{"id":85,"date":"2020-03-03T09:00:07","date_gmt":"2020-03-03T09:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/wp\/?p=85"},"modified":"2020-03-03T09:00:07","modified_gmt":"2020-03-03T09:00:07","slug":"vedera-speks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/cenelingi\/mariju-magdalenu\/vedera-speks\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u0113dera sp\u0113ks"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong><em>Pamelas \u010denelings ar Mariju Magdal\u0113nu<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u0101rgie draugi, es esmu Marija Magdal\u0113na. Es sveicu j\u016bs visus ar siltumu un prieku man\u0101 sird\u012b. J\u016bs esat paz\u012bstami un tuvi man. M\u0113s esam sav\u0113jie, jo m\u0113s visi ejam to pa\u0161u ce\u013cu kop\u0101, bet katrs no mums sav\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 unik\u0101l\u0101 veid\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160odien es grib\u0113tu run\u0101t par sievi\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju un k\u0101 t\u0101 \u0161aj\u0101 laik\u0101 var att\u012bst\u012bties, jo tas ir b\u016btiski izmai\u0146\u0101m apzi\u0146\u0101, kura kopum\u0101 cilv\u0113cei ir nepiecie\u0161ama, lai virz\u012btos uz priek\u0161u. Ir nepiecie\u0161ams l\u012bdzsvars starp v\u012bri\u0161\u0137aj\u0101m un sievi\u0161\u0137aj\u0101m ener\u0123ij\u0101m, gan pasaul\u0113 kopum\u0101, gan atsevi\u0161\u0137u cilv\u0113ku dz\u012bv\u0113s. Sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas jau sen ir apspiestas, boj\u0101tas un savainotas, un tas ir novedis pie vienpus\u0113jas v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas domin\u0113\u0161anas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No pirm\u0101 acu uzmetiena var\u0113tu likties, ka l\u012bdzsvars jau ir atrisin\u0101ts: sieviet\u0113m daudz\u0101s valst\u012bs praktiski ir t\u0101das pa\u0161as ties\u012bbas k\u0101 v\u012brie\u0161iem. \u0160aj\u0101s pasaules da\u013c\u0101s sieviete var izpausties tikpat br\u012bvi k\u0101 v\u012brietis, baud\u012bt izgl\u012bt\u012bbu, karjeru, varas poz\u012bciju un sp\u0113j sakr\u0101t bag\u0101t\u012bbu. Tom\u0113r dzi\u013c\u0101k\u0101 l\u012bmen\u012b kaut k\u0101 pietr\u016bkst un nav l\u012bdzsvar\u0101. Tas, kas paties\u012bb\u0101 notiek, kad sieviete cen\u0161as pan\u0101kt l\u012bdzties\u012bbu \u0161\u0101d\u0101 veid\u0101, ir, ka vi\u0146a piesavin\u0101s v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s domin\u0113\u0161anas un kontroles ener\u0123ijas un s\u0101k t\u0101s izmantot sav\u0101s interes\u0113s un amb\u012bcij\u0101s. Tas pats par sevi nav nepareizi, bet jaut\u0101jums ir, vai tas dzi\u013ci piepilda sievietes dv\u0113seli, t\u0101pat k\u0101 ir papildus jaut\u0101jums, vai v\u012brie\u0161a dv\u0113sele ir dzi\u013ci piepild\u012bta ar sakr\u0101to sp\u0113ku un domin\u0113\u0161anu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160aj\u0101 laik\u0101 arvien vair\u0101k un vair\u0101k cilv\u0113ku mekl\u0113 dzi\u013c\u0101ku piepild\u012bjumu. Vi\u0146i v\u0113las dz\u012bvot p\u0113c iedvesmas un saist\u012bties ar Zemi un saviem l\u012bdzcilv\u0113kiem, ticot vi\u0146u sird\u012bm, nevis rea\u0123\u0113jot ar