \u201cGaismas Darbinieki\u201d detaliz\u0113tam \u0161\u012b perioda aprakstam.) L\u012bdz tam Zeme bija kaut kas l\u012bdz\u012bgs parad\u012bzei, \u0112denes D\u0101rzam, kur domin\u0113ja skaistums un nevain\u012bba. M\u0113s neapspried\u012bsim \u0161eit \u0161o periodu. Vienk\u0101r\u0161i \u0146emiet v\u0113r\u0101, ka j\u016bs atrodaties c\u012b\u0146as par varu p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 f\u0101z\u0113, c\u012b\u0146as, kura ir daudz vec\u0101ka par rakst\u012bt\u0101s v\u0113stures 5000 gadiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0160\u012bs v\u0113stures p\u0113d\u0113j\u0101 stadij\u0101 v\u012brietis saman\u0101mi sp\u0113l\u0113 noziedznieka un apspied\u0113ja lomu. Bet t\u0101 bija ne vienm\u0113r. Bija laiki, kad sieviete bija daudz stipr\u0101ka k\u0101 sabiedriskaj\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113, t\u0101 ar\u012b \u0123imen\u0113. Vi\u0146a cietsird\u012bgi un sadistiski apspieda v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju. Sieviete p\u0113c dabas nav apspiestais un v\u0101jais dzimums, j\u016bs to zin\u0101t, un ar\u012b vi\u0146as m\u012blest\u012bba uz seksu nav liel\u0101ka k\u0101 v\u012brietim. J\u016bsu stereotipi par sievieti k\u0101 maigu, bet bezsp\u0113c\u012bgu rad\u012bjumu, un v\u012brieti \u2013 k\u0101 stipru, bet bezj\u016bt\u012bgu rad\u012bjumu, vair\u0101k pasaka par min\u0113t\u0101s v\u0113stures p\u0113d\u0113jo f\u0101zi nek\u0101 par sievieti un v\u012brieti faktiski.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Eksist\u0113ja laiki pirms rakst\u012bt\u0101s v\u0113stures, ka matriarh\u0101las sabiedr\u012bbas skait\u012bj\u0101s visp\u0101rpie\u0146emtas. Taj\u0101 laik\u0101 sievietes ar\u012b izmantoja savu ener\u0123iju destrukt\u012bv\u0101 veid\u0101, necien\u012bgi attiecoties pret katras v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s b\u016btnes person\u012bgo rado\u0161o un dz\u012bves sp\u0113ku. Tas bija laiks, kad sievietes vald\u012bja p\u0101r v\u012brie\u0161iem. Sievietes kontrol\u0113ja v\u012brie\u0161us un manipul\u0113ja ar vi\u0146iem, izmantojot vi\u0146\u0101m rakstur\u012bgo emociju un intu\u012bcijas sp\u0113ku. Vi\u0146as izmantoja ar\u012b psihisk\u0101s iesp\u0113jas, lai kontrol\u0113tu v\u012brie\u0161us. Bija, piem\u0113ram, upur\u0113\u0161ana un ritu\u0101li, kur v\u012brie\u0161us sp\u012bdzin\u0101ja un nogalin\u0101ja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Es gribu pasv\u012btrot \u0161o aspektu, jo j\u016bsu ofici\u0101l\u0101 v\u0113sture z\u012bm\u0113 vienpus\u0113ju v\u012brie\u0161u un sievie\u0161u savstarp\u0113jo attiec\u012bbu bildi. Sievietes apspie\u0161ana no v\u012brie\u0161a puses ir ac\u012bmredzama visa perioda garum\u0101, kur\u0161 zin\u0101ms no j\u016bsu rakst\u012bt\u0101s v\u0113stures. Ta\u010du neapmierin\u0101t\u012bba un naids, kur\u0161 izpau\u017eas v\u012brie\u0161os attiec\u012bb\u0101 pret sieviet\u0113m (un joproj\u0101m izpau\u017eas) nerad\u0101s tuk\u0161\u0101 viet\u0101. Papildinot kult\u016bras trad\u012bcijas un tieksmes, kas to ietekm\u0113, eksist\u0113 dzi\u013cas emocion\u0101las r\u0113tas kolekt\u012bvaj\u0101 v\u012bri\u0161\u0137aj\u0101 dv\u0113sel\u0113, kuras