bail\u0113m. Tie ir ide\u0101li, kuri skar jaunie\u0161u sirdis. Vec\u0101 v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101 kontroles un apspie\u0161anas ener\u0123ija ir nokalpojusi savu gadsimtiem ilgo ce\u013cu; ir jauna paaudze, kas dom\u0101 un j\u016bt sav\u0101d\u0101k. Un \u0161eit sl\u0113pjas sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas faktiskas aug\u0161\u0101mcel\u0161anas iesp\u0113ja, kas ietver ne tikai soci\u0101lo un politisko ties\u012bbu atg\u016b\u0161anu sieviet\u0113m, bet ar\u012b to dzi\u013co iek\u0161\u0113jo br\u016b\u010du dziedin\u0101\u0161anu, kuras tika rad\u012btas sievietes psihei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kas ir noticis ar sievi\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju pag\u0101tn\u0113? Tai tika at\u0146emta ener\u0123ija daudzos veidos, gan ar gar\u012bgu, gan fizisku vardarb\u012bbu, un \u0161\u012b v\u0113sture ir pierakst\u012bta, t\u0101p\u0113c man nevajag \u0161eit taj\u0101 iedzi\u013cin\u0101ties. Mana uzman\u012bba \u0161eit ir v\u0113rsta galvenok\u0101rt uz to, k\u0101 iek\u0161\u0113jo sievi\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju \u0161\u012b vardarb\u012bba ir ietekm\u0113jusi. Ja j\u016bs paraudz\u012bsieties uz kolekt\u012bvo sievietes auru, piem\u0113ram, uz vid\u0113jas sievietes ener\u0123ijas lauku, j\u016bs ieraudz\u012bsiet tuk\u0161umu, caurumu v\u0113dera apvid\u016b. Apvidus ap zem\u0101ko ener\u0123iju centriem \u2013 saknes, nabas un saules pinuma \u010dakr\u0101m \u2013 ir bez ener\u0123ijas un tuk\u0161s. T\u0101ds st\u0101voklis \u0161ajos centros ir daudz\u0101m sieviet\u0113m, un vi\u0146as, parasti tikai pa pusei apzin\u0101ti, j\u016bt mazv\u0113rt\u012bbu, bailes un nedro\u0161\u012bbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0101kotn\u0113jais sievi\u0161\u0137ais v\u0113dera sp\u0113ks noz\u012bm\u0113 b\u016bt vit\u0101lai un iezem\u0113tai. Sieviete p\u0113c savas b\u016bt\u012bbas j\u016bt saikni ar Zemi un sezonu ritmiem, un gudr\u012bba vi\u0146as sird\u012b balst\u0101s uz dabisku pa\u0161cie\u0146as saj\u016btu. Diem\u017e\u0113l tas gadsimtu gait\u0101 ir zaud\u0113ts, un bez \u0161\u012b pamata, dabisk\u0101 sp\u0113ka v\u0113der\u0101, sieviete nevar l\u012bdzsvaroti savienoties ar pasauli ap vi\u0146u. Vi\u0146a vienk\u0101r\u0161i par daudz atdod sevi citiem un \u0161aj\u0101 atdo\u0161an\u0101 sevi pazaud\u0113, un t\u0101p\u0113c vi\u0146a bie\u017ei nesp\u0113j ie\u0146emt savu person\u012bgo telpu un noteikt robe\u017eas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja jums ir ievainots kodols ar noraid\u012bjumu, (seksu\u0101lu) vardarb\u012bbu un pazemojumu, notiks izmai\u0146a j\u016bsu ener\u0123iju lauk\u0101: j\u016bsu apzi\u0146a atst\u0101s j\u016bsu v\u0113deru, kur\u0161 ir m\u012btne j\u016bsu emocij\u0101m, saska\u0146ot\u012bbai un intimit\u0101tei. Kad kl\u0101tb\u016btne \u0161aj\u0101 \u0137erme\u0146a apvid\u016b ir p\u0101r\u0101k s\u0101p\u012bga, j\u016bs norobe\u017eojaties no sevis un iz\u0146emat apzi\u0146u no v\u0113dera. J\u016bsu apzi\u0146a tad pak\u0101pjas un iestr\u0113gst j\u016bsu auras aug\u0161\u0113j\u0101 da\u013c\u0101, l\u012bdz ar to j\u016bs k\u013c\u016bstat nom\u0101ktas, un var iest\u0101ties depresija vai noguruma saj\u016bta, vai, ka nav pilnas piek\u013cuves j\u016bsu ener\u0123ijai. Papildus notiku\u0161\u0101s vardarb\u012bbas traumai un dzi\u013cajam emocion\u0101lajam apmulsumam, kas rodas rezult\u0101t\u0101, tagad ir ar\u012b skumjas un sevis zaud\u0113\u0161anas tuk\u0161ums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tas \u012bsum\u0101 ir tas, kas ir noticis ar sievietes psihi. Kaut ar\u012b ne visas individu\u0101l\u0101s sievietes uzr\u0101da \u0161o modeli t\u0101d\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 m\u0113r\u0101, t\u0101 joproj\u0101m ir visp\u0101r\u0113ja tendence, ko var apkopot \u0161\u0101di:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; v\u0113ders, kur\u0161 ir emociju, seksualit\u0101tes un intimit\u0101tes m\u012btne un dabiski un cie\u0161i ir saist\u012bts ar Zemi, ir sam\u0113r\u0101 tuk\u0161s. Vi\u0146\u0161 j\u016btas apdraud\u0113ts \u0161eit b\u016bt, gan s\u0101pju d\u0113\u013c, kuras \u0161eit joproj\u0101m ir atmi\u0146\u0101, gan sp\u0113ka d\u0113\u013c, kur\u0161 \u0161eit atrodas pas\u012bv\u0101 st\u0101vokl\u012b \u2013 ir bied\u0113jo\u0161i sastapt \u0161o sp\u0113ku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; k\u0101 atk\u0101p\u0161an\u0101s kust\u012bbas rezult\u0101ts ir izveidojusies plaisa ener\u0123ijas lauk\u0101 starp aug\u0161\u0113jiem un apak\u0161\u0113jiem ener\u0123iju centriem, starp sirds rajonu un v\u0113dera rajonu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; sirds ener\u0123ija, iedvesmas un m\u012blest\u012bbas centrs, nevar izpaust sevi, tec\u0113t uz \u0101ru un dabiski savienoties ar pasauli un citiem cilv\u0113kiem. \u0160\u012b pl\u016bsma ir blo\u0137\u0113ta vai nu t\u0101p\u0113c, ka ir p\u0101r\u0101k daudz bai\u013cu un \u0161aubu, vai t\u0101p\u0113c, ka ir vajadz\u012bba&nbsp;<em>tik cie\u0161i<\/em>&nbsp;savienoties ar otru, ka j\u016bs sevi pazaud\u0113jat \u0161aj\u0101 cilv\u0113k\u0101 un k\u013c\u016bstat no vi\u0146a emocion\u0101li atkar\u012bgas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sievietes, kuras sav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 nekad nav pieredz\u0113ju\u0161as vardarb\u012bbu \u2013 ment\u0101lu, psihisku, seksu\u0101lu \u2013 ar\u012b bie\u017ei uzr\u0101da \u0161o reakcijas modeli. T\u0101 k\u0101 vecie mode\u013ci var b\u016bt p\u0101rnesti no iepriek\u0161\u0113j\u0101m dz\u012bv\u0113m, j\u016bsu sievi\u0161\u0137ajai ener\u0123ijai pag\u0101tn\u0113 var b\u016bt nodar\u012bts boj\u0101jums, kur\u0161 v\u0113l nav pietiekami izdziedin\u0101ts pa\u0161reiz\u0113j\u0101 iemiesojum\u0101. Turkl\u0101t k\u0101 sievieti j\u016bs skar sievietes visp\u0101r\u0113j\u0101 psihe, sievietes domin\u0113jo\u0161ais t\u0113ls un kolekt\u012bv\u0101 pieredze pag\u0101tn\u0113. Katrai sievietei ir bijusi dar\u012b\u0161ana ar to, ko es \u0161eit aprakstu;&nbsp;<em>jebkurai<\/em>&nbsp;sievietei nav viegli vai dabiski atz\u012bt sava v\u0113dera sp\u0113ku un tie\u0161\u0101m b\u016bt kl\u0101teso\u0161ai no sirds iezem\u0113t\u0101, sevi apzino\u0161\u0101 veid\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0101 k\u0101 \u0161is ir apzi\u0146as transform\u0113\u0161an\u0101s laiks, ir