izaugu\u0161as no agr\u0101ka v\u0113stures perioda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Neiedzi\u013cinoties \u0161\u012bs \u0113ras deta\u013c\u0101s, es gribu uzaicin\u0101t j\u016bs sajust priek\u0161 sevis t\u0101du pieredzi. Jaut\u0101jums sieviet\u0113m \u2013 vai j\u016bs varat izt\u0113loties, ka j\u016bs k\u0101dreiz v\u0113rs\u0101t savu sp\u0113ku pret v\u012brieti un sekm\u012bgi kontrol\u0113j\u0101t vi\u0146u ener\u0123iju? Jaut\u0101jums v\u012brie\u0161iem \u2013 vai j\u016bs varat izt\u0113loties, ka tas bija pla\u0161i izplat\u012bts un ka j\u016bs bij\u0101t \u201cv\u0101jais dzimums\u201d? Varb\u016bt, uzdodot sev \u0161os jaut\u0101jumus, j\u016bs izsauksiet kaut k\u0101dus att\u0113lus vai fant\u0101zijas. At\u013caujiet j\u016bsu intu\u012bcijai vest j\u016bs un pav\u0113rojiet to, k\u0101das emocijas uzpeld\u0113s virspus\u0113. J\u016bs varat b\u016bt p\u0101rsteigti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Naids un sa\u0161utums kolekt\u012bvaj\u0101 v\u012bri\u0161\u0137aj\u0101 dv\u0113sel\u0113 ce\u013cas no \u0161\u012bs sen\u0101s v\u0113stures. Tas izpau\u017eas sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas apspie\u0161an\u0101 politikas sf\u0113r\u0101, k\u0101 ar\u012b reli\u0123ijas sf\u0113r\u0101, \u012bpa\u0161i caur bazn\u012bcu. Ideja par to, ka seksualit\u0101te ir gr\u0113c\u012bga un n\u0101k no s\u0101tana, ir v\u012bri\u0161\u0137a, un taj\u0101 redzama neapmierin\u0101t\u012bbas un naida ietekme v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas apspie\u0161anas d\u0113\u013c cit\u0101 laikmet\u0101. V\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101 seksualit\u0101te taj\u0101 laik\u0101 tika uztverta tikai k\u0101 p\u0113cn\u0101c\u0113ju rad\u012b\u0161anas instruments. V\u012brie\u0161a saj\u016btas un t\u0113va un b\u0113rna emocion\u0101l\u0101 saikne netika cien\u012btas. Bie\u017ei m\u0101te audzin\u0101ja b\u0113rnus atsevi\u0161\u0137i no t\u0113va, bet vi\u0146a domas un v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s netika \u0146emtas v\u0113r\u0101. Svar\u012bgas v\u0113rt\u012bbas tika nodotas caur m\u0101tes fig\u016bru, un v\u012brie\u0161a nepilnv\u0113rt\u012bba bija viena no t\u0101d\u0101m v\u0113rt\u012bb\u0101m. V\u012brietis bija dr\u012bz\u0101k \u201cdarba zirgs\u201d nek\u0101 vienl\u012bdz\u012bgs partneris.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Papildus bazn\u012bcai, kura ir nepamierin\u0101t\u0101s v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas balsts, zin\u0101tnes pasaule ar\u012b izr\u0101da naid\u012bgumu pret sievi\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju. Kaut gan reli\u0123ija un zin\u0101tne daudzos jaut\u0101jumos karo sav\u0101 starp\u0101, t\u0101s ir vienotas pretest\u012bb\u0101 intuit\u012bvajam, pl\u016bsto\u0161ajam sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas aspektam. Bazn\u012bcas dogmas ir satrun\u0113ju\u0161as, cietas un neelast\u012bgas, bet zin\u0101tnes metode ar\u012b sav\u0101 zi\u0146\u0101 ir ierobe\u017eota. Kaut ar\u012b m\u016bsdienu zin\u0101tnes pamudino\u0161ais impulss bija v\u0113rsts uz apgaism\u012bbu un atjauno\u0161anu (v\u0113loties g\u0101zt no tro\u0146a maldu