k\u013cuvis v\u0113l vair\u0101k nepiecie\u0161ams dziedin\u0101t ener\u0123\u0113tisko br\u016bci v\u0113der\u0101. Ja j\u016bs esat nol\u0113mu\u0161as att\u012bst\u012bties pa gar\u012bgo ce\u013cu un j\u016btat v\u0113lmi dz\u012bvot no savas sirds un savas vispaties\u0101k\u0101s iedvesmas, j\u016bs k\u0101 sieviete atkl\u0101siet, ka saskaraties ar dzi\u013ci iesak\u0146ot\u0101m s\u0101p\u0113m. Izcelties, lai padar\u012btu sevi liel\u0101ku, un st\u0101ties konfliktos nen\u0101kas viegli un noliek j\u016bs aci pret aci ar gr\u016btiem jaut\u0101jumiem par pa\u0161cie\u0146u un patiesumu pret sevi. Sav\u0101 zi\u0146\u0101 j\u016bs k\u0101 sieviete esat aicin\u0101ta transform\u0113t da\u013cu no&nbsp;<em>visu<\/em>&nbsp;sievie\u0161u kolekt\u012bvaj\u0101m s\u0101p\u0113m. T\u0101tad, dziedinot savas s\u0101pes, j\u016bs rad\u0101t jaunus ce\u013cus kolekt\u012bv\u0101s apzi\u0146as papla\u0161in\u0101\u0161anai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Par gar\u012bgo att\u012bst\u012bbu pla\u0161i tiek uzskat\u012bta savas sirds atv\u0113r\u0161ana, savieno\u0161an\u0101s ar citiem caur m\u012blest\u012bbu un ego atlai\u0161ana. Tom\u0113r sieviet\u0113m, kur\u0101m ir dar\u012b\u0161ana ar sp\u0113ka tr\u016bkumu sav\u0101 v\u0113der\u0101, te sl\u0113pjas vair\u0101kas nepiln\u012bbas. Ja j\u016bs savienojaties ar citiem bez stingras kl\u0101tb\u016btnes j\u016bsu v\u0113der\u0101, j\u016bsu centr\u0101, savienot\u0101 ar&nbsp;<em>j\u016bsu<\/em>&nbsp;vajadz\u012bb\u0101m un&nbsp;<em>j\u016bsu<\/em>&nbsp;patiesumu, tad savieno\u0161an\u0101s ar citiem var \u0101tri vest pie sevis pazaud\u0113\u0161anas un pat l\u012bdz nesp\u0113kam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ja j\u016bs esat \u013coti jut\u012bga persona ar atv\u0113rtu sirds \u010dakru, kas viegli saj\u016bt citu cilv\u0113ku noska\u0146ojumu un emocijas, j\u016bs b\u016bsiet ieguv\u0113ja, stabili j\u016btot savas robe\u017eas, un tam jums vajadz\u012bgs stingrs ego. Un ar \u201cstingru ego\u201d es dom\u0101ju, ka jums vajadz\u012bga skaidra saj\u016bta,&nbsp;<em>kur beidzaties j\u016bs un kur s\u0101kas otrs cilv\u0113ks<\/em>. \u0160\u012b saj\u016bta jums \u013cauj apzin\u0101ties, kad j\u016bs dodat par daudz, varb\u016bt t\u0101p\u0113c, ka j\u016bs v\u0113laties patikt, vai neuzdro\u0161in\u0101ties teikt \u201cn\u0113\u201d. Tas, ko sniedz vesel\u012bgs ego, ir, ka j\u016bs skaidri un prec\u012bzi zin\u0101t, kas ar jums notiek, un j\u016bsu mijiedarb\u012bbu ar citiem cilv\u0113kiem. V\u0101rds ego ir tapis izkrop\u013cots, un simboliz\u0113 visu, kas ir zem\u0101kais un kas b\u016btu j\u0101atlai\u017e, bet sieviet\u0113m \u0161\u012b apzin\u0101\u0161an\u0101s un robe\u017eu noteik\u0161anas forma ir&nbsp;<em>\u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi<\/em>&nbsp;svar\u012bga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u012brie\u0161iem att\u012bst\u012bbas process ir piln\u012bgi at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgs. V\u012brie\u0161i ir uzaugu\u0161i ar cit\u0101du mor\u0101li. Vi\u0146i k\u0101 z\u0113ni ir aicin\u0101ti at\u0161\u0137irt, sacensties un izcelties. Tas var b\u016bt diezgan s\u0101p\u012bgi v\u012brie\u0161iem, kuri nej\u016btas m\u0101j\u012bgi, t\u0101 darot, kuri ir dabiski jut\u012bgi, dom\u012bgi vai klusi. Bet jebkur\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 v\u012brie\u0161i ir maz\u0101k mudin\u0101ti dot, kam\u0113r amb\u012bcijas un agresivit\u0101te ir pozit\u012bvi v\u0113rt\u0113tas. V\u012brie\u0161os ar\u012b eksist\u0113 pag\u0101tn\u0113 izrais\u012bta ener\u0123\u0113tiska r\u0113ta. V\u012brie\u0161i ir tapu\u0161i at\u0161\u0137elti no savas pa\u0161a sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas, sav\u0101m izj\u016bt\u0101m un intu\u012bcijas, un vi\u0146i to pieredz k\u0101 prieka, emociju un savienojuma zaud\u0113\u0161anu. Vi\u0146u sird\u012b ir tuk\u0161ums \u2013 maz\u0101k vi\u0146u v\u0113der\u0101 \u2013 un \u0161is tuk\u0161ums v\u012brie\u0161us nomoka tikpat daudz, cik sievietes cie\u0161 no tuk\u0161\u0101s telpas sav\u0101 v\u0113der\u0101. Abi dzimumi ir saboj\u0101ti no trad\u012bcij\u0101m, kur\u0101s j\u016bs dz\u012bvojat, un abi dzimumi ir tapu\u0161i ievainoti at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgos veidos, t\u0101dej\u0101di viengabalain\u012bbas atg\u016b\u0161ana ietver at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bgas noz\u012bmes abiem dzimumiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u012brie\u0161iem uzsvars uz sirds atv\u0113r\u0161anu parasti ir sv\u0113t\u012bgs. Savieno\u0161an\u0101s ar sav\u0101m izj\u016bt\u0101m, \u013cau\u0161ana par\u0101d\u012bt vi\u0146u ievainojam\u012bbu, un sievi\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju atz\u012b\u0161ana sev\u012b ir b\u016btiski veidi, v\u0113rsti uz v\u012brie\u0161u dziedin\u0101\u0161anu. Bet sieviet\u0113m tas sav\u0101 zi\u0146\u0101 ir tie\u0161i pret\u0113ji. Vi\u0146\u0101m sevis dziedin\u0101\u0161anas ce\u013c\u0161 iet caur patiesumu pret sevi, skaidru robe\u017eu uztur\u0113\u0161anu, savas v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas atz\u012b\u0161anu un savu unik\u0101lo talantu apzin\u0101\u0161anos un izpau\u0161anu. Ener\u0123\u0113tiski tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka j\u016bs \u0146emat ener\u0123iju no savas sirds, savas dv\u0113seles vis\u0101 ce\u013c\u0101 uz j\u016bsu v\u0113dera l\u012bmeni. T\u0101tad tas noz\u012bm\u0113 dzi\u013ci nolaisties iegur\u0146a dobum\u0101, kur\u0161 simboliz\u0113 sievi\u0161\u0137\u0101s ener\u0123ijas pirmatn\u0113jo sp\u0113ku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Viens no veidiem, k\u0101 sievietes var p\u0101rn\u0101kt m\u0101j\u0101s pie savas b\u0101zes, ir vair\u0101k apzin\u0101ti str\u0101d\u0101t ar dusm\u0101m, kuras vi\u0146\u0101 glab\u0101jas. Daudzas sievietes apspie\u017e dusmu vai vil\u0161anos emocijas, jo dusmas izraisa bai\u013cu saj\u016btu vai liek vi\u0146\u0101m justies bezsp\u0113c\u012bg\u0101m. Dusmas ir b\u012bstamas, jo t\u0101s var j\u016bs ievest konflikt\u0101 ar citiem, un, ja j\u016bs j\u016btat, ka nevarat past\u0101v\u0113t par sevi un paust savas dusmas, j\u016bs j\u016btaties bezsp\u0113c\u012bgas. Tad dusmas var p\u0101rv\u0113rsties depresij\u0101, pasivit\u0101t\u0113 vai cinism\u0101.