autorit\u0101tes), t\u0101 (zin\u0101tne) iespr\u016bda racion\u0101l\u0101s dom\u0101\u0161anas \u0161aurajos r\u0101mjos, kura nedeva sievi\u0161\u0137ajai ener\u0123ijai eksistences ties\u012bbas. Zin\u0101tniskais dom\u0101\u0161anas veids ir anal\u012btisks un lo\u0123isks, ta\u010du tas ir nepietiekami atv\u0113rts izt\u0113lei un ekstrasensorajiem (intuit\u012bvajiem) izzi\u0146as avotiem. Antip\u0101tiju, kuru daudzi zin\u0101tnieki izj\u016bt pret \u201cparanorm\u0101laj\u0101m\u201d un visp\u0101r pret jebkur\u0101m par\u0101d\u012bb\u0101m, kuras nepak\u013caujas lo\u0123iskam izskaidrojumam, tom\u0113r izsauc dv\u0113seles atmi\u0146a par s\u0101p\u0113m un pazemojumu, kuri eksist\u0113ja laikos, kad sieviete \u013caunpr\u0101t\u012bgi izmantoja psihisko ener\u0123iju un izmantoja to pret vi\u0146iem k\u0101 manipul\u0113\u0161anas instrumentu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Es run\u0101ju par \u0161o seno v\u0113sturi t\u0101p\u0113c, ka es grib\u0113tu skaidri likt saprast, ka \u201cdzimumu kauj\u0101\u201d galu gal\u0101 nav nek\u0101du p\u0101ridar\u012bt\u0101ju un upuru, nek\u0101du \u201clabo un slikto pui\u0161u\u201d, jo visi j\u016bs esat biju\u0161i gan tie, gan otri. T\u0101 bija c\u012b\u0146a starp v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o un sievi\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123ij\u0101m, kur\u0101 t\u0101s k\u013cuva pret\u0113jas, kad tai pat laik\u0101 s\u0101kotn\u0113ji t\u0101s papildin\u0101ja viena otru. Pa\u0161reiz\u0113j\u0101 laik\u0101 v\u012brietis un sieviete ir aicin\u0101ti atkal apvienot savus sp\u0113kus un atkal atrast prieku un godu v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101 un sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101 ori\u0123in\u0101laj\u0101 dej\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas b\u016bt\u012bba ir vad\u012bb\u0101 un iedvesm\u0101, bet v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s \u2013 kalpo\u0161an\u0101 un aizsardz\u012bb\u0101. V\u012bri\u0161\u0137ais aspekts uz\u0146emas manifest\u0101ciju form\u0101s un darb\u012bb\u0101s. Abas ener\u0123ijas darbojas caur katru cilv\u0113ku, caur katru indiv\u012bdu, nav svar\u012bgi, vai tas ir v\u012brietis vai sieviete. Nav svar\u012bgi, kas j\u016bs esat \u2013 v\u012brietis vai sieviete. Skait\u0101s tikai l\u012bdzsvars un savstarp\u0113j\u0101s attiec\u012bbas starp ab\u0101m ener\u0123ij\u0101m j\u016bsos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Es gribu tagad parun\u0101t par ener\u0123\u0113tiskajiem blokiem seksualit\u0101tes sf\u0113r\u0101, kuri ir specifiski v\u012brie\u0161iem un sieviet\u0113m. Sieviet\u0113m tas ir pirm\u0101s un otr\u0101s \u010dakras apvidus (mugurkaula pamatne un naba), kuras ir visvair\u0101k cietu\u0161as seksu\u0101l\u0101s apspie\u0161anas un vardarb\u012bbas rezult\u0101t\u0101, kas notika gadsimtu gait\u0101. Da\u017e\u0101s t\u016bksto\u0161gad\u0113s sieviet\u0113m bija atv\u0113l\u0113ta pak\u013caut\u0101s loma gandr\u012bz vis\u0101s sabiedriskaj\u0101s sf\u0113r\u0101s, un tas viss v\u0113l turpin\u0101s daudz\u0101s viet\u0101s uz Zemes. Attiec\u012bb\u0101 pret seksualit\u0101ti \u0161\u012b nevienl\u012bdz\u012bba izpau\u017eas