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tom\u0113r j\u016bs varat s\u0101kt uzskat\u012bt dusmas par v\u0113rt\u012bgu sign\u0101lu, ka kaut kas vai k\u0101ds ir p\u0101rk\u0101pis j\u016bsu robe\u017eas, un t\u0101p\u0113c j\u016bs j\u016btaties ievainotas; par sign\u0101lu, kuru j\u016bs varat izmantot, lai rad\u012btu pozit\u012bvas izmai\u0146as j\u016bsu dz\u012bv\u0113. Laipni pie\u0146emot dusmas, j\u016bs sevi uztverat nopietni, kas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka sp\u0113ku, kur\u0161 ietverts dusm\u0101s, var izteikt pozit\u012bv\u0101 veid\u0101. Pirmais solis ir neraudz\u012bties uz dusm\u0101m k\u0101 uz kaut ko sliktu un nenosod\u012bt sevi par t\u0101m. Sieviet\u0113m tas ir daudz gr\u016bt\u0101k nek\u0101 v\u012brie\u0161iem, jo vi\u0146as daudz vair\u0101k izmanto atsac\u012b\u0161anos no sevis un atsac\u012b\u0161anos no savas vietas cita lab\u0101, nevis savu dabisko robe\u017eu piepras\u012b\u0161anu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tas ir iemesls, k\u0101p\u0113c es v\u0113los v\u0113rsties pie \u013coti jut\u012bg\u0101m sieviet\u0113m, kuras iet gar\u012bgo ce\u013cu:&nbsp;<em>r\u016bp\u0113jieties par sava v\u0113dera sp\u0113ku, atz\u012bstiet to, stingri palieciet sav\u0101s robe\u017e\u0101s un uzdro\u0161inieties piecelties<\/em>. J\u016bs gar\u012bgumu m\u0113dzat asoci\u0113t ar m\u012blest\u012bbu, gaismu un savieno\u0161anos, un tie ir b\u016btiski atrib\u016bti, bet l\u012bdzsvarots savienojums ar pasauli ap jums ir atkar\u012bgs no j\u016bsu sp\u0113jas at\u0161\u0137irt, kas priek\u0161 jums ir pareizi un kas nepareizi, lai atdal\u012btu un, kad vajag, atvienotos t\u0101 viet\u0101, lai nepamatoti apvienotos un savienotos. Priek\u0161 t\u0101 jums vajag piln\u012bb\u0101 nov\u0113rt\u0113t sevi, savas vajadz\u012bbas, savus talantus un&nbsp;<em>visas<\/em>&nbsp;savas emocijas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tas ir izaicin\u0101jums vis\u0101m sieviet\u0113m. Kad sievietes nav piln\u0101 kl\u0101tb\u016btn\u0113 sava v\u0113dera apvid\u016b, vi\u0146as m\u0113dz no savas sirds p\u0101r\u0101k daudz atdot citiem, iztuk\u0161ot sevi attiec\u012bb\u0101s ar citiem, piem\u0113ram, saviem m\u012b\u013cajiem, saviem b\u0113rniem, saviem vec\u0101kiem, saviem draugiem. Zaud\u0113t sevi cit\u0101 cilv\u0113k\u0101 ir p\u0101r\u0101k bie\u017ea paz\u012bme, ka neesat piln\u012bb\u0101 m\u0101j\u0101s ar sevi, ar savu pa\u0161as b\u0101zi. Ja \u0161eit domin\u0113jo\u0161\u0101 ir tuk\u0161uma vai atsve\u0161in\u0101\u0161an\u0101s saj\u016bta, tad ir vilino\u0161i sniegties p\u0113c otra, lai atvieglotu \u0161o saj\u016btu. Jums tas \u0161\u0137ietami ir m\u012blest\u012bbas d\u0113\u013c, bet tur sl\u0113pjas cits mot\u012bvs:&nbsp;<em>jums vajadz\u012bgs otrs, lai justos pie\u0146emtas un labas esam<\/em>. Tom\u0113r patiesa gar\u012bga izaugsme noz\u012bm\u0113, ka j\u016bs m\u0101c\u0101ties jaut\u0101jumu \u2013 k\u0101ds ir mans mot\u012bvs savienoties ar pasauli ap mani, ar maniem m\u012b\u013cajiem, maniem draugiem, maniem b\u0113rniem, maniem vec\u0101kiem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tagad izv\u0113lieties vienu no \u0161\u012bm attiec\u012bb\u0101m un piev\u0113rsiet uzman\u012bbu savam v\u0113deram. No \u0161\u012b l\u012bme\u0146a j\u016btiet, cik daudz vietas j\u016bs ie\u0146emat \u0161aj\u0101s attiec\u012bb\u0101s vai cik daudz j\u016bs sa\u0146emat. Piem\u0113ram, j\u016bs k\u0101du m\u012blat un jaut\u0101jat vi\u0146am: \u201cVai es j\u016btos piln\u012bb\u0101 pie\u0146emta mana v\u0113dera rajon\u0101, kad esmu vi\u0146a kl\u0101tb\u016btn\u0113?