vardarb\u012bb\u0101, uzbrukumos un pazemojumos lielos m\u0113rogos. T\u0101 rezult\u0101t\u0101 daudzas sievietes un visp\u0101r kolekt\u012bv\u0101 sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101 dv\u0113sele ir neticami cietu\u0161as. Eksist\u0113 dzi\u013cas emocion\u0101las r\u0113tas un ir nepiecie\u0161ams laiks, m\u012blest\u012bba un r\u016bpes to izdziedin\u0101\u0161anai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bie\u017ei aicin\u0101jumu uz seksu\u0101lu savien\u012bbu sieviete j\u016bt k\u0101 sirds ilgas vai dv\u0113seles saj\u016btas. Ta\u010du, kad sievietes st\u0101jas fizisk\u0101 tuv\u012bb\u0101, izr\u0101d\u0101s, ka vi\u0146as nevar br\u012bvi izteikt savu seksu\u0101lo ener\u0123iju ener\u0123\u0113tisko bloku d\u0113\u013c pirmaj\u0101 un otraj\u0101 \u010dakr\u0101s. \u0160ajos ener\u0123\u0113tiskajos centros eksist\u0113 (dv\u0113seles) atmi\u0146a par seksualit\u0101ti, v\u0113rstu pret vi\u0146\u0101m un vi\u0146as pazemojo\u0161u. \u0160\u012b pieredze bija tik s\u0101p\u012bga, ka sievietes iz\u0146\u0113ma savu ener\u0123iju, savu apzi\u0146u no v\u0113dera apvidus. Kad \u0161\u012b \u0137erme\u0146a da\u013ca tagad atgrie\u017eas pie seksualit\u0101tes, musku\u013ci intens\u012bvi saraujas jeb emocion\u0101lais \u0137ermenis autom\u0101tiski pretojas. Fizisk\u0101s \u0161\u016bnas atceras par traumu un ne\u013caujas tik viegli aicin\u0101jumam uz deju. T\u0101s grib aizv\u0113rties un rad\u012bt barjeru j\u016bsu aizsardz\u012bbai pret agresiju. T\u0101da reakcija ir piln\u012bgi saprotama, un tai ir nepiecie\u0161ama cie\u0146as pilna attieksme. Jebkura veida sp\u0113ka izmanto\u0161ana pretest\u012bbas apspie\u0161anai tikai uztrauks \u0161o centru br\u016bces no jauna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ja jums k\u0101 sievietei ir t\u0101das emocijas, ir \u013coti svar\u012bgi piln\u012bb\u0101 apzin\u0101ties t\u0101s. T\u0101s var b\u016bt dusmas, pretest\u012bba vai bailes no fiziskas tuv\u012bbas. Un visas \u0161\u012bs emocijas, k\u0101 likums, ir vec\u0101kas k\u0101 j\u016bsu pa\u0161reiz\u0113j\u0101s attiec\u012bbas, pat vec\u0101kas k\u0101 j\u016bsu pa\u0161reiz\u0113j\u0101 iemieso\u0161an\u0101s uz Zemes. Visdr\u012bz\u0101k t\u0101s ir senas traumas, kas ir atst\u0101ju\u0161as r\u0113tas j\u016bsu apak\u0161\u0113j\u0101s \u010dakr\u0101s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Noteikti es ieteiktu sieviet\u0113m, kuras atpaz\u012bst sev\u012b \u0161\u012bs s\u0101pes, griezties pie dz\u012bv\u0113m, kur vi\u0146as bija p\u0101ridar\u012bt\u0101js\/noziedznieks (pret\u0113ji upurim). O, ja jums ir gr\u016bti ieg\u016bt pieeju iepriek\u0161\u0113j\u0101m dz\u012bv\u0113m, ieejiet kontakt\u0101 ar \u201cp\u0101ridar\u012bt\u0101ja vai stipr\u0101s sievietes ener\u0123iju\u201d j\u016bsu iek\u0161ien\u0113. Tas var skan\u0113t d\u012bvaini, bet iemesls ir taj\u0101. Kam\u0113r j\u016bs bij\u0101t seksu\u0101l\u0101s vardarb\u012bbas upuris, daudz dusmu ir sakr\u0101jies j\u016bsu ener\u0123\u0113tiskaj\u0101 lauk\u0101. Tas var\u0113ja ilgt vair\u0101kas iemieso\u0161an\u0101s. \u0160\u012bs dusmas blo\u0137\u0113 j\u016bs un tur bezpal\u012bdz\u012bbas un upura st\u0101vok\u013ca saj\u016btu g\u016bst\u0101. Lai atbr\u012bvotos no dusm\u0101m, nepiecie\u0161ama sapra\u0161ana. Jums j\u0101saprot, kas un k\u0101p\u0113c. Ir nepiecie\u0161ams ieraudz\u012bt pla\u0161\u0101ku ainu. Kad j\u016bs var\u0113siet izt\u0113loties sevi k\u0101 stipro sievieti, ne\u017e\u0113l\u012bgu un cietu attiec\u012bb\u0101 pret v\u012brie\u0161iem, un sajust, ka t\u0101 ar\u012b ir j\u016bsu da\u013ca \u2013 tad j\u016bsu dusmas iz\u0161\u0137\u012bd\u012bs. Dzi\u013c\u0101ka sapra\u0161ana var rasties no iek\u0161\u0113jas zin\u0101\u0161anas, ka j\u016bs esat da\u013ca no daudz liel\u0101kas karmisk\u0101s v\u0113stures, kur\u0101 j\u016bs sp\u0113l\u0113j\u0101t abas, k\u0101 p\u0101ridar\u012bt\u0101ja, t\u0101 ar\u012b upura, lomas. Praktiski nav iesp\u0113jams atbr\u012bvoties no s\u0101pju, bezsp\u0113c\u012bbas un upura saj\u016btas emocij\u0101m, negrie\u017eoties pie j\u016bsu pret\u0113j\u0101s puses, \u201ctum\u0161\u0101s puses\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Jums nav nepiecie\u0161ams atgriezieties atpaka\u013c iepriek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s dz\u012bv\u0113s, lai atpaz\u012btu sev\u012b \u0161o tum\u0161o pusi. J\u016bs varat ar\u012b vair\u0101k apzin\u0101ties to sev\u012b, pav\u0113rojot sevi ikdienas dz\u012bv\u0113. Kad j\u016bs j\u016btat \u0161o ener\u0123iju, tas ir, v\u0113l\u0113\u0161anos pielietot sp\u0113ku vai ievainot k\u0101du citu, j\u016bs varat saprast, ka j\u016bs esat ne tikai \u0101r\u0113jo apst\u0101k\u013cu bezpal\u012bdz\u012bgs upuris. Eksist\u0113 karmiska saite starp p\u0101ridar\u012bt\u0101ju un upuri. Abas lomas atspogu\u013co j\u016bsu aspektus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u0101 tikko j\u016bs esat uzzin\u0101jusi un pie\u0146\u0113musi savu tum\u0161o pusi, j\u016bs varat no citas puses paskat\u012bties uz sav\u0101m iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101m r\u0113t\u0101m un s\u0101kt piedot. Kad rodas sapra\u0161ana, dusmas var iz\u0161\u0137\u012bst, un j\u016bs varat st\u0101ties kontakt\u0101 ar emociju l\u012bme\u0146iem, kuri atrodas zem\u0101k. Skumjas, b\u0113das, s\u0101pes atrodas daudzos sl\u0101\u0146os, tai skait\u0101 ar pa\u0161\u0101 fiziskaj\u0101 \u0137ermen\u012b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u013boti svar\u012bgi sievietei atz\u012bt sev\u012b p\u0101ridar\u012bt\u0101ja aspektu un s\u0101kt ar to str\u0101d\u0101t. Kad j\u016bs j\u016btat sev\u012b neapmierin\u0101t\u012bbu un nepie\u0146em\u0161anu attiec\u012bb\u0101 pret seksualit\u0101ti, atcerieties, ka, jo liel\u0101ku neapmierin\u0101t\u012bbu un dusmas j\u016bs j\u016btat, jo vair\u0101k j\u016bs asoci\u0113jat sevi ar upura lomu un jo vair\u0101k br\u012bv\u012bbas j\u016bs sev at\u0146emat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pam\u0113\u0123iniet sajust iek\u0161ien\u0113, ka seksualit\u0101tes ar\u0113n\u0101 karmisk\u0101 luga, kur\u0101 j\u016bs esat nosp\u0113l\u0113ju\u0161i abas \u2013 gan lab\u0101, gan slikt\u0101 pui\u0161a \u2013 lomas, jau beidzas. No \u0161ejienes j\u016bs varat sasniegt piedo\u0161anas vietas. Piedo\u0161anas sev, t\u0101pat k\u0101 k\u0101dam citam. Visam ir savs c\u0113lonis. Vardarb\u012bbas un represijas akti var likties bezj\u0113dz\u012bgi, bet aiz katra no tiem st\u0101v savs st\u0101sts. Un, kad seksu\u0101l\u0101 vardarb\u012bba vien neb\u016btu bijusi, t\u0101 atst\u0101j dzi\u013cas p\u0113das visos \u010detros cilv\u0113cisk\u0101s b\u016btnes l\u012bme\u0146os.