\u201d Dariet to pa\u0161u ar draudzeni. Elpojiet dzi\u013ci sav\u0101 centr\u0101, kad j\u016bs dom\u0101jat par vi\u0146u, un j\u016btiet savu atbildi. Vai j\u016bs j\u016btat kaut ko, kas blo\u0137\u0113 vai nov\u0113r\u0161 j\u016bsu elpu? Eksperiment\u0113jiet ar to k\u0101 ar vad\u012btu medit\u0101ciju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pamata jaut\u0101jums ir: vai j\u016bsu v\u0113ders attiec\u012bb\u0101s atsl\u0101bin\u0101s? Vai j\u016bs j\u016btaties akcept\u0113tas un vai esat br\u012bvas b\u016bt pa\u0161as? Jeb j\u016bs j\u016btat, ka dar\u0101t visu iesp\u0113jamo un nost\u0101d\u0101t sevi nedabisk\u0101 veid\u0101? Varb\u016bt j\u016bs j\u016btat, ka j\u016bsu ener\u0123ijas tiek izsmeltas, kad esat ar otru cilv\u0113ku; tad j\u016bsu apzi\u0146a pace\u013cas uz j\u016bsu galvu un zaud\u0113 savu pamatu, j\u016bsu v\u0113deru. Kad tad notiek, nenosodiet sevi, bet ar m\u012blest\u012bbu paraugieties uz sav\u0101m bail\u0113m vai uzticieties sev un ie\u0146emiet sev pien\u0101ko\u0161os vietu.&nbsp;<em>Konstat\u0113jos sev\u012b bailes, j\u016bs t\u0101s transform\u0113jat<\/em>. Un jums tas nav j\u0101dara vienatn\u0113. Sievie\u0161u kolekt\u012bv\u0101 ener\u0123ija main\u0101s. Kas dod labumu jums pa\u0161\u0101m, un no otras puses visiem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00a9 Pamela Kribbe<br><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jeshua.net\/\">www.jeshua.net<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tulkoja J\u0101nis Oppe<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pamelas \u010denelings ar Mariju Magdal\u0113nu D\u0101rgie draugi, es esmu Marija Magdal\u0113na. Es sveicu j\u016bs visus ar siltumu un prieku man\u0101 sird\u012b. J\u016bs esat paz\u012bstami un tuvi man. M\u0113s esam sav\u0113jie, jo m\u0113s visi ejam to pa\u0161u ce\u013cu kop\u0101, bet katrs no mums sav\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 unik\u0101l\u0101 veid\u0101. \u0160odien es grib\u0113tu run\u0101t par sievi\u0161\u0137o ener\u0123iju un&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"><a class=\"btn btn-default\" href=\"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/cenelingi\/mariju-magdalenu\/vedera-speks\/\"> Read More<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">  Read More<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-85","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mariju-magdalenu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=85"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":86,"href":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85\/revisions\/86"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=85"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=85"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeshua.net\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=85"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}