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bloki v\u012bri\u0161\u0137aj\u0101 seksualit\u0101t\u0113 izpau\u017eas galvenok\u0101rt sirds vai galvas apvidos. \u0160ajos l\u012bme\u0146os var b\u016bt bailes no \u201ckapitul\u0101cijas\u201d, bailes no dzi\u013cas emocion\u0101las tuv\u012bbas. \u0160\u012bs bailes n\u0101k no laikiem, kuri ir sen\u0101ki, nek\u0101 j\u016bs varat iedom\u0101ties. Tas attiecas uz laikmetu, kad sievietes domin\u0113ja p\u0101r v\u012brie\u0161iem. Tas padara seksu\u0101l\u0101s pievilc\u012bbas sp\u0113li, s\u0101kotn\u0113ji nevain\u012bgu un spont\u0101nu, par draud\u012bgu. V\u012brie\u0161i ir iem\u0101c\u012bju\u0161ies to, ka ir b\u012bstami atkl\u0101ti izr\u0101d\u012bt savas emocijas un atv\u0113rt savu sirdi partnerim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u012brie\u0161os ir dzi\u013ci iesak\u0146oju\u0161\u0101s bailes pazaud\u0113t savu jut\u012bgo pusi, un \u0161\u012bs bailes ne oblig\u0101ti izpau\u017eas fiziskaj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b. Vi\u0146i var piedal\u012bties fizisk\u0101 seksa akt\u0101, turot savas saj\u016btas att\u0101lum\u0101. T\u0101dej\u0101di, v\u012brie\u0161iem seksualit\u0101te var b\u016bt fiziskaj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b un piln\u012bgi vai da\u013c\u0113ji neb\u016bt saj\u016btu l\u012bmen\u012b. Vi\u0146u emocijas ir ieslodz\u012btas aiz bail\u0113m atv\u0113rties un atkal k\u013c\u016bt ievainojamam ar atteikumu. Ir \u0161eit veca dv\u0113seles atmi\u0146a par pamest\u012bbas saj\u016btu un emocion\u0101l\u0101m traum\u0101m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Visp\u0101r ener\u0123\u0113tiskie bloki v\u012brie\u0161iem un sieviet\u0113m ir nedaudz at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgi. Attiec\u012bgi, \u013coti svar\u012bgi ir dal\u012bties sav\u0101s saj\u016bt\u0101s vienam ar otru, kad esat kop\u0101. Ja j\u016bs patie\u0161\u0101m uzticaties savam partnerim, j\u016bs varat bez kautr\u0113\u0161an\u0101s izzin\u0101t, kur iestr\u0113gst j\u016bsu seksu\u0101l\u0101 ener\u0123ija intimit\u0101tes laik\u0101. Laik\u0101, kad uzbudin\u0101juma un tuv\u012bbas straume starp jums pieaug, to var izdar\u012bt, vienk\u0101r\u0161i apzinot, l\u012bdz k\u0101dai pak\u0101pei j\u016bs at\u013caujat sev to izjust un izteikt. Vai j\u016bs j\u016btat sastr\u0113gumu vai bloku kaut k\u0101d\u0101 fizisk\u0101 \u0137erme\u0146a vai saj\u016btu un emociju sf\u0113ras da\u013c\u0101? Vai j\u016bs j\u016btat siltu mirdzumu sird\u012b, kad esat kop\u0101? Vai j\u016bs j\u016btat gar\u012bgu atv\u0113rt\u012bbu attiec\u012bb\u0101 viens pret otru? Vai esat gatavi pie\u0146emt otru ar visu, kas vi\u0146am ir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tas var skan\u0113t d\u012bvaini, ta\u010du j\u016bs baid\u0101ties no \u012bstas tuv\u012bbas. J\u016bs visi alkstat p\u0113c piln\u0101m, apmierin\u0101t\u0101m savstarp\u0113j\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m. Uz ielas gandr\u012bz katrs rekl\u0101mas stabs kliedz par emocion\u0101lo un seksu\u0101lo attiec\u012bbu ide\u0101lu. Ta\u010du \u012bsta tuv\u012bba baida j\u016bs. Kad k\u0101ds tuvojas jums \u013coti tuvu un tas prasa no jums no\u0146emt visas maskas, j\u016bsos pace\u013cas visi aizliegumi, par kuriem j\u016bs nezin\u0101t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pacentieties nenosod\u012bt sevi taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, kad tas uzpeld virspus\u0113. Glu\u017ei otr\u0101di, uztveriet to k\u0101 iesp\u0113ju izzin\u0101t j\u016bsos eksist\u0113jo\u0161os aizliegumus un blokus. Neviens nav br\u012bvs no tiem. Praktiski visiem cilv\u0113kiem ir tie vai citi bloki, kuri ne\u013cauj izjust seksualit\u0101ti taj\u0101 pilnaj\u0101 noz\u012bm\u0113, k\u0101 es aprakst\u012bju to s\u0101kum\u0101. L\u016bk, k\u0101p\u0113c es l\u016bdzu j\u016bs ar m\u012blest\u012bbu ieskat\u012bties seksu\u0101l\u0101s ener\u0123ijas pl\u016bsm\u0101 j\u016bsu iek\u0161ien\u0113, nav svar\u012bgi, vai esat viens, vai attiec\u012bb\u0101s, un g\u0101d\u012bgi un ar cie\u0146u iz\u0101rst\u0113t blokus, kurus j\u016bs tur atrad\u012bsiet. Sp\u0113ks \u0161aj\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 ir slikt\u0101kais padomdev\u0113js. Vit\u0101li svar\u012bgi ir tikai paciet\u012bba un m\u012blest\u012bba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Uzturiet dz\u012bvu savu v\u0113l\u0113\u0161anos p\u0113c \u012bstas un pilnas seksualit\u0101tes! Juma nav j\u0101izlej b\u0113rns kop\u0101 ar \u016bdeni. V\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s sauc. Ce\u013c\u0161 pie piln\u012bgas un priec\u012bgas seksualit\u0101tes var b\u016bt ilgs un visu v\u0113ju app\u016bsts. Ta\u010du pa ce\u013cam j\u016bs izaudzin\u0101siet m\u012blest\u012bbu un l\u012bdzj\u016bt\u012bbu k\u0101 pret sevi, t\u0101 ar\u012b pret citiem, kas ir \u013coti v\u0113rt\u012bgi j\u016bsu cilv\u0113ciskaj\u0101 pasaul\u0113.<\/p>\n\n\n\n J\u016bs izdziedin\u0101t senu v\u0113sturi c\u012b\u0146ai starp v\u012brieti un sievieti. V\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101 un sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101 ener\u0123ijas atkal grib b\u016bt kop\u0101 un savienoties prieka un jaunrades dej\u0101. Visam, ko j\u016bs taj\u0101 ieliksiet individu\u0101laj\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b, b\u016bs pozit\u012bva ietekme uz kolekt\u012bvo v\u012bri\u0161\u0137o un sievi\u0161\u0137o dv\u0113seli. J\u016bsu m\u012blest\u012bba pret sevi padar\u012bs paciet\u012bbas un m\u012blest\u012bbas ener\u0123ijas pieejamas ar\u012b citiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Je\u0161ua par izdziedin\u0101\u0161anu<\/em><\/strong>Nodots caur Pamelu Kribbe<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\nSeksu\u0101l\u0101s probl\u0113mas un dzimumu kauja<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Bloki sievi\u0161\u0137aj\u0101 seksualit\u0101t\u0113<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Bloki v\u012bri\u0161\u0137aj\u0101 seksualit\u0101t\u0113<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Paciet\u012bba un m\u012blest\u012bba<\/h3>\n\n\n\n